Wednesday, June 25, 2014
Lo que la vida me robó, ep. 160, Tues. 6/24/14: Shut up! No, you shut up! No, YOU shut up!
She is completely D I L A T E D!
Labels: robo
On a personal note, I’ve been married for 40 years this year. I married a Dominican guy I met at the age of 15 and married at 20. I still remember the priest’s warning to me during marriage counseling that Latin men usually have lovers, plus my husband’s business, hotel management, made temptation even worse. After seeing how my father-in-law would spend days away from my husband’s wonderful mother because of his mistress, I made sure that I would never put up with “hanky-panky” of any kind. I work in a male-dominated industry (building foundation engineering, a/k/a geotechnical engineering) and my husband works in a predominantly female industry. My stance on this issue has made for a wonderfully successfully marriage. Forgiveness is one thing, but true love is based on complete confidence and understanding. How can Esme ever trust Refugio again? As one blogger wrote about last night’s episode, Refugio did the whole marriage proposal and mariachi thing after treating Esme like crap for months. Esme should do what she loves most – dance and be a mom.
Of course, I’m still on the Adolfo bandwagon, hoping somehow he can redeem himself (maybe by turning states’ evidence against Pedro). It’s a TN so all things are possible. But most bloggers tend to believe Adolfo will be killed off in the end. I was so moved by his tears for Josefina. I’ve been watching some earlier episodes and really am beginning to understand the complexity of the relationship between Adolfo and Maria, all the way back to the “hacienda” days. But even back then, as bad a boy as Adolfo was, there was good in him at that time. Remember he tried to get Dim to leave Monse alone and not blackmail her about J.L. being at the hacienda? I’ve always sensed a conflicted Adolfo.
Does anyone think that Gracie is actually turning a page and trying to do what is best for Monse? Tonight’s episode really had me wondering. Although when Monse asked her if she just was doing all this for Ale’s inheritance, Gracie didn’t say “no, I don’t want his money, just your happiness”. But somehow I think Gracie’s turning against J.L. is more than just wanting Ale’s money. Tell me I’m reading things wrong, but the whole scene left me wondering.
Most of all, I thought Ale’s calling J.L. a coward brought us all the way back to the beginning of the novella when J.L. didn’t have the courage to talk to Monse’s father about wanting to marry her. Even Padre Anselmo commented many times on J.L. cowardliness. I believe the only way the writers will redeem J.L. is for him to die while possibly saving Ale and/or Monse’s life. Remember Adolfo in Amor Real?
Unfortunately the previews, don’t tell us much about what will happen tomorrow. I loved the ending though --- Ale showing up at Pedro’s. Wasn’t that GREAT! Talk about a cliff-hanger ending!
Mr. Maven and I just got back from San Diego and the wedding of our dear daughter. We are now officially part of a marvelous Mexican-American family that really knows how to have a good time.
When I asked my daughter if she would call herself Ms. Maven, Ms. Maven-Sabelotodo, or Mrs. Sabelotodo, she told me she was opting for the third choice. Then my yerno chimed in that for the past two weeks, she had been prefacing nearly every remark with these words: "As a proud Latina woman..."
So as the mother of a proud Latina woman...
Enjoy the recap!
I wish that I'd known that you were gonna be in San Diego. I've always wondered what you look like. I would have come and met you. I live in San Diego too. Next time, email me so that we can meet for coffee or something. I already have a date with CathyX is she comes here. Where was the wedding? What side of town? That is awesome! Congratulations! Cynderella
My faves:
¡¡¡¡AY AY AY AY AY!!!!! Look Ma, No Epidural!
Graciela is a free agent since the SDB forgot to include a non-compete clause.
Is it just me or does he keep getting his rating lowered like a human junk bond or something?
In true Mob Tradition I will henceforth refer to him as Mad Dog Alvarez.
And we got two slaps heard across Mexico.
No, Gracie isn't repenting. She's doing what every clever grifter does: Manipulating her victims. No matter what she says to either of her children she won't stop butting into their lives. Monserrat has her number.
Great recap. So well detailed and the dialogue was recapped almost word for word. I don’t know how you recappers can do such a wonderful job and still enjoy the show.
I love both the nicknames or acronyms for J.L. – Poor Deluded Bastard (PDB) and now, Mad Dog Jose Luis (MDJL). I think now as J.L. descends deeper and deeper into craziness, the MDJL is SOOOOOOO appropriate.
What secret between Amelia and J.L. is Monse talking about? Help clarify please!!!!!
What great nicknames for JL--junk bond, PDB, and Mad Dog. He looks so scruffy and unappealing. Of course, Dimi looked rather beat up, too.
We fans are feeling the wear and tear as well. With all the back and forth in the plot, our heads are almost spinning. Montse's double slap was a high point. She's come a long way from her youthful belief in her mother's words.
I had to smile at all the people in line to claim credit for the release of Ale. EZ wasn't going to lose his domestic comforts, was he?
I liked Ale taking the bull (oops, the steer) by the horns when he went to visit Pedro. At least he won't have to skulk around town anymore.
Before I say anything more, huge, huge congratulations on The Wedding! It must have been mahvelous!! San Diego is one of my fave cities!!! Fantastic!!! Sending you many hugs!
Holy Cow! What an episode!! I loved this and I see Urban agrees:
" Graciela is a free agent since the SDB forgot to include a non-compete clause." FREE AGENT!!! I love it!!
Didn't you just love the looks on Montserrat's and The Free Agent's face when Mad Dog JL was spouting his lies?! I loved it. I couldn't stop smiling.
Frankly, I was shocked (I tell you!) when Montserrat slapped her mother. Let's see, how many times has she done this to her own daughter, but puts on this act when there is pay back?! OY!
As for Dimitrio, I honestly don't know what to think. I will have to sleep on this one, but it didn't make me very happy. I can't wait to read Carlos' take on this (and I mean that seriously).
Alejandro's preemptive strike with Pedro is a bold move. We still have lots to go, so I am wondering where they are headed with this!!
I got a huge kick out of EZ Basura telling Gullible Carlota that HE was responsible for Alejandro's freedom. This guy is something else. Carlota is going to fall really hard and I don't want to see it.
