Wednesday, November 11, 2015
Yo No Creo En Los Hombres #86 Tue 11/10/15 - If Reality Bites, Then Josefa Chomps
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Labels: no-creo
Good move on Susanna's part, saying that Gerry was Ivana's novio. It would be good if this takes the wind out of the Santibanez sails.
I hope Pablo Perroni keeps turning up in novelas. Fine dude. Ivana, take notice!
While I understand why Isela would try to pretend nobody's told her I think in the long term that wouldn't work. It's too hard on her and there are too many others who know now. Besides, if Hosefa ever thinks she got what she wanted in terms of destroying the Bustamantes, she wouldn't stop there. She would try to pimp Isela out to the next rich dude to try to get herself into a mansion. She wouldn't even belong in one as a scullery maid.
Better to have a nasty confrontation and get it over with. If Claudio feels guilty enough he can give Isela enough cash to start over elsewhere.
I did look up "blasphemy" in Wiki and Hosefa's non-confession definitely qualifies.
You cleared up what is stage one of the plan for me.
It makes me sick, knowing what we know about Isela, when MD is all huggy and weepy and giving a pass. Now would be a great time for Isela to come clean. Oh, you guys the revenge thing took a back seat when I fell in love with Claudio and I would do absolutely anything to be with him so I went along with Maleny, Usurla and Daniel to take your child away MD. Sorry
Not lost on Alma is Espy's appreciation and respect for Max. Max is a good man, it is unfortunate Espy appreciates him much more than her daughter does. I know that MD never asked anything from Max, certainly not to be a father to Dan's child, Max has done all the offering, but Max is way down on MD's priority list. MD won't even take his calls and it was Espy that had to confirm what Max had assumed. I wonder if she will even fill him in on "The Plan" or allow him to thump along ignorant?
I really wonder how Isela plans to navigate this whole Josefa-Claudio-Alma situation, as she pretends to still be ignorant of the truth about Josefa. Will she try to secretly dig for info about her bio mother and Josefa's husband/her father? Will she go back to the Bustamante home, and if so, will she go back to Claudio's bed? If she does this, will it finally push MD to tell Max about the affair and now also about Isela's real motives, now that MD knows about the revenge scheme? There are so many ways this could go, but none of them seem like good options.
I think Maleny was very impressed by Gerry's physique, although confused as heck about what was going on, knowing/assuming Gerry's sexual orientation, but also hearing him declare he's having a baby with Ivana and Susana declaring they're engaged. Definitely a WTF moment for her.
So Ivana DID manage to get Medina to give her the proof that he has about Hector. What does she plan on doing with this info? Again, her story about saving the baby from Ursula's clutches doesn't wash, because it seems she could easily send Ursula to jail, or at least ruin her reputation. She has enough leverage on so many different levels to destroy the Santibanez and to protect MD and her baby. She just chooses not to.
Have to disagree with you on Doris and Orly. Love them.
I had sympathy for Isela for a long time because of Josefa's abuse, but I had no feelings for her at all last night. If she were straight, she'd tell MD the whole truth. But nope, she's got to continue playing the best angles for herself.
Squeee, Gerry looked smashing in that towel.
So it's okay for the priest to tell MD about Josefa's confession? I'm glad he did, but it seems to me even mentioning to a third party that person came for confession is a no-no.
Are as crazy as ever. How many epys left 34?
Its gettin kinda nuttier than usual. It would be
Good if ivaca had a baby with gerry. That
Kid would be all kinds of loved up. And then
Ivy could be out of that circus.
MD need to start actin like she's really in love
With this man, and actually talk to him. If it
Were me, I'd tell him everything, but thats
Just me. I feel kinda sorry for clod, hes about
To loose his best friend, and he looks scared.
Everything he does from here on better be on the up & up. Cuz he got a lot to loose as far as his family goes. Forget his rep, his family
Would be devastated. When you play in the Cesspool you get dood up.
You raise many interesting questions even though it was not a true confession (no remorse, no absolution). To what extent does the seal of confession protect disclosure of anything including that a person confessed. You really would have to pose the question to an expert in such issues. There have been discussions about what is not protected under the seal, eg., a person who tells a confessor they they intend to murder someone. Without telling authorities who the person was that made the statement under the "seal of confession" it's permissible for the priest to alert competent civil authorities that a crime may be committed against a certain individual if known.
