Monday, June 30, 2014
Lo Que la Vida Me Robó Lunes 6/30/14 #164
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So, we finally got to see Benjamin Almonte in action with Graciela. So he was a mean SOB even to her. After listening to her insults she has delivered to her children and others for so long she sounds just as vile as he did. She learned well. The tears got to be a little much because she is only thinking of herself per usual.
Pedro seemed to be really into slapping everyone really hard on the back. You could hear the slaps. What a jerk. Too bad somebody did not return the favor.
It was great how Ale and JL could present a united front against Pedro.
Very entertaining!
Jarifa
Thanks so very much for this truly awesome recap and the screen caps you put up to enhance the recap. Awesome!!!!!
Gracie grieving, hmmmmmm..... the loss of her children. I just don't know. And the flashbacks with Benny. I hate to say it, but he was right about her. She's always been a ho. I don't think she ever loved Benny either. She just "cared" about men that could give her things like money. I think Benny was right when he said she wasn't cut out to be a Mama.
Oh, for a half tic there, I thought Ale and JL would bury the hatchet, no such luck. They would be a great awesome duo to take down the Peddy. I didn't like JL being rude to Monse at the wake either. He needs to stop. Monse actually did nothing wrong.
And who wears red to a funeral for goodness sakes? Gracey that's who! What poor taste. White would have been better. How priceless was it when both Dimi and Monse told Gracey to leave and went and hugged Rosy! Yay! Rosy is a great Mama.
Glad Vic and Nadia had their reunion, how cute was that? The kids were cute too playing hide and seek with Amelia.
Had to laugh at Peddy and his shenanigans and his big wide grin, the man is pyscho! If I'd been Dimi I would have kneed him in the avocadoes, oh, yeah, he hasn't got any, more's the pity. What Peddy said to Admiral Robledo, about the Capitana, I wanted to bash Peddy over the head. I am so glad Admiral Robledo said what he said to Peddy. I liked both Ale and JL confronting old Peddy too. But he isn't afraid of them, he should be! I can't wait for the ultimate huge anvil to hit Peddy.
So will Gracey really help Fabs? With Gracey's track record I highly doubt it. I'm thinking she is going to throw Fabs under the bus, same as she did to Monse and Dimi, not a spoiler, just going on Gracey's track record.
Thanks so very much for this awesome recap Urban : )
Leticia from S.A. Tx
Oh and do we have any funny names for JL's guard yet? I believe we should call him Doggy,Mr.Nosey ,has he even spoken a word yet? Did Isadora got his tongue? He is so useful that im starting to believe that Farturo De La Riva is his sponsor..
And im hating to what they are doing to Adolfo ,all this guilt he has to bear,i got the impression that he is beginning to distancing himself from everyone which could be quite dangereous.I hope that Dimitrio wont have to end up killing him and that Addie ends up dying an honorable death or that he admits his sins and pays for them and then ends up with Virginia if she comes back i kinda miss her. And he certaintly does feel like a cockroach!
Thanks for the recap. It was awesome. And the screen caps just added so much more to well written recap.
I think the scene at the wake where Dimi goes to Rosario for motherly support was powerful. It sent a message to Gracie. Dimi and Montse have Rosario, they don't need or want Gracie. So I guess now Gracie's going to help Fabby but only if she stops drinking.
I could have felt sorry for Gracie after watching those flashbacks with Benny. But nah, she still did and is doing horrific things. In those flashbacks you realize how much Gracie loves money. She put up with alot of crap from Benny. And she did it all for the money. The question is, what did she spend all that money on that Benny would pay her. It was not on cloths. Plus we know she waisted away Don Lauro's money. Maybe she had too many drivers and servants.
Madelaine,
ITA, JL and Ale seemed to be teaming up against Peddy. It was great to see that. They were directing all their anger toward Peddy which was awesome. And Peddy needs to rot in hell after his comment about women.
His anvil needs to happen soon.
On a side note, in my area the TN started about 43 minutes late. Did this happen everywhere?
Off to bed...hasta pronto!
It will not make her any better as a mother. Benjamin was spot on, although I certainly think his cruelty was over the top. She was humiliated at the funeral, but showing up in a red dress was already enough for that to happen. Imagine the gossip about that in a small town when an admiral's widow shows up at the military funeral of her son's fiancee? Dirt for days, if not weeks.