Fantastic recap, NM!! I do NOT know how you manage all of this dialogue. Urban floors me every time with her extensive dialogue in the recap. There are so many things flying around so quickly that I have to REALLY focus to catch it all. Then, I come here and see this detailed dialogue that all I can say is: HOLY COW!
Fatima
I love the double slap Montse gave. It was especially hilarious when Graciela was applauding her for hitting JL and she gets slap too.
Great ending too with Alec showing up to see Pedro.
Thanks for the clarification. J.L. told Amelia at the wedding! Amelia just went down several data points for me. Maybe she can go back up by pulling one over on Pedro!
There were so many great moments to this night's episode, I can't pick the best.
He really upset me with how he looked and the tone of his voice. This man is a fool. He doesn't love Montse. He wants to OWN her. She is nothing more than an object to him now. He is almost frightening when he invades her space and invade it he did with his threats.
This man is a goner.
Fatima
So glad you are back and congrats on your daughter's wedding. I bet you had a very lovely time. Thanks for this most superb recap too.
Ay, poor JL, he is falling faster than I thought, but he will probably hit rock bottom and then I think come back to himself, one can hope ; ) Like I said before Ale and JL same coin, different sides.
So happy Esme had her bebe and that Refug is trying to make amends. He needs to have a talk with Esme without the other ladies in the room, explain himself and then let her have some time.
Dimi's proposal really surprised me, I wasn't expecting that. I think Dimi really does love Monica. I wonder if she'll say yes.
I am glad all of these little secrets are all out in the open, about Amelia telling JL about Ale, Graceless being outed and BTW JL too. But he really did pay Graceless at first to butt out, that evolved later of course. I'm glad too that Monse got her slaps in.
At last Ale is actually doing something. I'm glad he went and confronted Peddy. It's been a long time coming. I seriously doubt that Peddy will do anything to Ale right now. When have we ever seen Peddy kill anyone? He always "farms" that out to someone else.
I had to laugh at all three of them, Graceless, JL, and EZ taking credit for getting Ale out of jail. I keep remembering Graceless and Ale's convo about how she would get his money. I think she will try her hardest to still do that, by hook or by crook.
Thanks again NovelaMaven for this awesome recap : )
But is anyone still on J.L.'s side?
It's amazing that when you look back at the "hacienda" episodes, you realize that even back then J.L. couldn't really have loved Monse in the true sense. He's a real narcissist.
I admit that I'm too much of an Ale fan to even begin to like J.L. in the lest. Oh yes, he planned his strategy for 7 whole years. At least he had a life, even in jail; while Ale had none while in a coma!
I was one of the bloggers you referred to in your post. I sincerely believe Refug stopped himself because he knew it was wrong. I admire him for that. He could have turned a blind eye, but he did not. I believe in forgiveness, no matter what someone has done, I am the eternal optimist as Elna June has called me, so therefore I respectfully agree to disagree with you. People make mistakes all the time and learn from them.
Hey, Cynderella, I'll have to let you know the next time I'm planning a trip out your way. The wedding was actually held in a place north of the city. You are so lucky to live in such a gorgeous place!
Victoria Gomez, I looked back at earlier recaps and in episode 129, Urban details a conversation between Amelia and JL in which she shares with him the suspicion that Alejandro is alive. After all, Amelia is the person who has been taking care of Nadia's daughter. If Nadia survived the crash and had a child, it makes sense to think that Alejandro might also have survived. JL's response is to pressure Montse to marry him right away. Amelia doesn't like what he is doing, but she keeps her mouth shut.
I'm delighted that you enjoyed the recap!
Urban, yes, Mad Dog Álvarez is perfect!
I agree that Gracie was faking every minute of this episode. And yes, Montserrat does indeed have her number.
Madelaine:
I know forgiveness is righteous. But to forgive doesn't necessarily mean to forget and in Refugio and Esme's case, I just don't think I could stay married to a man that even went as far as Refugio did. The thought was there, No? I'm just not on this bandwagon but it's a TN afterall and characters change all the time.
"I liked Ale taking the bull (oops, the steer) by the horns when he went to visit Pedro"
Nice one. And yeah, I liked that too. And of course I am tickled pink that you liked the recap.
Dear Fatima,
It's always more fun when you are around so I am particularly glad you decided to join us for the final stretch.
I'm not thrilled with the way the Dimitrio story is unfolding. Mónica was presented as such an unpleasant person -- as others have said, she has been on various occasions insensitive, rigid, humorless and judgmental. I'm also not thrilled with Dim's rationalization for his roll in the hay with Josefina. Oh well. Maybe we were giving Dim more credit than he deserves.
To me, last night's JL was despicable in every way. I don't know how we reconcile that person with the man who came to love and be loved by Angélica. But Diana or Niecie may see things differently. And Mads, our resident optimist, says she still has hopes for him.
Hi Mads,
JL is lucky to have you rooting for him. I'm not sure how I feel about Refugio and Esme. He really has a knack for making bad life choices. I don't think I'd want such a weak person as my life partner; but then, maybe Esme is strong enough for both of them.
It WAS pretty funny the way everyone was competing to take credit for getting Ale out of jail. All we need is for Pedro to jump on the bandwagon!
Thanks to everyone for your good wishes on my daughter's wedding. I'm still on a bit of a high (the natural kind) from the occasion and all the parties leading up to it.
I re-read the recap for episode 129 and give Amelia back data points. She really did try to get J.L. to tell Monse that Ale might be alive so Monse could make an informed decision about the wedding. Bravo Amelia!
How you guys keep up with what happened in what episode amazes me. I've watched the entire novela faithfully and get lost as the novela comes to an end.
First of all congratulations to all the family on your daughters' wedding and best wishes to the newlyweds!
Thank you for the recap. So detailed and full of great asides. Thanks for doing this during a busy time for you and your family.
One of my favorite lines:
"From now on, she's on Team Princesa. She's backing her beautiful daughter and her golden son-in-law."
My favorite part of the epi was the double slap from Montse to MDA (Mad Dog Alvarez) and Gracie. I also loved it when MDA was caught lying about being the one responsible for Ale's release. Those lies coming out of his mouth just proved how crazy he really has become. I think he's becoming delusional too. When Montse told him that he gave her "asco", he said he was ok with that because she once felt the same for Ale, but came to love Ale. So in his mind, Montse will eventually love MDA again. Now that is delusional.
