Saturday, November 02, 2013
Mentir Para Vivir #20 Fri 11/1/13 He Returns From The Ashes, But A Grand Entrance It Ain’t
The man’s got a single briefcase with him, full of multi-dollar bills, and he hands one to the driver before getting out for a look-see. He carries a large teddy bear in the other hand. Guessy who-ooooo! Daddy’s home! It’s Jose Luis, come back from the dead and looking for his family! (OMG! Compared to Ric, I got to admit this is one handsome villano I am going to abhor abhorring.)
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Thank, J. Looking forward to it.
I hope other fans will not mind too much if I use this pre-recap time to complain a little bit about our star couple. I am more and more finding the Oriana/Ricardo pairing less convincing. Not sure why.
One thought I have had is that the character of Oriana is not well drawn. She is intelligent and seems both more thoughtful and mature than Ricardo. But she cries so much and her sexy outfits don't go with her intelligence and education. She looks awkward physically, though she is certainly a beautiful woman. Her scenes with Paloma and that darling little Alina are my favorites and seem truest to her character. I think I would like her better with Mariano, who both looks a little older and is a little wiser than Ricardo and just seems a closer fit to Oriana somehow.
As for Richardo, DS is a bit mechanical in the role. Poor guy's role seems to consist of him careening from one crisis to another, but again, something not clicking for me.
Still enjoying the novela in general and maybe all will come together when our big, bad (and handsome) Jose Luis arrives on the scene.
In so many ways, she has not been set free from that former relationship. Until the truth of that relationship is clear to her, she cannot move on with Ricardo. I think she is going to learn much more about Jose Luis than she ever wanted to know, but she needs to know that truth in order to have a truthful relationship with Ricardo.
I wonder if Orines' outfits will evolve as these truths are learned and the real Oriana is allowed to come through.
Right now, I see her as an intelligent woman bombarded with so many burdensome pressures. Boy oh boy, if I were in her position at the moment, someone like Raquel could tip me over the edge!
Fatima
Now Piero knows Ines's true identity. How long before the cat is out of the bag and Matilde finds out.
I'm with Oriana on this one, Ricardo had no business questioning Lina. What info did he get? Nothing, and it only made Oriana mad.
Also as Fatima brought up, she may be having trust issues b/c of her husband; she thought he was a good man and now ....
Cathyx - yes on Spock/Matilde and on Fabiola not getting impregnated by SebeNada. Let her realize he is a horrible person before losing her virginity to him.
Love how Ruben stood up to MadHilde last night for Cesar. MadHilde has the potential to be another Dona Bernarda (of TdA).
Besides, Ricky likes it and that's all that matters.
Me, I love Orines. She's smart. She's beautiful. Not too many people can pull off wearing skin tight white jeans. She sure as heck can! However, I do think that sometimes there is a sense (to me) that her clothes have "progressed" more than she has emotionally progressed.
The one that kind of "bugs" me is Marilu of the red hair and bangs. I can take her or leave her as a character. She just looks like all of the rest of the stable of Televisa 20-something chicks. There is nothing "interesting" about her.
Urban, honestly, I am torn between the two men (Ricardo and Jose Luis). On a good day, I'll take them BOTH, but Diego is H.O.T.
Fatima
Who else thought Paloma got up to slap Matilde when she called her a bad mother? I was waiting for it but she didn't. There's still hope for the future.
Here's one more day I remain in Matilda's corner. Her instinct to protect her daughter is right on the money. Sebastian is a wolf in sheep's clothing. Watch out. As for her over protection of her son, I'm not sure yet. It's either bad writing, because obviously Matilda is religious, or perhaps Matilda knows more about that priest than we do. That's quite a strong reaction. I think it's safe to say that both of her beautiful, innocent, well behaved children, are in danger of being despoiled. And Matilda will soon be proven right. She shows her true face at all times (even if it is a little homely), and I like that. She says what she means and she means what she says.
I did love Matilde the breathalizer moment. Poor Fabiola. One of my favorite characters. I do get a charge out of the debate between Paloma and Matilde -- both agree that the goal is not to have her runaway with a worthless cad (Sebastian?), it's the degree of control i that is in dispute.
Thanks, all, for interesting thoughts on 2nes. I guess we will see how things evolve for her as we enter the next stage with handsome Jose Luis' arrival. The white suit looks great on him.
UA - I think it would have been if the DZ and DO had been in different roles. I'm looking forward to seeing DO as a baddie.
The whole EP just feels stressful and pressure cooker-like. I loved the scene where she's breaking up with Ricardo because it's obvious he's crazy about her, but she just can't handle a relationship in addition to all the lies she has to keep up to not hurt Paloma or get extradited to Colombia. She also isn't sure whether Jose Luis is dead like Manolo said because of the note, which would make her an adulterer. Even though she is crying a lot, she's holding back the tears because she can't really live her life honestly.