I'm worried about MD and Max. Moving forward, the waters are murkier than ever in terms of MD telling Max what happened between Claudio and Isela. They've promised to stop and now she knows that the plan was a pressure point pushed on Isela for over a decade by the woman she thought was her mother. While before it would've been a matter of sharing some rumors/suspicions, now she knows the whole story about this and telling Max would kind of just hurt everyone. The only way it's not messy from her side is if Claudio and Isela start up again. Also worried about them because in Max's beautiful explanation to his mom, he didn't say that what MD did hurt him to the core, but he's forgiven her and, most importantly, he loves her. Instead he pointed out that he was willing to do it before, and now she's been raped and the baby's a total innocent in all of this. Not ideal, imo.
Tofie - I don't think people are looking at Doris as an irrationally jealous shrew. I thought her reactions were very natural, even if her pushing Isela in the middle was a teeny bit harsh, it wasn't much or for very long. Even she was glassy eyed after Isela's flashback speech.
Was Julian sure the doc told him he couldn't have sex, or did he assume that after the doc said with some similar injuries, many people can't?
Ok, I'm still very confused about a few things, so I need some clarification:
-I thought Gerry said that if Ursula did somehow get the baby from MD and gave it to Ivana, he'd respect that outcome and be there for them both BUT if Ursula failed, then Ivana had to promise to leave it be, baby with natural mom, and try to have a kid with Gerry?
-In the scene with Doris, Orly and Chelo, I thought Orlando was specifically asking Doris not to freak out because he was trying to be supportive of Isela. He's sympathetic because he saw her relatioship with her mom up close and personal. She said she wasn't jumping for joy about it, but she's not a meanie, she gets that it's a tough moment for Isela. Did I miss where they discussed him feeling more than sympathy for Isela or still being interested in her romantically. I confess, I'm very pro Dorly, so I might have blocked it out.
My big question is why did MD tell Josefa Orlando and Isela did run off together and how's she going to explain it to Claudio, Leo and Max?
As for Julian, maybe he just knows that he isn't able to get an erection anymore on his own, so he thinks that he won't be able to do that either if he were with a woman.
Cathyx- Isela said she fell in love with Claudio, despite the revenge scheme.
Cathyx- I was confused about Isela and Claudio too, but I think she ended up saying she does really love Claudio now and she doesn't want to hurt him.
I think Chelito was agreeing with her about not telling Josefa she knows. While MD needed to confront her problem head-on, Isela needs to gather more intel and try to navigate this around Alma so she doesn't get hurt (fat chance, but yeah, she should at least try).
I still think that the best way to keep Josefa quiet is for Isela to go back to the mansion and live there, and tell Josefa that she and Claudio are still getting it on, in other words, still going with the revenge plan. Maybe hold her off until Alma dies.
The sweetest conversation was between Max and Alma about wanting the baby, even though it wasn't his. I would be so proud of him too if he were my son.
As to the confessional questions, a priest told me once upon a time that no disclosure is allowed. There is no reporting the planning of a crime (which is required of psychiatric professionals and social workers) or the commission of a past one. A priest is a sin eater of the living. He can in a veiled way talk to a superior if he has questions on a situation but cannot reveal the identity of the "penitent."
The fact that Hosefa was not repenting is what makes us wonder. I seem to recall a past novela in which the villain boasted of his crimes during confession (conducted in a hospital room) and when the priest asked "And do you repent?" the response was something like "No. And I would do it all again." The priest then said "Then this is not a confession."
If I could remember the episode number I'd check what followed that, but I don't recall the priest repeating any of this to anyone else.
In FELS Fernando was repeatedly taunting Padre Tadeo with how he couldn't reveal what he knew. After the middle episode the padre refused to listen to him anymore. However he ended up doing so within three weeks of the end and struggled with the threat of excommunication over revealing the threats he heard.