It was interesting to hear both Gracie and Montse tell MDA that he wasn't man enough for Montse. That only Ale could "satisfy" Montse. Them's fighting words. I almost thought that MDA was going to start foaming at the mouth.
Everything about MDA is bothering me right now. His face, his voice, his cloths, his cowardness and his manipulative behavior. He has become a master at it. Of course he learned from the best, Gracie. The writers are doing an excellent job of making me want to throw something at the TV every time MDA is on the screen. Ok, rant over.
After watching the scene again with Esme catching Refu (half dressed) at Monica's, I thought, why did Monica have to come out in her see thru nighty and make things worse. It was bad enough seeing Refu there half dressed, but Monica made the situation 100 times worse when she came into the room. Seriously? Stay in the bedroom. And I don't know what's up with Dimi. I know he still is in love with Fina. I think he cares for Monica, but it's not the same thing he feels for Fina. Maybe he's confused. That marriage proposal surprised me. I think it's a mistake. He's trying too hard to show that he grew up and wants to be an adult. This sounds horrible, but I hope Monica says No.
Happy and scared to see Ale confront Peddy. I didn't like the avances with Peddy pointing that gun at Ale.
Must sleep...hasta pronto!
Excellent retelling of this episode. Now I can't wait to watch it this weekend. I want to see the double slaps. I still don't understand why Monse is staying with him. Go to the military police and tell them your crazy police chief husband has threatened murder-suicide, and has police guards following you around, as they can see. See a few lawyers and a few judges. They obviously have time to listen to crying blondes in that town. Heck, have Carlota influence her hubby to strip JL of his post. Just DO something!
I am glad that Ale finally got off his butt to do something about the Pedro situation. Now, let's see if he actually has a plan.
First off: Sad Deluded Bastard. And yes, if you shorten it to SDB, it sounds like a disease of the very worst kind. The actor who plays José Luis had only played a villain before...did the writers know from the get-go that they were going to turn him into this slimy monster?
Now you scamp..."Federico de Campeche=Frederick's of Hollywood! Thought you would sneak that in, did you? But I agree, Monica's get-up were very much of the "professional" kind. Another reason why I can't picture her as Dimitrio's wife. Very disappointed to hear of the proposal and HATE the idea that he bedded Josefina as a way of testing his feelings. What a dog.
works up a good pseudo sob
most sincere growl
Graciela is a fee agent since the SDB forgot to include a non-compete clause
Delivery or Take-Out [oh Lord, that was funny!]
"leaves the peaceful waters of the womb and emerges into morally murky Bluewater [funny, but also sublime]
mendacious little man [from now on I'll think of him as MLM...he DOES look so puny next to Carlota...the casting of those two was perfect]
describing Graciela's soul as "dark and shriveled" and then "seven years of sorrow". I'm always struck by the uses of seven in this story. So biblical. The ecclesiastical underpinnings poke through occasionally in these rip-roaring, sexy stories.
Support group of the Socialite or the Stripper [what's not to love?]
And congratulations on your daughter's wedding!!! Sounds wonderful and a great reason to make frequent trips out West.
First off: Sad Deluded Bastard. And yes, if you shorten it to SDB, it sounds like a disease of the very worst kind. The actor who plays José Luis had only played a villain before...did the writers know from the get-go that they were going to turn him into this slimy monster?
Now you scamp..."Federico de Campeche=Frederick's of Hollywood! Thought you would sneak that in, did you? But I agree, Monica's get-up were very much of the "professional" kind. Another reason why I can't picture her as Dimitrio's wife. Very disappointed to hear of the proposal and HATE the idea that he bedded Josefina as a way of testing his feelings. What a dog.
works up a good pseudo sob
most sincere growl
Graciela is a fee agent since the SDB forgot to include a non-compete clause
Delivery or Take-Out [oh Lord, that was funny!]
"leaves the peaceful waters of the womb and emerges into morally murky Bluewater [funny, but also sublime]
mendacious little man [from now on I'll think of him as MLM...he DOES look so puny next to Carlota...the casting of those two was perfect]
describing Graciela's soul as "dark and shriveled" and then "seven years of sorrow". I'm always struck by the uses of seven in this story. So biblical. The ecclesiastical underpinnings poke through occasionally in these rip-roaring, sexy stories.
Support group of the Socialite or the Stripper [what's not to love?]
And congratulations on your daughter's wedding!!! Sounds wonderful and a great reason to make frequent trips out West.
And Leticia, from yesterday...No, I am not a counselor, nor a psychiatrist. But as a volunteer in my church's Care Ministry, I received training in counseling. They don't want us meeting with people in crisis or visiting the sick, without solid grounding in how to listen and care for others without doing or saying something that would be insensitive, judgmental and/or damaging.
The training was wonderful, not only for those situations, but in my family life, and also with my students who are often going through their own life crises. I'm not saying I never make a misstep, but it has really, really helped. Wish I had had something like that in college. It would have saved me and others a lot of grief!
Your recap was a humorous delight. The transition from Sad Deluded Bastard to Mad Dog is perfect for JL.
I loved the slaps and everyone trying to take credit for Ale's release. It was so funny and ironic when JL started informing Montse and Graciela that he he was the one who had sprung Ale.
Refoolio needs to go. I hope Esme does not lose her resolve.
Very satisfying episode!
Jarifa
Mad Dog Alvarez is really out of control. He is becoming another Pedro. Could it be that the two of them will take each other out?
You took base, raw materials (the angst and anguish) and managed to transform and create a beautiful masterpiece. Your conversation translations were excellent and so greatly appreciated! Knowing exactly what was said is of immeasurable help. Your recaps are always consistent. Consistently superb.
"Graciela works up a good PseudoSob, "Is it just me or does he keep getting his rating lowered like a human junk bond or something?)" and "Refugio is outnumbered and outclassed were a few of my favorites, along with the others mentioned.
Judy, I was thinking oh, "Federico de Campeche" must be some high end designer I'm not familiar with. Thank you for sharing it is "Frederick's of Hollywood". I am a bit sheepish I didn't catch on but agree that it was another NovelaMaven gem.
"Graciela is a free agent since the SDB forgot to include a non-compete clause". Watching the tragically insane JL and Graciela, it is a wonder how Monse has not gone mad herself. She must feel like a commodity that has been continually bought and sold to the highest bidder at the moment. The slaps were well deserved.