Of course Red is also the color of the Resurrection, but I doubt that was the intent of the color.
Many thanks Urban. You are a great storyteller, and while I didn't see this, I DID SEE it this morning, enjoying your fine recap.
I would have to watch it though to know whether or not I feel compassion for Graciela. We know she is haunted by the memory of her poverty. As a child she saw Amelia and the carefree, fortunate life she had, and was consumed with bitterness and envy. And determination to somehow achieve becoming rich as well. She equated money with happiness. And yet happiness has always eluded her. I see her more as a tragic figure than a villain.
But, as Carlos always says, opinions may vary.
Graciela may be haunted by her childhood poverty, but that doesn't excuse anything she has done to her children or the people they chose to love. I won't list her crimes again until I post the Karmageddon discussion in a couple of weeks. But this latest rejection was long overdue.
We have never seen Gracie spend any real money; we've only ever hear her complain about not having enough.
I guess that there never would be enough even if she had bagged Bill Gates.
"He felt like a cockroach in a Raid commercial" and "He had no idea how ridiculous he was in the presence of two men far more manly than he ever had been" were among my favorites.
When Adolfo hugged Dimitrio, his grief and guilt overwhelming and destroying him, I started crying. He is the most tragic figure I believe, although but one of many. One could easily argue a case for Maria, Fabiola and others. However, Adolfo is the one whose heart has been twisted and savaged, caught in a trap, committing murder and sadly, past the point of redemption.
The flashbacks with Benjamen were skin crawling.
I must be honest and say that Graciela did earn my pity last night. She is infused with selfishness, greed and yet, in a manner peculiar only to her, does love her children but in a tragic, twisted way. I kept wondering if it was the character or Daniela Castro's ferocious tears that touched me. Perhaps both? Yet, her children's rejection was well overdue.
It appears Graciela will help Fabiola but I think it is due to Graciela's guilt, and less (if anything) to do with Monse and Dim's rejection of her. She was clearly in agony over the choice.
Did Amelia warn Fina she was bringing Nadia and Victoria beforehand? I got the impression Fina covered quickly when confronted by Pedro, but that she did not know of the plan. It appears that this particular outing will cost Nadia dearly.
The one bright moment was Ale and JL united against Pedro, a brief glimpse into what might have been a powerful alignment and a true friendship had circumstances been different.
UA, you asked us for our favorite novelas this past weekend. I just could not include this as I find this to be one of (if not the most) depressing TNs I've ever watched. I stay now only for the recapers and bloggers (who are all wonderful). I'm way too invested emotionally in this. Perhaps it means the writers are doing their jobs??
Blue Lass, how nice you and Rosemary la Otra got together. I am sure you had a marvelous time.
Great comments all.
Thanks again UA.
Diana
I was glad to see Ale and JL present a united front against their common enemy. It was especially good to see after that stupid display of jealousy in the most inappropriate place. I am so sick of that stupid triangle and wish the writers would put it permanently to rest to concentrate on all the other storylines. I feel they did a much better job of that last night. Adolfo and Gracie struggling with their demons made for good drama.
Blue Lass and Rosemary la Otra- I love the pic, chicas! It looks like you are having a lot of fun there in Vegas.
For all his bravado, I think Pedro was one nervous little puppy. That "smile" was more and more forced with every confrontation. Nice touch having Ale and MadDog join forces for a few minutes, but sorry, MD's threats to Monse are disgusting. With every step to do something good, that mouth of his spewing his threats to her just puts him back to the scum pond to me.
EZ is being a little too sure of himself. I like the Captain watching him so carefully. Though I think a lot of his disdain is knowing what EZ is and seeing him with sweet Carlotta.
As for Gracie. Wow! That move by Dim was THE most telling of anything her children have ever said or done to her. Actions do speak louder than words sometimes. A mother who cares? Who has let him talk and HUGGED him as a mother should...yes, he has one, but it's Rosario. Both he and Monse had the good fortune to be with someone who showed what a mother's unconditional love is, not the kind they've had with the strings attached.
What Benjamin (my lord what a cretin!) told Gracie apparently was not only spot on, but even watching a woman, married to a good man, sit there and take that crap coming from his mouth showed what she was willing to do all for the sake of money.
