Saturday, August 23, 2014
Mi Corazon es Tuyo #25 When doing the right thing is doing the wrong thing.
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Despite all the emotion from a broken Ana it pales in comparison to what Jenny may be facing.
Fernando just had to ask if Ana had feelings for him, as if nothing had transpired, what an egotistical, pompous ass.
Nic - you got off easy
Jenny - got my fingers & toes crossed
Isabela - "New Rules"
Yolanda - you had me worried there for a minute
Fanny - the reign of terror won't be yours
Fernando - what's she all butthurt about
Bruno - get your resume ready
Nando - who's side you on anyway
Ana - thank you sir, may I have another
Juan - I smell blood in the water
"I guess this means that Nicolas and Jen won’t be getting it on after all. I sigh with relief."
"Then he asks her if she still feels something for him (why?)" Been asking myself the same.
Isabela showed just how declasse she really is last night. Pulling rank before she has any right to and also showing that she is incapable of treating people with even a microgram of respect.
When you think about it, this is small stuff compared to how she treats Fernando, as though she hears nothing he ever says. He doesn't love her and I think she intends to brainwash him into doing so. Like that's even possible.
As for Fernando asking Ana if she still felt anything for him, that was foolish at best. She really needs to be as far away from him as possible, but won't leave the children at Isabruja's (lack of) mercy.
Having expected Ana to stay on,, it is no surprise she is doing so for the "sake of the children" and her own neediness. I would have so liked her to have just quit as I said yesterday. Self-sacrifice is only good up to a point, and Ana is on the losing end in this equation. I hope she develops some self worth that is not dependent on relationship with others.
Fernando is such a coward but not entirely unrealistic sad to say. It did not surprise me that he would ask Ana if she still felt something for him. Just trying to feed his ego at that point I would say because he already knew the answer to his question from her reaction. And if she said yes, would he have changed his "morally" directed decision. Don't think so. In a way, his strong ethical code makes it all easier for him, because he really never had to make a decision: his ethical code did it for him. Rigid "don Hielo" Fernando is going to have very long and painful journey back to Ana because even though he is basically a nice guy he is weak.
Another thing, why to we have to have a PSA on HPV or on any medical/psychological/social situation? If we have to put up with a certain level of drama in these "comedies" or " dramadies", why do we also have to go down the PSA path? I watched this recorded so I easily could fast forward through those parts. Boring.
After all that, I did enjoy the episode and am looking forward to the kids giving Isabela hell and Ana and Isabela facing off. Shuld be good.
Jarifa
Jarifa
As far as Isabel trapping Fer with a pregnancy, yah, it sounds like something she would do, however she seemed truly surprised by her mother's suggestion that she might be Pregnant...
J in Oregon
I think the point of the psa's are for the viewers who are less educated about health issues. I'm sure that in rural areas of Mexico and the US, there are plenty of those viewers.
As far as Isabela's surprise about the pregnancy, that could be an explanation for the possibility that it isn't Fernando's child. I do think that she does think she loves him, and she does have money problems, and she has a mother breathing down her neck to get them out of their financial straits. So how perfect does it work out that she tells him it's his? So we'll wait until either she the baby needs a blood transfusion and they find out the baby isn't his or the baby dies in utero before Ana and Fer will be together.
I liked the Cinderella motif, too, though it didn't really go anywhere with the shoe ending up in the shed with the kids.
I did wonder about how the HPV virus became such a health threat in that it is rampant among young people in the States and an antibiotic generally cures it. I am NOT advocating risky behavior, just wondering where this is going. Jenny is a sympathetic character and I don't want to see her develop cancer.
It must be tough to direct these child actors. Luz and the twins really are the best aong the younger set. Nando and Fanny are already pretty accomplished and may be older than chidlren at this stage.
Poor Ana. SN has certainly managed to make her plight very sad. I would love to see her hit Isabela every time that she has the temerity to touch her. But she will do what she must for the kids. She did give Isabruja a pretty good tongue lashing on the steps of the mansion.