I do believe Graciela has had moments where she has truly loved her children. I might even go so far as to say she would step in front of either Dimitrio or Monse if in harm's way. That said, she will side with whomever can provide her with the creature comforts she is accostomed to and feel she deserves. She has no loyalty to anyone but herself. She did "sell" Monse and while she may take a bullet for her, she would not hesitate to condemn Monse to live the life Graciela wanted her to live, not the one Monse wanted to.
Fatima, I enjoy every scene with EZ and Carlota. He really seems to love her, in fact I am sure that he does. However, like you, I do not want to be there when Carlota learns the truth.
Insomnia is a huge part of my life at the present. What was I thinking about at 2 pm this morning? Family? Work? Finances? Nopis. The vision of Dimitrio dropping to his knees to propose kept flashing in my brain. So, let's see if I have this right. Dimitrio sleeps with Fina and breaks her heart. Monica almost sleeps with Refugio and Dimitrio puts a ring on it (?) My ode to Beyonce aside, make no mistake that I am upset. This is just wrong on so many levels. Fina and Dimitrio were the one bright spot and now this (?)
Wonderful comments everyone.
NovelaMaven, thank you for your continuing excellence.
Diana
And HURRAH!! Happy wedding news. Congratulations on your new extended family and heartfelt wishes to your daughter and her new hubby for many, many happy years together.
Now to our denizens who can't seem to get the idea of what weddings are supposed to be all about.
Can't stand watching JL anymore. Growing up in Chicago, I feel like I've been transported back to the 1920's and watching how Al Capone went from a cowardly south sider with a complex to a cold-blooded crime lord. I guess we should give kudos to the actor, but so many of his mannerisms and ways of talking just ramp up my ICK meter that I can't appreciate his work. I agree with Fatima on him wanting to Own Monse. This is all about the tweebie poor kid on the block who now wants to show up the jock and take the cheerleader away from him and show everyone he's really the coolest dude in town.
I'm on the fence with Dim. Is this a knee-jerk reaction to his past and wanting to do the right thing ( still believing Fina no longer really loves him) or is he sincere? But I still think if he and Fina survive this mess, they are end game, which means either Monica turns him down or well, we know the other option.
If we didn't know what kind of man EZ really is, swear he and Carlotta would be the cutest kids in town.
And as for Gracie, I'm like Monse. No matter what she says and does you can't help but feel there is an ulterior motive behind it. This is all about getting Benny Boy's fortune. And I did find it interesting the judge warned her that she pulls anything or lies again, she could be looking at the slammer. Are we getting a foretelling of her end-game?
Loved the ending. Pedro loves to threaten, but not get his own hands dirty except for beating up women. Frankly, one well placed move to swat away the gun and Ale could pummel him, so this should be interesting.
Daisynjay
"Baby Solares leaves the peaceful waters of the womb and emerges into morally murky Bluewater." My favorite line in the whole recap!
I think that Graciela is beginning a slow process towards redeeming herself. I think that typically, in novelas, bad moms either redeem themselves or have something horrible happen to them. I believe the former will be how Graciela ends up. She clearly is starting to show some softening up. If she did a complete about face at the end, it wouldn't be believable. The writers and actors are doing a fine job.
JL thinks that he was denied Montse because he didn't have enough money. That is what HE kept telling himself. You may all remember that from the beginning Montse BEGGED him to go see her dad and he refused to do it. Her dad loved her so immensely that he would have agreed to let Montse marry JL, but JL was too cowardly to do it. Maybe he will redeem himself in the end by giving his life to save Alejandro, Laurito or Montse (pure speculation), but at this point I only see him as a coward, manipulator and abuser.
I am perplexed about where I think that Fina, Dim, Adolfo and Monica will end up. As for BM,....it better be the biggest anvil ever!
And yes, did this hospital not have anyone available to give an epidural? Guess it was more dramatic to have Esme be all angry and screaming...
Daisynjay
-- killing Benjamin (by proxy, paying Juventino to do it) after cheating on her husband with him throughout their entire 30-year marriage
-- marrying Lauro in the first place, using him to climb socially, and depleting his money
-- framing the future Mad Dog Alvarez for murder, corrupting her son in the process by involving him
-- treating Monserrat like a piece of livestock
-- infantilizing Dimitrio until he had to run away by joining the Navy
-- insulting everyone in creation
-- aiding and abetting Pedro in his attempt at destroying Alejandro
-- blasphemy in her invocation of Jesus
She's a world-class hypocrite. She treats her children as though they are dolls to put away when they're inconvenient and has no regard for their dignity or feelings. Remember all the nasty things she said about Alejandro when she helped Pedro revoke his inheritance? Monse hasn't forgotten that.
Have you ever heard how she talks to Monse's little boy? She's just as bad as Veronica in PEAM.
So, BSC JL has played the "my turn" card. Really ? He feels that he has a ticket to ride, and he don't care...shout out to The Beatles. And Gracie is going above and beyond her usually crazy maliciousness. "an aggressive blessing",...ah..only Gracie could inflict it and only you, clever , witty Novelamaven could name it so perfectly.
Well, I am off to give two final exams, cook up the final grades , and post them. THEN....summer vacation begins. .
Diana
Dear Susanlynn, I am saddened to hear of your news. I'm sure it will be hard to come to terms to having this person in your daughter's life, your life, and your grandchildren's life for some time to come. My biggest hope is that there are people to help get you all through these moments. I sent you wings of support. We are always here for you.
Like Diana, the one thing that is really bothering me is the Dim episode. It took me completely by surprise and my feelings for him now are unclear. It bothered me HUGELY that he told Monica he had to roll in the sack with Fina in order to really get to the bottom of how he felt for her. What a LAME story! That was total BS. It insulted Fina and was a comment that was reminiscent of Dim's early behavior when he and Adolfo were trying to fleece Fina.
In some ways, Dim's comment is quite similar to Refoolio's INTENT to bed Monica in that they both make it very, very hard to establish a trusting relationship. As our dearest JudyB pointed out yesterday, we are frail humans, but I don't think that I could ever truly trust Dim or Refoolio based upon single, but very important key actions.