I did think it was sweet that in discussing Jenny having a child (regardless of whether it’s with Julian because they were teasing her about Adrian), both Jenny and Fermin were considering her future children Fermin’s grandchild. I think it’s wonderful that Fermin and Jenny have formed this kind of bond. I know it made Julian sad, as he realized that he can’t give his parents a grandchild (at least not in the conventional way), but I don’t think Jenny of Fermin meant any harm.
Gerry--Unless contradicted otherwise by viewerville, I'm firmly in the camp that he is a non-practicing gay man with a BFF who happens to be a "safe" girlfriend. (OK, I was impressed with his physique, too, and he has the looks I would be attracted to.)
As Gerry himself said, many men [gays included] have a strong desire to have and raise children, whether they express it or not. It's sad to think that men like Gerry have an almost impossible uphill battle arranging to have a child, while so many unstable, irresponsible men (I'm looking at Josefa's husband right now) manage to reproduce at an amazing rate. (I'm sad for a gay couple, friends of mine, who are passed the age where they could adopt, have, raise a child, but happy we are heading into a future where loosening those strictures in the law and society's opinions are on the horizon.)
Isela--I fully agree with the comments today and yesterday as to why Isela and Claudio cannot end up together. They are mismatched in every way. How many of us remember that Isela was originally employed at VD as a dress designer with MD? She is perfectly capable of ending this toxic relationship with her non-mother and support herself. But to me, she has *always* come across as weak, dependent on others to enable her victimhood and needs someone to care for her. (Not saying this is her fault.)
As much as we all talk about this or that character in a tn needing therapy, this young woman is desperately in need of it--and not the folksy opinions and advice from the denizens of the neighborhood.
MD & Max--I hadn't really noticed or thought about the fact they've had very little alone time. There is so much drama swirling around them and intense storylines from other characters, that I didn't miss it. We had only one loving coupling between the two where we saw more skin than from the neck up.
We in viewerville have constantly complained that the young leads fall in love at first sight and then some misfortune leads them to be separated for most of the run, including being angry and/or disillusioned by their supposed love-of-their-lives. We should be happy that despite some untruthtelling, Max and MD continue to be together, working things out without throwing things at each other or walking away from each other. I hope I have not spoken too soon. (Of course, outside forces to the contrary--who was it swore MD would never marry Max? Was it Hosefa, Maleny or Ursula? I just remember it was a woman.)
I loved how Max explained his love for MD's baby to his mother, when she questioned how he would feel about raising a child resulting from rape by someone he knew. He explained that when MD thought she was pregnant the first time around, he was ready to raise that child with her then, so why would he act differently this time.
Doris strong point and one which Orlando began to stop her was she understood Isela was abused but she (Doris) had left home as a teen for abuse much less and Isela didn't and there had to be a reason. That was when Orlando chimed in and pressured Isela to disclose the revenge plot.
I think Orlando an absolute fool over anything Isela, and the brief reprieve has been well, brief. Way, way too much concern for her after all she has done to him and I'm sympathetic to Doris and would counsel her wait till that guy ends all his ex drama before even thinking of starting a family. The nerve of Orlando to drag her to Doris's own home. I get what the TN is doing and allowing for abuse as a child to excuse horrible behavior as as adult. I've been involved in court cases and it used as a defense. Rarely worked, sometimes mitigated the length of a sentence though.
Isela is in this for herself. She has used accusations of rape against Orlando, Alma's cancer to keep MD quiet and now Josefa's revenge to keep the affair quiet. How does she get much lower?
Orlando has loved Isela all of his life & it's going to take time for him to completely get over her. Orlando, Doris & Isela all know that so if Doris is uncomfortable with that she needs to say Peace Out and take herself out of the equation until Orlando is truly free. Orlando isn't trying to hide anything from Doris & has been quite frank with her. The Doris/Orlando relationship is not going to be like the Isela/Orlando relationship because Doris & Orlando have a different type of relationship than Isela & Orlando. Isela & Orlando are childhood, childish loves while Doris & Orlando are more of a mature love. If Doris decides to get super jealous, throw tantrums, distrust Orlando etc. she will drive him right back into Isela's arms.
Maria Dolores & Max sex:
Maria Dolores was just raped not too long ago by Daniel. She may not want to have sexual intimacy right now.