"I’m completely irritated with Ana right now because she wails that she doesn’t understand why he’s marrying her, but if she just let him explain when he tried, she would know why. UGH!" was well stated. It was exasperating that Ana would not let Fer speak. Is she happier she had to hear the truth from Isa herself?
Poor Jen has had to bear her situation alone. She must be so frightened. She needs Ana and I hope she tells her soon. They really need each other's support.
Please, no more fairies.
Bring on Pablo Montero. We need some new stroylines and fresh characters.
Thanks again.
Diana
SN certainly captured the heartache Ana experienced. At least Ana and Jen have each other.
Fer - You're dead to me.
Having said all that, somebody needs to take that clown Fernando down a couple notches. Isabela have at him and please don't let up even if he whines uncle.
tofie, you have hit MANY nails on the head. You have too, Jarifa. I especially agree with your points re Ana being needy.
Rigidly Right Don Fer is going to be in for a heck of a ride. He deserves it. What an ego to ask Ana if she still cared for him as IF that would change anything. Bozo.
fatima
Fatima, I'm glad you're here. Here's hoping that this TN isn't a waste of time like CI was.So far so good.
Back to school time, when children and parents switch facial expressions.
I know he's a parent after hearing that.
Also, Jarifa and Tofie, while I see what you mean about Ana's neediness in being part of a family, after all, she was abandoned by her mother, I don't recall anything about her father, and the only people she seems to have been close to are Jen and Johnny, I think truly, if it weren't for the children who she has grown to love so much, she would not stay. She will not leave them alone at the mercy of Isabella even though her heart is breaking and I kind of admire her for that. These kids have already lost their mom, their dad pulled away and now losing the one person that kind of holds them together would be too much for them.
As for Yolanda, I have no doubt she will be moving into the mansion too. I just hope the kids give her and Isa a really tough time!
Maricruz
I love Ana but also cannot ignore the type of man Fernando is and confident he won't take that disclosure well.
I'm at the opposite end from most of you about Ana not wanting to hear Fernando's explanation at the restaurant, or as he gave chase and understand why her flight response kicked in. I give her a pass.
As for Jen...
I doubt that it's appendicitis since it's an intermittent severe right lower abdominal pain which hasn't apparently changed much and there is apparently no fever or other symptoms consistent with that diagnosis.
HPV is not generally associated with abdominal pain in the absence of advanced cervical cancer. By the way Mati, I'm not sure what you are thinking about but HPV does not respond to antibiotic therapy. However with the finding of the presence of HPV a cervical biopsy as suggested by the Dr is certainly in order. I assume that a pelvic exam and Pap smear have already been done.
There are numerous possibilities which I won't enumerate, but a pelvic ultrasound would certainly be useful at this point.
Carlos
Been away from telenovelas and any study of Spanish, and find that I've, not surprisingly, slid back on my already limited comprehension.
Liking this show so far.
Not thrilled with the animations, but at least so far the occasional use isn't too annoying.
Thanks Carlos for the info on the PSA on HPV. Perhaps there'll be discussion of the vaccine in a later visit? Thanks also for confirming that sharp pain is not a common symptom. I had been guessing ectopic pregnancy.
Too many evening obligations for me to consistently watch the 8 eastern time slot, but I'll be watching when I can and keeping updated here.
Chris in FL
I like your point about the HPV vaccine. Alicia is about the right age for it at this point and Jen's situation makes for the perfect argument in favor of the vaccine. This vaccine is controversial because a lot of parents see it as a license for sexual activity. How ridiculous.
Tofie, Ana is not a stripper! What she does would have had her working in a circus in earlier times. In the scenes where she is performing she doesn't flirt with any of the patrons and I didn't notice her making any eye contact with them. She also leaves the stage as soon as the act is over. Granted, this is not something to talk about with anyone she would meet related to Fernando's work, but she knows that.
She's also doing a Pygmalion number on herself and she's light years ahead of Maricruz from CI.
I think that no matter what happens to Jen's relationship with Nick it's the final gateway for Fernando to be with Ana once he sees what a bitch Isabela is.