Aunty Ann, I absolutely agree with you that Mad Dog JL is sickening to watch. He WAS delusional last night. I had a good friend once who use to constantly say "Things are NEVER what they appear to be". In fact, she said it so much, there were times I just wanted to tell her to stop it (but figured it was no use). When Monica showed up in the Federico de Campeche (Ay NovelaMaven, I was dying laughing on that one!)nightie, my jaw dropped. What else COULD Esme think?! It took one shot of seeing that negligee versus Refoolio making love to her to start her labor.
The other funny moment was when Montserrat told her body guard to "get lost, can't you see that there are only women in here?!" I loved it! Really told me what she felt about Mad Dog JL's goons.
Vivi in DC, I'm with you 100% on Montse calling in the Navy and getting herself the heck out of Dodge. If scantily clad Capitana Monica has such authority at that base, then she needs to get her RIGID by the book self going to get Montse out of there.
Though why Montse can't do this on her own is beyond me, but there you have it.
Carloswhere are you? I want to hear your take on things pronto. :))
Fatima
Also he actually answered Monica last night about how he would feel if she cheated on him. He said, "I would forgive you if you realized and told me that you were in love with me." Which is what hit him after sleeping with Fina. It's over. He loves Monica.
I don't want him to end up with Fina through circumstance (like if they kill Monica off). It would not make me happy. I don't want our Fina to be the consolation prize.
Fatima
(Remember when Tiger Woods always wore a red shirt and black pants on the last day of the golf tournament?--or the statistics that show teams in red win more often than teams in other colors)
Now she's wearing black and blue (and white). And I found her outfit too large for her and unflattering. That, combined with Dimitrio's seemingly sincere proposal of marriage to Monica, has me very downcast indeed.
I agree Josefina should not be a Dimitrio Consolation Prize. But I don't want her to be a Spiritual Crutch for the very flawed Adolfo either.
As Susanlynn says, Please send in Bachelor No. 3!
So nice to have you back and in such stellar form! I hadn't seen your comments for a few days and was wondering where you might be, so I am very happy to learn you were away for such a joyous occasion. Congratulations to your daughter and son-in-law, you and your husband, and all your families, too.
Loved this wonderful recap. Many great lines have already been mentioned that I also admired, and I especially had some laughs at your various descriptions of Alejandro:
"Alejandro, fetching in his sea-green tee shirt, confronts Mad Dog JL in his office."
"Pedro Medina points a gun at Alejandro's beautiful brow."
I was sitting at the J-L table for a while, but, man he's lost it. I think he's capable of redemption if he lays of the tequila, but it may take a while longer and will probably require a sacrificial death on his part in the end. We'll see!
Looking forward to the Alejandro and Pedro confrontation tonight!
Thanks again, NovelaMaven, for this amazing recap!
Julia R.
Anon, I like your summation on Dim and Fina. I won't be surprised if the writers go there is what I was referring to. But if we have learned one thing in this TN, there is no clear cut path to happiness in any of the couples and the predictability of "true loves" has been turned on it's head a few times and couples who may be true loves, but not meant to be and people head to someone else for their future, which is a real twist for TN's. Frustrating, but so much more like real life than our usual fare. Very Edith Wharton.
This triangle in particular will be interesting to see.
Daisynjay
You echoed what I posted yesterday. I feared his love for Fina was gone and now it appears that is the sad truth.
Fina is the ultimate and deserves to be loved and cherished as such. Having her be second choice would be an abomination.
Diana
We definitely need a Bachelor #3 for Josefina. I vote that it be someone handsome and stinking rich so Gracie has to eat crow.
Josefina has suffered too much and come too far.
JL had a red shirt on last night, but I do not see him coming as from a position of strength, but from a position that is deteriorating on a daily basis.
Adolfo always looks so GQ that it is hard to believe he has become a hardened killer. His clothes have been able to fool people in to not seeing who he really is.
Thankfully, I think that Fina knows she would be nothing more than a crutch for Adolfo. She won't go there (and if she does, you can slap me upside the head!)
Fatima
Though really, who wears Federico de Campeche to greet an unexpected visitor?
With one final and noisy push, baby Solares leaves the peaceful waters of the womb and emerges into morally murky Bluewater.
Refugio is outnumbered and outclassed. He slinks away.
I hate that JL has done a 360 on everything he used to be, but I still care about him. He is operating out of hate and revenge, but ultimately he's not happy cause this is not who he is deep inside. If Refugio or Amelia weren't preoccupied, they'd get him some help. Also, sometimes I find Mad Dog JL amusing, like the "no, you shut up!" to Graciela's "shut up!" and his sarcasm with Ale, "yeah, brave man, keep hiding from Medina." What can I say? JL is bad and will sadly probably be put down like a mad dog, but he can spice up an argument.
At last Ale is actually doing something.
Madelaine, ITA. Ale is an Adonis but he's never gotten under my skin as JL has. He started out pretty strong when he got his inheritance and went after Gamboa(?), but then – even before the coma - he got bogged down in do-nothingness. Finally, it looks like he's starting to try to figure out Pedro's game.
Dim worries me. He's acting like a mama's boy that doesn't want to be alone. First, he lived with Gracie. Then he moved in with Monse and Ale. Then he lived with Monica. Now, after sleeping with Fina, he thinks he's ready to marry Monica. He’s confused and needs to try being alone for awhile.
Esme still loves Refugio, so what else can she do but give him a chance to prove he can be worthy? Loved Zulema giving him the stinkeye.
Monse’s double-slap was her best moment so far. Loved the stunned look on Graciela's face.
I wondered how Ale could just sneak up on that güey Pedro. Did he get by the bodyguards just by wearing his logoless baseball cap?
I thought I was the only one that had JL under her skin so to speak. I'm glad I'm not the only one. I have really liked the way the writers did this character until now. I do remember Angie telling JL that Monse wasn't for him. I know she told Fabs that JL is a dreamer and that Monse liked Ale's control of her. I think for now JL is trying what I call the Ale method. I still can't get over how Ale locked her up at the hacienda and wouldn't allow her to go anywhere. JL may have the bodyguards on Monse, but she's still going out and isn't locked up. They are alike in certain respects, as in kill the rival, that will solve everything! To my mind, believe it or not, JL's bark is worse than his bite! When JL killed anyone it was to save someone else. Ale, on the other hand, shot JL because he believed that JL was the Papa of Lolo. This is my problem with Ale. Shoot first ask questions later.