UA, love your point on the red dress and the gossip it would cause. For someone who has always been about "what will people say" with her kids, she consistently pulls antics that make her the laughing stock, but I honestly think she believes it is to get the attention and show how above everyone she really is. And that made me realize something....She doesn't have a clue. To her, it's everyone else's fault when things go wrong, and they just don't understand HER. I swear, Maria has to be her daughter. And if I were Fabs, I would run very far away. Gracie may very well take her down right along with her come-uppance.
Kudo's to Ferdinando--Portraying Adolfo,he manages to take this cold-blooded murderer and consistently make us see his torment and start to feel sympathy. I can see him now pushed to do something to try and "redeem" himself, and I don't think he feels his life is worth anything anymore.
Thanks writers for not pushing some sort of Fina/Dim moment. Let them start back as friends if they are meant for end game.
Victor/Nadia sweet, but still breaks my heart to listen to the kids talking about their messed up lives.
Daisynjay
I suspected it before, but now I am more sure than ever that Graciela is moving toward a redemption so that there can be a happy mother/daughter/s ending. She's nowhere near as bad as Bernarda de Iturbide in Triunfo del Amor. This is not a spoiler, just my prediction as we get close to the end. I am afraid that Adolfo will die both heroically and tragically since he is a killer and especially since he killed Monica. It's pretty much novela law!
Dimitrio is so gutted over losing Monica, I wonder if he could end up with Fina, which I assumed would happen at the end. Every now and then you get an unexpected surprise in a novela, like in TDA where Victoria did NOT reconcile with her husband and ended up with her doctor.
It occurred to me last night that Dimitrio has never really lived alone. That may not be the norm in Mexico for most young adults, but he's 37 years old now. He's never lived alone as a single man and this will be hard for him to face. He needs either to move back in with Monse or move into base housing for a while.
There is no doubt that Adolfo will fall hard. That will be tough on Josefina, but Dimitrio should be there to catch her.
Adolfo is a unique sort of villain, more like a protagonist in Greek tragedy. This actor is really delivering that; he's made Adolfo into a lost little boy who could have benefitted from some tough love and serious guidance when he was younger. He deserves an award for this one.
I have no doubt that Daniela Castro will win Best Villana. Not so sure about Sergio Sendel. I wish I knew what the Mexican audience is saying about his performance and his character; I know that many men probably are not comfortable with the idea of him losing the combo plate.
What can I say, but that you told a far, far better story! Your writing is beautiful, Urban. This noir style is YOU. The still shots were perfect, but I so loved your writing, I had to read it twice!
Clearly, the most powerful scene was Dimitrio going to Rosario for comfort. Even the quiet, but dismissive way Montserrat told her mother to leave was powerful.
Graciela might be down, but she is not down for the count. Sadly, I felt nothing for her; nothing. The horrid Benjamin was perfect in his description of her. Perfect.
Fatima
While Alfredo Aldame gave a beautifully nasty performance last night I have to wonder whether they shouldn't have had Ignacio Casano, who played Benjamin in the flashback to Rosario's rape. Gracie looked young enough in the flashback last night that he might have been a more logical choice. However, I think there was a writing error in her line about "my children's school" because there is a 9-year age difference between Dimitrio and Monse.
Fatima, always happy to amuse!
"Be very careful what you do or you leave me no choice but to force me to take action against Monserrat. Excuse me.” [If someone can translate that better, I owe you.]"
Actually, here Pedro made no threat against Montserrat, but said:
"I'll leave you to exchange experiences about Montserrat."
Which I thought was a pretty effective zinger at them both which set JL off, but Alejandro restrained him with that hand to the chest.
Dimitrio looking to Rosario for motherly consolation indeed seemed very sweet, but didn't ring true. Has there every been any affection between those two that might have set a predicate for that? I interpreted it as a rather vicious slap at Graciela rather than any seeking of solace.
And why the pussyfooting around by Macario over Gracie having the will... just come out and say that she told me that she has it.
I'm amused by the sympathy here for poor pitiful Adolfo, and yet utter disdain for María. He just killed Monica and shows blatant hypocrisy at the wake. She killed a rat and has no remorse.
Carlos
Adolfo had a choice about going to the wake. He chose not to arouse suspicion. He risked breaking down in front of Dimitrio and Josefina. He is going to pay for this, no question. He got lucky that neither Pedro nor Ezekiel went after him at the funeral, but they wouldn't risk that sort of confrontation anywhere near Admiral Robledo. I'm surprised that those two even talked their dirty business in that building.