Julian sex:
Julian probably wouldn't have had sexual intimacy with anyone whether he was disabled or not because the woman he wants to have sex with is Maria Dolores and she is not trying to have sex with him.
Alma / Claudio / Isela / Josefa
Josefa needs Alma to be alive for her plan to destroy Claudio to work. If Alma is dead, the revelation of a Claudio/Isela affair is worthless. Part of the Angelina / Brad / Jen situation was the gossipmongers got to laugh at and/or feel sorry for Jennifer Aniston for losing her husband to an affair with Angelina. Now that Jennifer is no longer in the mix because of her remarriage, all this Team Jenn & Team Angie & Poor Jennifer stories have no value.
Same with Alma / Claudio / Isela...Alma needs to be alive to learn about Claudio's betrayal so Claudio can feel bad about destroying his wife in her final days. The revelation of his affair with Isela after Alma's death doesn't have the same impact. Sure, it would drive Max & Leo away but they were moving away from Claudio anyway.
I agree about the assessment of the affair being revealed while Alma is still alive. If only Hosefa had done something she could be imprisoned for that might shut her up.
Why are people hating on Doris? She's not actually freaking out. Yeah, she's wary and jealous of Isela - history has given her reason to be. But she's not throwing tantrums about it. She had one hissed convo with Orlando because, let's be real, coming to your new go's house with your old gf and her stuff in tow on Christmas is weird, especially when your old gf's done you very wrong, and is currently doing a family you care about very wrong. She had a right to ask for and explanation and be annoyed. And I think it would be a little difficult for anyone in a new relationship to see their significant other's ex in his/her arms. She didn't fly off the handle about it: she got a little teary, Orlando asked her for some understanding, she gave it. Why are people acting like she's the typical TN crazy-faced gf?
MD/Max: I agree. I want them to have alone time, not necessarily sex. Though I'm a little disappointed we haven't gotten to see that conversation yet. I commented a few weeks ago about that: that they should have some time alone to figure out what they want and how they're going to get there. I thought that after she told Max about the rape, we'd get to see the conversation where she explained why she didn't tell him sooner and he would have a chance to demonstrate his love and patience. They've done that, true, but it would be nice to see them interact one-on-one. They have a very interesting premise, romantically, and I just wish we'd get to see some of that development without other characters' situations taking center stage.
Julian: well, my hope (and I imagine I'm not alone in this) is that he falls for someone else.
"It makes me a bit angry that Doris is looked at as the irrational, jealous voice, when her protest are valid."
if Doris is uncomfortable with that she needs to say Peace Out and take herself out of the equation until Orlando is truly free...If Doris decides to get super jealous, throw tantrums, distrust Orlando etc. she will drive him right back into Isela's arms.
I don't think she's being irrational. And I think that while Orlando could ignore Isela entirely, it speaks highly of him that he's willing to think beyond her betrayal of their love to try to still be a friend to her. It's also speaks to a well-crafted backstory because I think it makes sense that he would react this way. He's a good guy and he's known Isela since he was a kid. He's seen the psychological and physical abuses she's suffered. I think it makes sense that he'd want to see that come to an end.
Frankly, what truly floors me is that MD's neighbors hadn't come up long ago with a plan to run Hosefa out. She had been hurting people with her lies and poison for years. How can anyone live with knowledge that they could be the next victim, particularly when Hosefa made a victim of MD, whom she would have known almost since birth? How much sicker does it get?
Ditto great points Anon207.
UA--your last comment was on the money. She also held Honoria hostage until she and Fermin came clean with Julian. That turned out pretty well. Maybe if they would actually stand up to her and throw a bucket of water on her, she would start to shrivel up like our favorite Wicked Witch of the North.
I'm with Doris on this. It's not a thrill to watch Isela throw herself into Orlando's arms, but I appreciate the fact that he's thinking beyond his personal relationship with Isela and just focusing on the justice of the situation as someone who's seen it unfold for over a decade. He knows it's not about him and Isela because there is no him and Isela. It's about getting a young woman that he once considered a friend away from an obsessed and twisted human being who's influencing her to ruin a family that he likes.
Thanks for the reminder - I actually did forget about Claudio's goons.
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