For that matter Monse's guard was pretty easy to push around last night too. I guess there's more emphasis on the braun versus the brain for the AquaAzul security company.
Daisynjay
Fatima
Like you I have insomnia too but not over Dimi and Fina, over JL 'natch and how the writers have darkened this character's soul.
I too have been a Dimi and Fina fan since the beginning, but now I think the writers are showing Dimi's growth. I really think it was a mistake for him to sleep with Fina and break her heart, but on the other hand, I truly believe he now knows he doesn't love Fina. It's sad to say, but Dimi came to this decision on his own. He didn't seek advice from anyone, he went with his head and his heart and so he realized he loves Monica and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. He has finally taken some action on his own as he did when he joined the Navy. I too am waiting for a new, handsome, caring man to show up for Fina. I can't see her with Addled either.
I think the baggie clothes Fina wore were her defense mechanism. When she hurts she reverts a bit, but I really think she'll be okay. How brave and courageous she was to hide Ale and Vic at her home knowing the consequences of what would happen if Peddy found out. And she's still hiding Vic.
I remember something from the other day, when someone commented that Addled was a serial killer. He's only ever killed one person, the guy that ratted the cartel out to the Navy. He seems to only kill under orders. He couldn't kill the Padre or BM. He's helping Ale and Vic and protecting his sister Nadia and Vicky. What he is doing is wrong, the cartel bidnez, but a serial killer he is not.
Fabuloso, Fantástico, y Maravilloso
como siempre!
I wrote down all of your Spanish phrases and will learn them - try to use them in appropriate conversations.
I don't have much occasion to use "Qué haces aqui?" and "Déjame en paz."
The wedding sounds wonderful.
Now for the questions. Do you live in California Will you live near your daughter? Is she fluent in Spanish? Will you have more opportunities to use your Spanish now with the new blended family?
Re JL's alleged cowardice,
Viewers will recall that he went to the house to talk to the Admiral, and Gracie resoundly ran him off, and then all the action happened very rapidly.
I don't have time to list all of his noble actions or his acts of bravery, but there are many.
I realize that he is over the top now, but at his core, he a noble man. And I am prepared to defend him just as Carlos will see good in Maria.
I am wondering what others have to say about his action after Ale left his office. JL put his head in his hands as if to say,
"Where is all of this going?"
This is never how I wanted things to turn out. What kind of a man am I turning into?
This TN is full of people marrying the wrong person, so perhaps Dim
will go with the flow. I was very disappointed in this turn of events, and I don't believe for a minute that he slept with Josefina as a calculated move to learn whether or not he was still in love with her. Nor do I think the sex act alone is the true confirmation or litmus test that indicates true love. What motivated him to want to be close with her was her tenderness and affection for him that she always had. And to say, that the sex wasn't so great or that the sex revealed to him an epiphany was ridiculous.
Many couples love each other, but it takes them a while to perfect the sex which is something different from Love.
Think about people who may have "great sex" and not love each other at all (one close example - Adolfo and Maria) altho that's stretching it because I don't think she is capable of real love with anyone, and he seems to love Josie, but still he betrays her with a sex act with another.
All I can think of is that something bad will happen to Josie and Dim will come to her rescue and realize that he cannot live without her, and then Mónica will see firsthand and realize that Dimitrio's heart lies with Josefina. Dimitrio is another DELUDED character now - both in his feelings for M and J. And don't forget that he is deluded into thinking that Josefina cares for Adolfo and not for him.
Perhaps he is acting somewhat DSESPERATELY also. He lost one woman. He does not want to lose another.
"He lost one woman. He does not want to lose another." Floridia, I think you hit the nail on the head. I totally agree with your statement! Monica will be a fool to accept Dimitrio's proposal. I really want Dim to get it together and win back Josefina.
I am really looking forward to tonight's showdown between Alejandro and Pedro. It will be nice to see Ale go against someone besides JL.
I am so tired of JL! I have never liked him much. He really annoyed me before when he was "noble". Now that he has lost it, he is insufferable - at least to me.
I want Monse to leave JL's house. I really fear for her safety.
Caryn
I totally agree with those who say Dimi needs to cool it with his impulsive proposals. He is still a manchild so you best be keepin' sowing your oats, boy.
That MILF Zulema would be perfect for him as an F buddy. Jeez, she flirted with him even she knew that he was heartbroken after his woman had just moved out on him.
She could teach him a few life lessons; of that I am sure.
Yes, exactly about JL. You have said perfectly what I've been thinking about him and when he hung his head in shame, was very telling wasn't it? He really does still have that noble soul and he needs to let Monse go and concentrate on bringing Peddy down.
He deserved far better than what and who he has morphed into now, a grungy madman, violent, unscrupulous, would be rapist.
Like you, I hold out hope for Adolfo and for a miracle to occur.
I got swept up in Dimitrio and Fina and their respective transformations have been a revelation. I had hoped they would end up together having endured so much but like you, I do not see how that will occur now. Dimitrio has moved on and so should my wish for their reconciliation.
JL was my favorite character and while my hope for him has evaporated, I must believe there may be some mercy for Fina and Adolfo, and some happiness for each of them.
Diana
To give EZ a little credit, he probably doesn’t know about Gracie and the judge, and he was the one who convinced JL to let Ale go.
Victoria: I like JL for the most part (right now, he’s on my s**t list). I don’t like what the writers have done to his character. I’ve never been a fan of Ale’s. He’s too flawed of a galan for me. Believe me, I don’t want them lily white, but I find him too unlikeable.
Novela: I had forgotten that convo between Amelia and JL prior to the wedding. I just remembered the scene at the disastrous reception.
I don’t think Dim slept with Fina to prove something. I think he’s telling himself and Monica that so he doesn’t have to face the facts that he’s still in love with Fina, who he thinks is not in love with him.
Susanlynn: I’m sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope they get resolved soon the way that you want.
OT: A favor, please. If anyone here is watching En Otra Piel on Telemundo, could you please let me know when they’re nearing the end. I want to see how things turn out.
Nanette
Susanlynn,
I'm so sorry that your real-life delusional monster has reappeared in the lives of your family. My thoughts are with you. If this silly recap made you smile, then it was worth writing it.