That was a missed opportunity for either Alejandro or Mad Dog Alvarez to eavesdrop.
First off, thank G-d Ale was able to find a black t-shirt two sizes too small to wear to the funeral on such short notice.
Adolfo, the baby faced killer...why do I still feel for you?
And why did I have no sympathy for Graciela when she was crying at the end?
Question, are the writers rewriting Gracie's history or did I just misunderstand: I thought Gracie believed that Ben Almonte didn't know of her pregnancy. We know Lauro didn't know but I thought she had kept if from Ben too. Also, weren't we lead to believe at first that Gracie killed the baby and then that Gracie didn't kill it but was happy the baby was dead anyway because it would upset her marriage to Lauro?
When the baby died, Gracie led the Padre to believe that she killed the baby (without really coming out and saying it), but it seems that she did that just to get his goat, since she seems to hate the Padre. In reality, the baby died on her own, or really just appeared dead, which was a relief to Gracie since it freed her up to marry Lauro with no secret love child hanging out there and being a possible threat to her marriage.
From the flashback last night, it seems that at some point after she and Benjamin went back to being lovers, she revealed that she had a baby by him and the baby died. Which he secretly knew not to be true. His cruel words in retrospect seem even crueler, now that she knows he knew their child was alive all along.
Funny, she says she has to pick either Fabiola or Montse but I don't see it that way. Fabiola can get out of the fake will scheme pretty easily as she kinda knew about it but it was all Sandro and Pedro. Further, if Ale gets back the money and gives his half to Gracie like he promised, she could give that half to Fabiola. Now Gracie giving up money would be the ultimate sacrifice for her!
Like you, I was at first taken aback by Alfredo Adame playing Ben when he was supposed to be a much younger man, and I wondered why they hadn't used the younger actor seen in the Rosario flash-backs. But from where I sat on the Patio, I just had to squint a bit and it all seemed to make sense. And the thing that struck me most was what an absolutely vile sadist Benjamin Almonte actually was. HE NEEDED KILLING! I am ready to give Graciela a pass on that one. I'm also ready to consider that, beyond greed, Graciela was tied to Benjamin by a sort of OBSESSIVE LOVE.
How interesting to compare that boudoir scene with one we saw earlier (also a flashback) between Lauro and Graciela. In that one we saw how poor Lauro was always besotted with Graciela, even if he sometimes saw through her lies (Remember he said that he had always known she didn't really go to Italy before they were married.)
Poor Monica. The vigil for her at the funeral home was the centerpiece of the episode, but she was hardly mentioned and featured in no tearful flashbacks. Her suegra came dressed as if ready to dance on her grave. Her murderer and his accomplices wore black and spouted empty words of condolences. Jose Luis showed up looking like a gangster and then proceeded to act like one, muttering death threats to his wife.
It was frustrating that Friday's episode ended with a cliff-hanger (Would the judge release Maria?) and this one started in the same place, but by the end of it, we still didn't know the decision.
Hey R la O and Blue Lass, it sounds like you're having a blast! Love the photo!
I think my favorite statement was your description of Gracie wanting to see Dim. "Move over, Carlota. I want to be with my baby. Move it."
And there it is; a bit of early Karmageddon for Gracie.
I can't feel sorry for her other than I guess she is was she is, a relentless narcissist, and may not be able to change at all. You can see she is working herself up to justifying betraying Monse for Fab. If she tells Fab that she is her mother Fab may get the idea to exploit her for it, the apple not falling far from the tree and all.
also loved:
He felt like a cockroach in a Raid commercial.
I wish there was a way to "like" people's comments. There are always really good comments that I would want to respond to but don't have the time.
I moaned when I saw Gracie in the red drapes at the funeral (the dress looked like drapes to me). What was she thinking? Ugh! How could she have thought Dimitrio would take her seriously with THAT on?
I chuckle every time Gracie takes a wine glass out of Fab's hand. Last night was especially good since she threw the glass across the room. I wonder how long Fab can hold out without a glass of vino.
