Wednesday, November 18, 2015
Yo No Creo en los Hombres #92, Wed 11/18/15: Isela and Ivana Confront Their Abusers, But Find They are Looking in a Warped Mirror
Isela: But don’t worry, Josefa. The fact that you and I are nothing to each other, doesn’t mean I don’t want vengeance for the death of my sister. Because she and I are sisters by blood—we shared the same father. The same man you despise. I don’t blame him, because as a woman, you are nothing but trash. We’re in this together.
Josefa: One thing I did do right is create a monster. But just as I created you, I can destroy you. Don’t you dare betray me. Because, hear me well, I WILL kill you. I will KILL you!
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(not knowing what “everything” means) The writers and actors are masterful in the use of perception and misdirection.
I was really fooled and floored that MD told Max about the affair after she characteristically called Max to fish, fearing what Clara told, then speaking with Isela and listening to her bull. Guess I was in the Leo camp at this point, MD has a well deserved reputation of lying and withholding information.
I felt every footfall Clara did as Espy, out of camera, clumped to reproach her for what she may have disclosed to Leo.
I need to beat it in my head so it will stick that Ivana has every intention of taking MD's child.
Unless it ends horribly I'm disappointed the Daniel character gets to blame his degeneracy on dope.
Best work last night was between Azela and Fabiola, incredible. That wasn't a toe to toe TN fight of telegraphed round house slaps and barbs but a cat fight in an alley.
The sixth man thing is like I'm watching Twin Peaks
Had Gerry not been there to control Ivana, she might have really hurt Susana. Poor Gerry. Being played for a fool by Ivana who has every intention of doing whatever it takes to get MD's baby.
I get why Leo is upset at Clara. But he needs to get over it. Everyone knew and didn't tell him, including his brother and father. He's a minor, and it was no one else's duty to tell him something like this except his family. And if his mother said she didn't want him to know yet, that was HER prerogative and her business. Not Clara's. I agree with Espy on this. Clara and Leo may be mature kids, but they are kids.
I'm actually glad MD told Max AFTER the reveal that Claudio helped Dan out of jail because Max now knows his Dad is capable of scummy acts; it is not a far reach to believe Claudio can be cheating on Alma with Isela if he is capable of helping a rapist get out of prison. Claudio has already lost prestige in Max's eyes with the "I helped give a rapist obtain a get-out-of-jail-free card so the fact I helped cover up his father's murder won't get out" so he'll easily believe the affair reveal. That's important because Claudio successfully flipped the script on Leo because his reputation was still pristine. Phase one of the venganza-Claudio's rep damaged is accomplished. I sort of hope Alma dies before she finds out how much of a bum her hubby is. She doesn't deserve such a betrayal.
Revealing the secret now takes the burden off MD back to tbe two participants, where it belongs.
Speaking of Ivana, she looked straight up crazy last night, fuming at the breakfast table after that confrontation and later on the couch. She and Mal should go halfsies on a full-time psychologist.
Color me surprised that MD finally told Max! finally! I was surprised by how relieved I felt when she dropped the bomb. It played out in tragic parallel as Leo and Clara, advocates for truth-telling, broke up outside. Yeah, Vivi, I feel like he will forgive her once Alma tells him that she didn't want anyone to tell him, but he didn't stick around long enough to hear that part last night. JdesdeNYC, that's so true: the timing is very helpful on this. Which has consistently been a significant factor in this TN: what people reveal can often impact things/characters very differently depending on when they reveal it. MD just saved herself another horrific wedding day by telling Max now.
I think the most dramatic moment for me was the MD/Clara confrontation (I watched 2 capitulos last night). WOW! While Clara and Leo can fly off the handle in the name of The Truth, and fail to see shades of gray, I gotta say I was with Clara. In yesterday's comments, I think Vivi said that Clara's outburst was meant to speak for those of Viewerville that were stressing MD's secrecy and ITA. While she got a taste of the reasoning behind it herself and got to see MD's perspective, I still think she was right because MD's reasoning is slightly flawed: while no one wants Alma to suffer even more, I don't think anyone who knows Max believes he would willingly make a decision that could negatively affect his mother's health. As for him, having to deal with so much, that's true, but of all of the people that could drop that bomb, she must know she's probably the one that could hurt him the least with that information in view of how much it would've hurt him to find out that she had known and hadn't told him. So glad she made that choice last night.