I also just watched Thurs episode and I can't muster any sympathy for Matilde. All she cares about is Paloma's money and I'm glad Paloma told her she loves Cesar and Fabiola and she won't leave them without an inheritance, but Matilde me da la mala espina. To me she's two-faced and hypocritical, given how she landed Ruben and treats Fidelia, who is of her class. Plus she treats the servants crappily. The only thing I agree with her is that Sebastian is shady and Fabiola should stay ten feet from him at all times.
From the case of TMI about me. I was raised in Iowa, and we didn't have a lot of trouble going on at the time. However, I went to live with my aunt in California when I was 13-15 years old. My aunt was a Paloma type of guardian. So, my friends were gang members, who smoked dope with there parents. TRUE STORY: one of the girls that I hung out with...I can't prove it, but I'm sure that her mother sold her to the drug dealer that lived across the street from them. Alls I know if that the 13 year old girl lived across the street from her mother with the mother's dealer.
The only reason, I got out the way that I am is because my mother was a strong Christian who acted like Matilde and I was afraid of her even though she lived a couple thousand miles away from me. I knew that crazy chick would come to California and beat the stew out of me. I would hang around those kids, but I didn't do what they did...but I could have.
OK, so I'm saying that I agree with her about Matilde's parenting skills, however, once they become an adult, you gotta let them go.
P.S. My mother had a hard time with that too. (smile)
@ ANON Sat Nov 02, 07:06:00 PM EDT
I don't understand why you are only focusing on Oriana's lies. They are ALL lying about something to protect themselves.
1. Gabriel taught Pretty Ricky to lie and deceive to protect the family's "good name".
*Ricky hid the paternity of "his son".
*Ricky is a womanizer, like his father. I'm sure he's keeping flower 1*800*FLOWERS in business all by himself.
*Ricky lies about Oriana's identity so that he can keep her with him. She's a suspect in his FATHER'S murder, yet, because she can kiss and speak well, he wants to keep her with him.
2. Felipe, Lucina and Raquel lie all day everyday. They can come up with a lie without even blinking. They kinda sorta blackmail their "friend" to get money out of her.
3. Sabastian is hiding his paternity from Ricky for money. That is very evil.
4. Antonio and Piero...where do I start.
5. The priest was lying for Oriana and encourages her to lie.
6. Rhodalina lies because she is can.
7. Maria and Benigno lie. She wants dolls, money and Ricky. He's just evil.
My point is that I don't understand why you focus on Oriana when the WHOLE town lies and has horrible secrets.
I'm with you about Madhilde to an extent. I think there should be limits and boundaries for children to live with, but they must be reasonable if you don't want your child to rebel against them. I just had this conversation with a coworker the other day. My parents were quite strict and had clear boundaries, and the 4 of us children were well behaved and didn't rebel. I credit that to the fact that they were reasonable and not set impossible to live with rules. My coworker had strict parents but their strictness and boundaries were not enforced with regularity and some of the rules were not reasonable, such as not being allowed to be friends with the opposite sex, as an example. So since her rules didn't make sense and had no reasonableness or regularity to them, she and her siblings rebelled.
But being too permissive is also not good either, because it can leave children thinking that the parents don't care what they do. I know people who raise their children with the sink or swim attitude, and many children aren't equipped with the ability or maturity to start swimming when it was necessary.
So I think that Madhilde is a bit too strict in not letting Fabiola to go out at all, and not letting Cesar make his own career choices, but I think that Sebastian was not a good choice for a first time date. They should know his reputation and his personality to not trust him with Fabiola.
I agree that Cesar is an adult and Matilde needs to back off. Like I said, my mom wanted to continue parenting me into my thirties and that is where we clashed.
Cynderella
Matilde is semi-right about Fab, and all-the-way wrong about Cesar. He's old enough and responsible enough off and go work for the Catholic Church as a missionary. Sebas was a bad choice for a first date, but it seems Fab has no other friends she hangs out with-a product of Tilde's overprotectioin-which is why she had to settle for the slim pickings that Sebas represents. I wish Matilde was as tough on her husband in getting him to get a job and stop living off of Paloma's charity as she is on her kids. Ruben is the one who needs her haranguing, not her kids.
Karen: I thought Berto, just like Ric thinks so. He looks like a doofus grease-ball, but he has smarts enough to go most the way through college for an accounting degree, remember.
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Traveling Lady: I agree with your take on the main couple. They started out seemingly compatible, but DO's is just more appealing to me and seems more suited than DZ to play opposite our lady lead though we know Jose Luis is a slug. I hope to see more sexual tension between Oriana and JL because of it and because there is a loving, sexually satisfying history there.