*Sigh* Adolfo.... The character has really grown on me (the actor isn't hard on the eyes either so maybe that's why I have a soft spot). I am really going to hate whatever the tragic end may be that is in store for him. I agree with others that his end will probably come doing something good (at least I hope so).
Caryn
Vici thats what im fearing ,Dim might be so angry he could end up killing Adolfo,hopefully Fina will be able to stop his fury at that time because i wouldnt like to see Dim behind bars:(
I ended up turning on the tv at 9:30 to watch what was recording and thought there was something wrong because the other novela was still on. Good think I stuck around and realized that LQLVMR started at 9:45 and I was able to watch the whole thing.
The acting is beyond great, I keep getting drawn in every night. I agree totally with you Daisynjay: "Kudo's to Ferdinando--Portraying Adolfo,he manages to take this cold-blooded murderer and consistently make us see his torment and start to feel sympathy. " I felt like crying when he arrived at the funeral home and hugged Demetrio.
Carlos, I think the sympathy is stronger for Adolfo because unlike Maria, he shows remorse for killing Monica. This is not the life he wanted to live, it was forced on him by Pedro. Urban's description of Adolfo is spot on:
"Adolfo is a unique sort of villain, more like a protagonist in Greek tragedy. This actor is really delivering that; he's made Adolfo into a lost little boy who could have benefitted from some tough love and serious guidance when he was younger. He deserves an award for this one."
Daniela Castro really brought on the waterworks last night as well. I couldn't help but feel a little bit sorry for her, not that she didn't earn her children's rejection, but just seeing the way Ben treated her was despicable. How can any amount of money make her stay with him, unless it was some sort of obsessive love? At that point she had Lauro and his fortune, and it wasn't until the later years that there were signs of financial problems.
As for her red dress, not to defend her choice in apparral, but wasn't that the dress she was wearing during her prayer vigil?
To quote Judyb, "if memory serves me right" I think it was, and when Carlotta came into the chapel, already dressed in black, she told her Demetrio really needed her at that moment because Monica had died. Despite her kids' rejections, she still wants to be there for them and wants them to need her, so most likely she took off straight for the funeral home without thinking to change.
Maricruz
Maricruz
Sadly he lacks a smoke but he gets one when he gets older:)
Vivi, I dearly hope that Dimitrio doesn't end up having to kill Adolfo in the line of duty. That would destroy him and he's taken enough punishment for his earlier sins already. Hell, having Graciela for a mother is more than enough punishment for anyone.
Emarie, Graciela is a narcissist. They are particularly lethal to have in one's life because they have no empathy and no remorse. They rarely seek psychiatric treatment because they can't be convinced that anything is wrong with them.
Graciela certainly deserves scorn and rejection by her kids but Rosario certainly is no June Cleaver. She tells tall tales at the drop of a hat when it suits her interests.
Plus, I hate group hugs in film; they are so trite.
At the end, with Graciela self-loathing and sobbing in agony, I noticed that huge ring on her right hand with that prominent, flat, black stone. I thought that she was going to spring open a compartment on that ring, take out a pill and end it right there.
"At the end, with Graciela self-loathing and sobbing in agony, I noticed that huge ring on her right hand with that prominent, flat, black stone. I thought that she was going to spring open a compartment on that ring, take out a pill and end it right there."---LOL!
AuntyAnn, thanks for the heads up on the time!
Graciela was tied to Benjamin by a sort of OBSESSIVE LOVE.
NovelaMaven, ITA with your theory. But I'm thinking it was more obsessive sex than love. Benjamin was too in-your-face cruel for Graciela to put up with him after she had Lauro's money and prestige. She didn't seem thrilled about sex with Sandro, and a while back confessed to Monse that she cheated all those years cause Lauro was so much older.
Now I see why Graciela is so cruel to others. She's giving it to others the way that Benjamin gave it to her.
I felt he purposely went to hug Rosario as a deliberate insult to Graciela. Okay, Graciela deserves it, but it makes Dim look like a boy. I like Rosario, but to me Carlota is much more hugable and she practically raised him and Monse.
And what can I say about the recappers, except my great appreciation for all their hard work and dedication and their "on the spot" recaps. What a wonderful job!
PS: For all who are recording, you should set your device to record at one - if not two - hours later during the World Cup, as Univ never changes or shortens its programming. For instance, right now US vs Belgium is in overtime, so beware tonight's episode probably won't start at 9 pm
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