Hopefully, Clara and MD will patch things up tomorrow by giving each other credit where credit is due.
Thank you Vivi, great job as always. This show is soooo good, and your recap makes it even better because it fills in the holes I had. There are so many subtleties in this show that your attention to detail is very much appreciated.
Let's hope that what Susana said to Ivana this time will stick and make Ivana realize that yes, she's worse than Susana at this point.
I just came back last night from a long work trip and I need to catch up with Caray Caray but my impression is that MD waited until the Holidays were over to tell Max, so he would have those cherished moments with his family. For all the witholding the truth that MD does, she actually has a tendency to reveal it herself to Max, even if it happens several episodes later.
Jarocha
As bad as I feel for Leo, it wasn't Clara's information to tell. I do think that it was up to Alma to tell him. He would have felt very betrayed if she died and he found out later that both Claudio and Max knew.
I also agree with JdesdeNYC regarding the timing of the adultery reveal. After what Max knows now of his father's actions re Hector's death and Danny-Boy's release, this will be easier for him to accept. The problem is that this secret will be a burden for the rest of Alma's life not because he is incapable of keeping it from her but because of how many other people know it and will use it to hurt her if they can. How long can he protect her from Ursula, Hosefa, Maleny, Danny-Boy?
I'm just thinking of how devastated Alma will be vs. Claudio. Is it crazy how Josefa's willing to blow up Alma's world just so Claudio will get hit by the shrapnel? Or will the guilt and rejection he'll get as a result be equivalent?
Ivana has definitely crossed the line into CrazyTown, but I think that pushing Susanna's face into the plate was for years of the pent-up frustration she must have been feeling over Susanna's insults and humiliations. Why she didn't get rid of her a long time ago is beyond my comprehension. So many people get guilt-tripped into keeping toxic people in their lives that you have to wonder at their motives for imposing the guilt trip.
Alma has been a strong woman most of her life. She raised two honorable sons and was a pillar of the community. If I were her doctor or her lawyer I would advise her to not let the media in on this, rewrite her will and not leave Claudio a thing.
JdesdeNYC- You are so right about the timing of the reveal to Max about the affair. Now, he knows how low his father will go. And he and MD don’t even know yet that he’s getting the man who attacked him and Julian out of jail. I don’t see how Max will ever speak to Claudio again after Alma dies. I’m sure he’ll pretend as best he can before that, for Alma’s sake.
Hellashelle- I’m glad you’re caught up now. I too breathed a sigh of relief when MD told Max about the affair. It’s off our shoulders now as much as it’s off MD’s. “Is it crazy how Josefa's willing to blow up Alma's world just so Claudio will get hit by the shrapnel?” Yes, it’s crazy. But it’s exactly what Josefa wants to do.
Cathyx- I wish I had your faith in Ivana, but I think she’s too far gone. Now she actively deceiving Gerry—lying about accepting his offer to father a child with her, while continuing with her sick obsession with MD’s baby and plotting with the Santibañez.
Jarocha- So good to see you here, amiga! Hope you had a good trip. Yes, I agree that a big part of MD’s delay in telling Max was because she wanted him to have this last happy holiday with his family together and united.
Urban- “How long can he protect her from Ursula, Hosefa, Maleny, Danny-Boy?” Yeah, that’s the six million dollar question. Not for very long, I think.
The number of people in the know is exactly why Claudio should tell Alma himself. I hate Claudio and he just released Dan and he will release the guy that stabbed Max, worried someone will tell, so how far will he go? This is not about Alma but about him covering his ass. If Isela wasn't in the house, if Ursula, Maleny and Josefa weren't threatening daily and he and Alma were in peace I'd say let sleeping dogs lie.
Poor Julian. It must drive him crazy to be so vulnerable. I kept thinking that it would be such torture for him to have his amada held up and assaulted while he couldn't move.
PS: I wasn't on the Patio for the Tuesday's episode, but can I just say that Flavio Medina killed it. He does weird, tortured, grossness like no one else I've ever seen. I was so revolted I think my lip stayed curled up in disgust for the entire episode.
She [Clara] wonders if Alma knew what was going on, would it spur her to fight for her husband, family and her life, instead of giving up as she’s doing. She explains to MD and Espy about Alma’s decision not to get treatment.