"They are ALL lying about something to protect themselves." ITSA! I also have to say that you've done well considering the strikes you had against you, but I also agree that Madhilde has a point, but she's got to learn to let go and not to criticize, but to offer suggestions. After a point you just have to hope that most of what you poured into them took hold and hope for the best.
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Cathyx: Yes! Spock! Good catch! I kept wondering myself about that. LOL!
"Ruben is the one who needs her haranguing, not her kids."
Another well made point. But, I think she wants to wear the pants in this family and that means having the financial sway she does by having become her aunt's slavish gopher. It got the kids into the right schools, kept them in the right social strata and gave them all a roof over their heads. It also seems it's allowed her a bit of a well-deserved --and chirished--martyr complex IMHO.
In the smallest towns, you can get into the most trouble, sex,nothing else to do. Drugs are in the small towns too. In large towns, cities, there are places to go, things to do.
I’m not seeing how Ori/MV and Ricky/DZ don’t look good together. ITA with J desde NY for why Ori is so stressed. She has a heck of a lot going on, and having a boyfriend right now, especially one with his own long list of problems, is only adding to that stress. I totally get why she broke up with him. In that breakup scene in the office, I thought DZ did a good job at expressing Ricky’s disappointment and heartbreak, without overdoing it. (Better crying than in that first episode when he was supposed to be grieving for his father.) I like how he turned away from Piero so that his buddy couldn’t see his tears. Men don’t like other men to see them cry.
I am very worried for Fabiola with Sebastian. I agree that parents should set rules and have high standards for their kids, but I don’t agree with the controlling/stiffing way Mati has raised her. When watching that scene in the car, I could see that Sebas’ bullsh*t was working on Fabi precisely because she has been so darned sheltered and has ZERO experience with guys. At that age, I would have been rolling my eyes at a guy telling me he loved me on our first sort of date, all while trying to walk his hand up my skirt. I knew better from experience and from what my parents taught me. It looks like Fabi is going to be introduced to the world of guys/men in the worst way possible—either being used and dumped (probably preggers), or put into a very bad situation where she is vulnerable to rape by either Sebas or his horrible friends.
Mati cracked me up with her image of Cesar as a missionary working with poor people in rural areas -- in the jungle…surrounded by savages with AIDS and cholera. Wow! Somebody needs to go back to Sunday school (and social studies class)!
I also enjoyed Lucina’s reason for why none of her contacts would be the blackmailers—because they owe her a lot of favors and she is a “mujer de armas tomar” (not a woman to be reckoned with/a feisty woman). I’ve always enjoyed the visual image that saying conjures up. I always picture a hardnosed dame grabbing up her six shooters, like in some old movie.
I continue to be delighted by the actress who plays Alina. Her scenes with Paloma were great. She’s very natural.
I think the choice of Diego Olivera is perfect for JL. JL is older, more experienced, suave, worldly, and manipulative. Right now he’s passing himself off as a rich writer. He has a sophisticated air and mannerisms that make him seem trustworthy enough that a police officer just gave him Lucina’s phone number! DZ would not fit that at all description. DO pulls it off perfectly.
DZ does great villains. But his best villain Bruno (Sortilegio) was full of rage—more rabid, tenacious dog, than smooth criminal. He was fantastic at that. And I think he’s doing well here as the smart, yet impetuous galan.
I so co-sign everything you said about Fabiola falling for Sebastian's 'I love you' line. It's obvious that Fabiola has no close girlfriemds who could have told her that line is classic I'm trying to get in your pants move little boys play. I literally rolled my eyes because back in junior high I heard girls talking about boys doing that nonsense and the classic parent bird-and-the-bees talk here in the US to girls consists of warning them that sex isn't love and boys will say that to you to get in your pants. I couldn't believe Fabiola fell for it..
Also, given that Matilde purposefully got preggers by Ruben to get him to marry her, you'd think she would've had a girl-to-girl talk with Fabiola to warn her about how people use sex to take advantage of others. She didn't have to tell her daughter what she did to get with Ruben, but a good talk about dangers out there, pitfalls, games, and values would've gone a long way.
David zepeda is a good galan here because he's crazy about Orianez. Orianez is more reserved because she's living a double life, hasn't fully resolved her feelings for her supposedly dead hubby but you can tell she does love Ricardo. DO is giving me a disciple from a Jesus movie vibe with his beard. I keep on thinking he's gonna say,' He aquí El Codero de Dios' like John the baptist.
I am not saying that there were no drugs in the small town. But, being from a small town curbed my teenage shinanegans. Secondly, their were virtually no Blacks in my home town. So, we were easily identifiable and noticed. Everyone knew what school we went to, what area of town we lived on and my family's name.