In some ways, I admire Fernando for sticking to his values. He wants this new kid to share the same advantages of his other kids: married parents, his name, living with him in his house, etc. But thinking he can last a lifetime married to this woman is crazy.
So many young women, who are at risk, watch TNs that it would be a shame not to have a good storyline in one on HPV. The doctor seemed more compassionate to me in this episode.
SN is a fine actress. She needs no help from special effects like a fairy and shattered glass.
Welcome back. I had meant to say a few words about the HPV vaccine last night but didn't want to make my comment too long and tedious. The vaccine is a good thing. as you may or may not recall, here in Texas the governor attempted to make it required for girls and came under withering fire for it mainly for the reason UA cited. Eventually I believe that it will be commonly and routinely administered to both girls and boys.
As for ectopic pregnancy, Jenny said that it's been many months since she last had sex so that would be extremely unlikely. Endometrosis or an ovarian cyst are possibilities although the writers seem to linking her symptoms to HPV.
UA,
"... she doesn't flirt with any of the patrons and I didn't notice her making any eye contact with them."
Well, of course with the exception of her little interludes with Fernando in her Lola disguise.
Carlos
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I give Ana 10 Bonus Points for giving it right back to Bela. Rather than turning into a milktoast heroine while facing threats from her nemisis, Ana gave her where to and what for despite the heart ache. She even had the control to wait to cry until she was out of earshot or view.
If HPV is a STD, shouldn't the doctor have told Jen to contact her former lovers to initiate treatment and prevent further infection?
Thanks so much for the good medical information. I didn't mean to sound glib or to misinform: my comment was based on the experiences of a few young adults I know who were treated for what I thought was HPV. I must have the story wrong.
I do think a storyline about the vaccine would be informative. It is a public health concern that is in the interest of young women to address.
Great to have expert commentary to counter novela-medicne, which in this case seems to have been on target if not especially sympathetic, at least the first doctor visit.
Fatima
Cynderella
Hi, guys!
I just got back from my vacation, one that included a spectacular and totally unplanned champagne tasting in the very region of Champagne - in France, where champagne was born.
That being said, I'm very behind on watching and reading the recaps.
I will catch up in time for my Thursday recap, but so far I can't comment on anything that has happened in the last week.
I can, however, thank you all, wonderful recappers, in advance, because I might not have the time to watch the show, but I will most definitely read your recaps.
I'll be back soon! (I hope!)
Tonight's will post on schedule although I will be out. I will check in when I get home, which will probably be at midnight.
I didn't see this epi, but I'm not surprised that Ana is staying for the kids. This isn't an ordinary situation. These kids were really in a bad way when she arrived, and she does not want to leave in the hands of a not-caring woman just when they are starting to make personal breakthroughs or are still in the middle of figuring things out. I don't see that as needy. I see that as selfless. Yes, she loves those kids like crazy, so she also needs them too. But love goes two ways like that-- needing and giving. Ana feels both for the kids. I'm glad to read that she is not rolling over and being a doormat to Isabel. That shows me that she's not some pathetic weakling.
just a couple details..
Jen asks Ana if she’s going to go back to work at the mansion, and Ana realizes she can’t leave the kids exposed to the bruja nightmare that will be Isabela. She gets dressed
this was actually two separate scenes... Jena sks Ana if she will go back and Ana says of course, have to protect the kids from that hypocrit!!
I loved the fact that Ana is pretty realistic saying 'she is a hypocrit!! no, not ugly but hypocrit!!'
and then in the morning after everyone has gone crazy about the little ones being lost, Fernando notices the shoe he put in the coffee table is gone (Luz took it on their way out) and asks about it. then he realizes the little ones might have gone to look for Ana so he asks Bruno to call Ana. then we see the scene at Johnny's where Ana is in a hurry getting dressed telling Jen that the little ones ran away and she has to go help... so Ana is coming back in a hurry because Bruno has alerted her of what is going on.
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and regarding...