Floridia,
But surely you have occasion to use "Lárgate, pedazo de imbécil!" or "No puede ser!" :)
In fact, I live in the midwest so our visits are rare and precious. My daughter's Spanish is better than she lets on, but she's not really fluent.
Victoria,
My memory for TN's in general isn't that great, especially when it comes to names, but when I'm recapping, I end up paying very close attention and therefore remembering the absurd and inconsequential details (which probably crowd more useful stuff out of my brain). Even so, I make mistakes. It's a good thing I have the CarayCaray community around to keep me honest. :)
AuntyAnn,
You're not the only one who hopes that Mónica says no.
Wouldn't it be great if Pedro got Alejandro to talk about the accident and he revealed (innocently, with no idea what is at stake) that Ben was actually driving? I'd love to see Pedro focus his rage in some other direction.
Vivi,
I'm also glad that, as La Paloma put it, Ale had the initiative to take the steer by the horns. Of course if everyone behaved sensibly, we wouldn't have much of a story. (Fortunately, there's no danger of that happening -- not in fiction or in life!)
I am still in JL's corner. I agree with Floridia that JL is a good man and I think he does love Montserrat. Of note, when he caught her with Ale he never called her a whore or a slut, he said, "You're... my wife". Ale never caught Montse with anyone, he just had suspicions, and yet he called her terrible names and threw her out of the house.
I think JL knows he's on the losing end and that makes him fight all the harder. In the end he can point to his behavior and say Montse was right to leave him.
The one thing I cannot buy is Montserrat claiming she never loved JL. She packed her bag and even enlisted Maria and Juventino to help get her off the hacienda so she could escape with JL. She may not love JL now, but she did love him once upon a time.
After all, despite having been born a bastard Alejandro has a fortune, a loving mother, a beautiful woman, a smart son, and... his package.
You are so unfailingly kind. What great luck to have you as a reader -- and you even laugh at my cornball jokes! Thank you, my friend.
Jarifa,
I thought it was a satisfying episode too. I'm not sure what Esmeralda will decide to do, but I personally couldn't put up with a Refoolio in my life. (Of course, it's easy to say that. You never know what you would tolerate until you are in the situation.)
Urban,
About Pedro's intractable hatred towards Ale -- I think you're probably right. The FACTS are likely irrelevant.
Diana,
"Watching the tragically insane JL and Graciela, it is a wonder how Monse has not gone mad herself."
That's a great point! AB has run with the character of Montserrat and made her strong and interesting. (Maybe Lauro had great genes.)
I agree that Graciela loves her children, though her maternal feelings are always competing with her greed, her arrogance, and her need to control others. It's a deadly mix and a sure repellant.
Daisynjay,
"If we didn't know what kind of man EZ really is, swear he and Carlotta would be the cutest kids in town."
Ay ay ay. The problem is we DO know. I'm not looking forward to the moment when Carlota is let in on the secret. (Of course some of us have reserved Admiral Robledo for her and we are just waiting for the opportune moment.)
anita,
I see a possibility of partial redemption for Graciela. As you say, there are signs that she is softening up. But she has crossed too many lines for full redemption. Not only did she murder Benjamin (though she hired Juventino to do the dirty work), we just saw her give tacit approval to the 'disappearing' of Fabiola's maid, Ricarda.
I hope the character is around until the end. Her outfits are a high point of each episode. :)
Yola
I just realized you had listed Graciela's sins. I would add her indifference to Ricarda's fate to the list.
Dear Julia Rold,
Thanks so much for your gracious words. So you've given up on poor old Mad Dog too? Oh well. We'll all weep for him when he's gone. [tee hee]
Judy,
I think wardrobe has shortchanged Josefina y punto. A change of color here, a change of line there, but they don't do justice to the actress's elegant beauty.
Niecie,
" sometimes I find Mad Dog JL amusing, like the "no, you shut up!" to Graciela's "shut up!"
Oh definitely! Those two had me cracking up last night with their "shut up", "no, you shut up" routine!
And yes, Dim may be close to 40, but he's not quite grown up yet.
Oxnard Huero,
Maybe we'll find out tonight how Alejandro got past the goons at the palace gates.
Mads,
We saw Adolfo aim at Maria's head and pull the trigger;
we saw him set Padre Anselmo up for murder, though he had to call in help when it came time to pull the trigger;
we saw him kill the informant;
we saw him kill Maria's pimp;
we know he spent 7 years in Monterrey as a feared mob enforcer.
It's a fair assumption that Adolfo has killed or ordered the killing of a lot of people, no matter how pretty his eyelashes are.
Nanette,
"I don’t think Dim slept with Fina to prove something. I think he’s telling himself and Monica that so he doesn’t have to face the facts that he’s still in love with Fina, who he thinks is not in love with him."
That's how I see it too. (Dim has a way of sounding more loutish than he really is.)
xintperuvian,
It's nice to see you commenting here.
It's true that JL never called Montserrat a whore, but that crack last night about her 'brilliant mind' was plenty insulting. I do believe he's just getting warmed up.
By the way, his use of props is fun to watch. First we had the cane, then the letter opener. Let's hope the writers don't hand him a whip. :)
Yola,
Thanks for the kind words. So as a supporter of JL, do you see any chance of his ending up with a rehabbed Fab? Or was Angelica's prediction just a throw-away?
Am I the only one who thinks it would be refreshing to have Josefina end up as happily single?
I can't stand JL - never could. He has always seemed an oily, grungy, smarmy, cowardly, narcissistic liar to me. His BFF, in effect, gave up his career to aid and abet him in his run to regain his lost love. Sure, he was reinstated later, but that doesn't negate the fact that he did it and the Mad Dog didn't protest that much, he seemed to take it as his due. He always knew how to make the Fool feel guilty, telling him to let him go by himself, "I'll do what I have to do without your help." Really? A true friend would have locked up Refugio in a cell if necessary to keep him from endangering his life and career. He may think he's in love with Montse, but he sure doesn't act like it. I don't believe for a second that he went to prison "for her happiness" - he did it because he knew he had lost her to Ale and he couldn't stand or trust himself to be around her, figured it would be easier (FOR HIM) if he was locked up. That's my opinion, and I'm sticking to it.
By the way, I don't like Alejandro, either.
I've had a complicated week, with camp drop-offs, pick-ups, errands and work that I've been reading the recaps and comments late but I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoy reading what everyone has to say.