True story: I once had someone report back to my mother that I was a well behave childe because I stood quietly at the bus stop every morning. Moral of that story? I couldn't even stand at a bus stop NOT doing anything without someone telling my mother on me. LOL
I took Spanish in high school, and a semester in college. Then about three years ago, I started watching TNs. So, I bought a bunch of Spanish verb books from used books stores. Other than that, I can't speak it very well, I can read it quite well. LOL
Ay papi! Jose Luis was so hot keeping his emotions in check when he asked about his little girl and the shooting with the heavy gun. So what, he smuggled some gold. Ric practically keeps a mentally disabled woman confined. Oriana, nobody's perfect.
Oriana stresses about everything and we feel her pain. Imagine always waiting for your lie to be discovered. What I don't get is why the breakup with Ric? He knows the whole story. I would imagine he could be of some help.
Alina is the real star in this TN.
Olive
I like these two characters together, but I don't think they have a great spark. Maybe it'll come as the story progresses.
I have to say that the first episode or two, I was NOT impressed with the little Alina actress, and I was wondering what we were in for, but I have completely come around. I think she's doing a great job.
I am having a few problems with the portrayal of Maria. As I understand it, she supposed to be mentally ill or delayed or possibly some mix of the two. She doesn't exactly act like either. The drugs people take for epilepsy make them really sleepy acting and seems to slow down their thinking. At least that's what I've seen in a few people that I have known. Developmentally delayed people do not 'connect the dots' like Maria does. The can manipulate like all heck, but not be nearly as sharp about it as she is. She's more like an intelligent crazy person. So if she's crazy, why are they trying to blame it on being deprived of oxygen at birth or her epilepsy? No, I don't need or want an answer to that question. It's just a beanie moment.
My only other gripe with this TN so far is the music. I.Can't.Stand.It. I have to mute it during the intro credits. Not too wild about any of the music during the show either, the love themes, etc., but that intro music is like nails on a blackboard for me. I've never watched a TN before where I loathed the music. Good thing this one is only 100 eps, har har.
Thanks for the great recap, Jardinera.
Ocampo would liked Lucero the first female role, but Lucero said in this year she would concentrate on her music career. After hooked Mayrin.
I don't know if it was true or false, but Laura Carmine had chance for Oriana.
Sorry girls, but I don't like Diego Olivera, he didn't convinced me neither in TDA nor AC. I feel that .... when a food is unsalted, has no taste.
And Does anyone know why the following happening with me? --> When I try to post a comment from my mobile phone, the system accept that, but after a minute it will be deleted. Last week I could only mobile net, and all my comments failed. :S :S
I'm sorry to be so late in the commenting game, but I entered a writing competition on the 1st of November (Write a Novel Month) and I've been focusing almost exclusively on it the entire weekend.
I need to learn to manage my time better - not fair to put my Caray mates on the back burner for so long.
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Regarding 2nes's stressful situations:
"he's been a lot more into her and having a relationship right now than she's been into him" --ITA! Ric's been single and both the business and keeping family secrets have dominated his mind and efforts. Now he's ready for a loving relationship. Oriana had a romantic relationship/history, a simple, but happy family, and a career. Then her world falls apart and she's forced on the run with a little one in tow for not one, but two major crimes and is now guilty of a third in order to hide!! It wouldn't be easy for me at all. If I had to choose between the two situation's, I would take Ric's over hers. Maria should have been thrown into an intstitution long ago and maybe she'd be ready to return to live a relatively normal life within a social setting of some sort by now.
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OKay! My big question which I've been forgetting to ask since this thing started is why, if they make such a big deal about this being the twenty-first century, haven't they done either a blood test for paternity (earlier on when Seb was first born) or a DNA test so the blackmail would be useless to Maligno?
"Guessy who-ooooo! Daddy’s home!"
I'm sooo worried about little Fabiola. I feel fatherly protective of her (what TN have we seen her in before?). Drat Sebastion and drat Raquel... though she doesn't surprise me.
I'll try to sneak a peak at the actual episode sometime during the day.
Carlos
Carlos: Fabiola alias Geraldine Galvan was in the PESE as Jennifer.
I love this telenovela, but another little note, the storyline is not integrated. For example in some episodes Maria is the central person, but after we don't see for a long time.
Vivi: thanks for the information.
Carlos
I like the music so far because I haven't found it to be overwhelming. No scene so far has jumped out at me as being overtaken by the music, which is often a problem in a lot of tns. I also liked the Fuego Lento song.
Jardinera, yes, the folding thingies aren't very appealing, either. I thought maybe they were meant to represent truth unfolding, but who knows.
Vivi, I'm with you in that Ricky was young and it's been a long time that he's been living with the false understanding, but I'm not so sure that he wouldn't rather welcome the news that the charming Seb is not his relation, and therefore not his problem anymore. I could see him still wanting to help out Maria even after he finds out the truth, which we all know is going to happen sooner or later. But snotty little Sebastian? Not so much. We shall see. :)
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