Then he asks her if she still feels something for him (why?) and says no, she doesn’t. Falling for him was the biggest mistake she ever made, and she is only staying for the children because she loves them with all her heart.
she did not say falling for him was the biggest mistake... he mentioned that the kiss they ahd was a mistake and she said yes... the biggest mistake i ever made... (but i don't remember her saying anything about coming back because she loves the kids... maybe i did miss that.)
tofie: totally agree on your line for Ana for friday... looks like she has appointed herself the martyr in this show... she will be there for the kids, even if she is suffering her own agony and being treated as 'cinderella' by Isa... (this is where we need Diego here, to give her some support and credibility in Fer's eyes/mind)
ITA with all of you who said Fer is a jerk asking Ana if she has any feelings for him... why??
and then i read Jardinera's comment and thought the same... maybe he is trying to figure out if he can keep Ana as side entertainment while still marrying Isabella... the jerk has a big ego... like this would not totally confuse his kids as to what is proper/correct compared to his telling some of them that he is marrying Isa becuase that is what is correct/proper.
the selfish jerk wants to see if Ana will stay for love for him so he can keep seeing her every day and who knows what else... so he can have his 'needs' met while being 'correcto'...
I wonder what he will do when the first Isabella/Ana confrontation happens in front of him and they try to pull rank... who will he side with? will he tell Ana that Isa is boss? will he tell Isa to lay off the kids, that's Ana's territory?? that is the least Ana would deserve here... Fer can let Isa do whatever with the house and his sorry ass... but Ana should have top priority where the kids are concerned... but if Fernando expects Isa to win over the kids, he can't just undermine her... we'll see...
i was laughing since i made so many mentions of the cinderella story for the prep of the dinner date... and now he ends up carrying the shoe she lost on her run out (I was waiting to hear the midnight bells as she was running out of that restaurant... LOL!!)
Pesos to empanadas he will not have sex with her and that will make her bitchier than ever.
Marta, I laughed when she lost her shoe and recalled your Cinderella comment.
Pesos to empanadas he will not have sex with her and that will make her bitchier than ever.
UA, I so TA with you on that one..
I don't think Fer was being consciously selfish in asking Ana is she still cared for him. I think he's drowning. He's not a "playboy". Like I noted before, I believe that he's only been with one women, his wife. He's only been in love twice: his wife and Ana. He's simply not equipped to deal the situation. Here's where Nico could help.
HPLP list to come.
Salvador: loved the Dharma & Greg shoutout the other day.
Nanette
While I would love for him to support Ana, unless she expresses her undying love and servitude to him he's gonna side with Isabela. ITA. that is what i am afraid we are in to endure for months to come... Ana as the new Cynderella and even though there are no nasty step sisters... there will be the nasty wife and MIL making her life miserable.
I agree with whoever said Ana can work during the day there but not be there at night...
When the revelation of Ana's night job comes to Fernando, we will think the nasty episode where the similar thing happened in Refugio was child's play... even when we know all kids (and Fanny already knows) will side with Ana.
The oh so proper Fernando will be oh not so proper in his reaction.
Highpoints:
Nando/Brianna bond over Stephen Hawking.
Face painting.
Ana keeps Fer from interfering with Fan/Leon kiss.
Fer in casual clothes.
Kids/Ana watching the dance lesson.
Fer dancing in the study.
Fer and Fan talk without fighting.
Nando/Fer playing chess scene.
Fer is OK with Fan taking time off school, but she has to work.
Fer kiss fake out.
Fer/Ana kiss.
The twins covering each other eyes after Luz tells everyone that Fer/Ana kissed.
The kids give Fer/Ana the third degree.
Luz calling Ana out on her lie.
Nando/Ana astronomy lesson.
Nando pleased Brianna likes him.
The kids and Nico on board with helping Bruno.
Fer talking to Nando man-to-man.
Nando tells Fer love is more important.
Fer/Nando “first kiss” conversation.
All Fer/Nando scenes. Love seeing them bond.
Jen tells Johnny stop the pity party.
Ana gets Jen to promise to see the doctor.
Jen suggests an idea to Johnny.
Bruno tells his mother the truth.