I grew up in a Spanish speaking home in Los Angeles, my parents were Mexican immigrants, so Spanish was my first language, and with that came the love of Mexican novelas, thanks to my grandmothers, aunts and cousins. So I come here to share and enjoy what others have to say about one of my guilty pleasures in life: Novelas.
All my fave lines have already been commented on, so I will just say ditto on what JudyB's faves were today: ;-)
As far as JL goes, I loved his two new names but I hate how low he has fallen, how he thinks its "his turn" to have Monse, the lies and the smugness. Ugh, can't stand it anymore, but Madelaine and Floridia, I do agree that he seemed to let out a deep breath after Ale left and hung his head in shame. Perhaps he is fighting his inner demons, but is close to losing. He probably will have redemption but like others have stated, perhaps in saving others with his life in exchange for. At this moment, Angelica must be rolling around in her grave, and not in the sense JL uses with Monse ;-)
Maricruz
I see I'm not the only one who appreciated the aggressive blessing that mama Graciela gave her daughter. I swear, I wouldn't be surprised if there were bruises the next day!
Anon 5:43, thanks for reminding us of the facilota's. Yes, Mad Dog Álvarez has already dipped into that well. (I think the El Tal Store was selling FACILOTA t-shirts at one point) :D
Maricruz,
Thanks so much for taking a moment to stop by. You are one busy lady!
Up to now, JL has treated Laurito well and has continued his friendly relationship with Amelia. If he breaks either or both of those links to normalcy, look out.
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By the way, here's a little wrap-up of Alejandro's recent Moral Development and Emotional Growth:
Not only has he embraced Montserrat's pregnancy, he has also recognized that María is neither his sister nor his friend and that what she calls 'love' is a sick obsession; and last night, he confronted Pedro 'the bogeyman' Medina.
Our boy is growing up!
Oh, my goodness! Ya know, I have the DVDs of FELS, and have never cracked the cellophane around it yet. I think I'll do that tonight. I can't wait to see Juan kneading bread, yum! I have seen bits and piece on Youtube but haven't seen the whole thing. Thanks so much!
JL did call Montse a name when he caught her in bed with that sexy Adonis. I think it was either "eres una cualquiera" or "eres una facilota". It made Ale jump out of bed to protect his mujer. Does anyone else remember?
Yes I remember. I believe that was when he first started calling her that.
Please excuse me for checking in late (busy day), though the first thing I did this morning was to read the recap and early comments (30 by 7:30!). Fatima, sorry to keep you waiting. I admit, Dimitrio made me smile with his logical rationalization of his unfaithfulness... heck, now he's certain, so it was worth all the trouble.
I'm still amused at the general consensus on The Patio yesterday:
Refugio was tempted but ultimately held fast to his principles... how dare he, dump his sorry butt
Dimitrio was tempted and caved... hey, he was stressed, give him a pass
Niecie this cracked me up:
"..."facilota" is a grade above "zorra" - in keeping with the pedestal JL has Monse on."
Brilliant!
Carlos
As I recall he used the word cualquiera in the sense of anyone, saying something like:
"You'll sleep with anyone. You're a facilota."
and she replied with something like:
"Alejandro isn't just anyone."
Sorry I don't have access to the exact quote but I remember thinking that it was a funny exchange considering the setting.
Carlos
Oh my, yes, Carlos -- it was a five day spree, from chilaquiles in the morning to fish tacos and carne asada in the evenings. The actual wedding was celebrated at a microbrewery and the exchange of vows involved a flight of beer.
The ceremony was legit, though. I mean, I'm pretty sure it was legit...
Yes DO jump back into maelstrom! Your fans would be thrilled to get a fortnightly (or even weekly) Recap by Carlos!
Ale talked to Montse on the beach on their first encounter. He also talked to her when he went to her house to buy that land, not knowing she lived there or owned the land. They had a few short conversations. It was love at first sight for Ale, but at the time, Montse was all about getting JL to talk to her father about their relationship. Ale realized quickly that he would need Gracie's approval to persue Montse. And Ale did not know about JL. He was told she had no love interest. Gracie manipulated Ale into offering financial assistance to the family. He was no coward. The moment he asked Montse to be his novia, he asked to speak to her father. I remember that brought a smile to Montse's face.
Welcome back to the Patio. Our expectations of the TN are lower than ever. Your writing, on the other hand, is as good as ever—just wonderful in fact.
The title was brilliant.
Thanks so much for writing this great recap, Novela.
Elna June
The mother is a total witch and the three sisters are dumber than dumb, but the three men are pretty cute. Even then, it is sometimes a goofy TN even though it is supposed to be "serious".
It is showing now on UNIMAS and the Gran Fin is this Friday.
Fatima
Loved,
"You're not wrong, dude!" snickers someone on The Patio. Cap'n Sylvia, was that you?
Whoa! Somebody's neurons are firing!
Graciela works up a good PseudoSob --
Graciela takes her daughter's hands in her own and says in her most sincere growl...
Sad Deluded Bastard José Luis...Is this the new moniker, like Poor Blind Nadia?
Look Ma, No Epidural! (OUCH!)
Thank you for the Spanish Esme was yelling,(meaning: I'm not going to forgive him for that!) By the by, I've been at a few births during the rough moments where the woman was yelling similar epitaphs and no infidelity was involved at all...
Also,
This, oddly enough, offends Graciela.
baby Solares leaves the peaceful waters of the womb and emerges into morally murky Bluewater
AND all the rich, rich Spanish frases!
And all the wonderful banter from the commenters, so much fun.
Can't take the story too seriously, but Victoria, I do agree with you on your comments re: fidelity.
But, sometimes people choose to forgive unconditionally. Refugio is a big doofus, but it is possible he has learned his lesson now.
You are so sweet to take a moment from your vacation time to comment tonight. Thank you for the kind words.
Oh, and by the way, the Sad Deluded Bastard has now become Mad Dog Álvarez :D
Enjoy!
Elna June,
I am tickled pink to see you here and touched that you wheeled out the Patio Welcome Home Wagon just for me. Gracias, chica!
Nah, AuntyAnn, you didn't write too much. That party scene had a lot going on. It's kind of interesting to compare the characters as they were then and as they are now. Thanks!
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