Fan’s mature response to Leon wondering if they should break up.
Pimp likes Johnny’s idea (hopefully, gets his attention off Ana).
Dancing on the bus.
Nando won’t betray his dad’s trust.
Alicia/Tattoo guy moment.
Jen finally goes to the doctor.
Ana’s guitar playing and song.
Nando has become a stud.
Kids won’t let Fer explain.
Ana doesn’t back down from Isa.
Ana finds the kids.
Fan asks Isa if she trapped her dad.
Low Points:
Fan’s zoo hat.
Bruno/Manuela.
Isa throws up.
Bruno/Manuela continued.
Isa is eating a lot.
Isa is preggers.
Jen again in pain.
Johnny again gets rough with Ana.
Bruno/Manuela nightmare continues.
Isa tells Fer she’s preggers (seriously, dude, what kind of example is this for your children?).
Fer is cold to Ana.
Bruno lying to his mother.
Fer tells Nando he’s in love with Ana and Isa is preggers.
Manuela is all over Bruno at the dinner table in front of his mother.
Jen has another pain.
It’s official—Isa is preggers.
Fer decides to marry Isa.
Jen has yet another pain.
Leon’s secret must be big.
Fan knows something is up with Leon and is worried.
Fer keeps asking Ana for forgiveness.
Fer “proposes” to Isa.
Isa’s manic glee at Fer’s “proposal”.
Nico’s big misunderstanding.
Everyone thinks Fer is going to propose to Ana.
Nando caught in the middle.
Ana hurt by Nando’s attitude.
Nando isn’t able to warn his dad.
Fer tells Ana he’s marrying Isa.
Ana won’t let Fer explain.
Ana distraught.
Three little ones run away.
Ana Fairy.
Isa is a bruja to Ana.
Jen has HPV.
Isa clings to Fer like the leech she is.
Fer asks Ana if she still feels something for him.
One point I want to make, as a recapper, we have so much detail we can put in the story that it can make the recap be a thousand words long. I consciously left out the part where Ana loses her shoe and Fer picks it up, and then later what happens with the shoe. I determined it had no relevance to the story and it would take a lot of words to explain it all. I call that my literary license to omit that which I want to omit based on irrelevancy.
Perhaps I project, because I would have slapped him.
Perhaps I project, because I would have slapped him.
believe me, you would not be the only one... but it has been mentioned here that Fernando probably has little experience dealing with women and relationships that are not black and white, clear way to the finish line like his first with late Estefania probably was...
so when he is torn between duty and love like here, he finds himself lost... and as he is lost, he doesn't think of other's feelings when he tries to get his own needs met...
I remember Paula H going to length on this comparing self-centered (don't care about others feelings) to self-absorbed (don't notice other's feelings) people. Fernando reminds me of self-absorbed... he is so busy and so totally disconnected (he used to be) with his family's day to day goings that he doesn't know how to handle being torn like this.
Now he was going to impose an alternate 'wife' to them, one they disliked from the get go and were not shy to show it.
this is why when Isa left his office, he sat down deflated and asked himself 'what have I done??' (que hiciste??)
You are correct he is self absorbed and to the detriment of those closest to him.
-- A year, until after the baby is born?
-- Six years, until the baby is in school?
-- 22 years, until the baby graduates college?
-- Until she bankrupts him?
-- The rest of his life?
sadly... the rest of his life.
Jen's symptoms of stabbing pain were perplexing. Is HPV the entire diagnosis, or is there more?
I know Fer thinks the new baby deserves the same thing his other kids had...married parents, stable home, legitimacy, etc., etc., but he needs to face the fact that no matter what he tries to do, life cannot be as good for the coming baby. It has a witch for a mother instead of his saintly first wife, he doesn't love Isa, the other kids hate Isa. He can do all he wants to provide and he might be able to bring the kids around to loving the new hermanit@, but Isa will always be the thorn in the roses and there's no way the kid wouldn't pick up on all that tension and resentment. So it isn't going to have the same loving family experience the other kids had, no matter what (unless Isa disappears).
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