I wouldn’t want to take a chance that telling Alma about Claudio’s cheating would make her fight to live, but I do like that Clara thinks outside the box.
When MD went and told Isela that she was going to tell Claudio, I was yelling “Stop tipping off Isela, just do it!”
I have to give kudos to MD though for finding the right words to say to Max last night. You could see how much she cares for him.
I want to see Orly court Doris as he did (unknowingly) when he was hiding in her apartment. Hombre, don’t start something you can’t finish. You were the one that started making out with Doris on the couch in the first place. Getting busy at Chelita’s wouldn’t be right? Then take Doris someplace private and nice.
Also: When MD went and told Isela that she was going to tell Claudio, I was yelling “Stop tipping off Isela, just do it!” LOL, YES!!!
Leo needs to grow up and stop with all the yelling. It's unproductive. I hope Clara lets him have it before she forgives him.
So sure, Tia Susanna is a mooching bitch who totally deserved the breakfast in her face. But she's not wrong this time. Ivana doesn't get to be all high and mighty while plotting to kidnap a newborn (or whatever she's planning). Gerry deserves better. I hope he lets Ivana have it before he forgives her. (He and Clara are too good not to go the forgiveness route).
Kelly
Kelly
Josefa and Susana aren't always liars. Sometimes they tell the truth when no one else will...as long as it benefits them (or their tempers).
It was New Year’s and Doris and Orly are visiting with Chelito. There’s plenty of time for Orly to take Doris somewhere romantic, if and when he’s ready to make love. Remember how long he was with Isela, and they NEVER did the deed (which may actually mean he’s a virgin). I just don’t think he rolls like that. He’s an old fashioned guy, and Chelito approves of that.
Kelly- Chelito was telling Doris that if all she wants is sex and a good time, she can go back to Ari, and she shouldn’t waste Orlando’s time. But if she wanted a real relationship based on love and respect, then she should just enjoy Orly’s slow roll. But she did not give up her own secrets about her former love life. You can bet Chelito, as conservative as she is, had a hot affair or two back in the day.
I just can't believe Ivana. How in the world can a sane person ever go to the lengths she's willing to go thru to get another woman's baby. And to boot-- that sicko's baby!!
And I think Alma's doing a great job with her "illness".
Ann-NYC
I will guess that Max won't tell Alma about the affair and will even try to keep her from finding out about it.
Cathyx- So far only Isela and Adrian are questioning the validity of the letter. I have no idea what Isela thinks it means if the letter turns out not to have been written by Marta. Just because it might not have been written by Marta, doesn't mean Josefa wrote it. We still don't yet know all the details about the theft that landed Marta in jail. It it's indeed true that Marta didn't steal the money from the bank, then she could have been framed by someone else at the bank-- someone who wanted to shut her up permanently.
Kelly
The apartment that Claudio almost bought? Isela made it very clear that Hosefa would not be welcome there. Hosefa more than wore out her welcome at the Bustamantes' mansion. Isela would by then have used any money she had to get away from her and ruin her plans. And take away her last chance at a meal ticket.
I don't know whether Isela loves Claudio or not, but even the idea of that is such betrayal to Hosefa. Not just to her personally but to what she tried to make of Isela.
I also still wonder if Josefa didn't just pressure Marta into stealing for her, since she so enjoys her glimpses of the high life. Now that we've seen Ursula and Dan's experience, I wonder if Marta didn't ask Josefa for money to pay off someone inside to either protect her or stay away from her and Josefa didn't do it or Josefa's mad because Claudio signed off on it being a suicide without due diligence because that's what the coroner's report said (we all know how much a coroner's report means on this show).
It was......... telling.
The santibanasties family is hittin their mark,
The bastards, the lot of em.
Ivana is pitiful. Shes claimin the child as her own. I can't stand her. I hate it when people
Steal other people's children. And she thinks she is entitled to this child for what reason?
Can somebody please explain that to me, why does she think she's entitled to this woman's child? in what universe does she think this is going to be a good thing. this Twisted Sister is perfect for Danny, perfect she's just as really messed up as he is. these people are going to get exactly what they deserve and I think they deserve something a lot worse than an anvil. Especially those nasty santibanasties.
On another Santibanez question, does anyone remember Arango's explanation for telling Ursula they're bankrupt? And do her amoral brats still think this? If so the writers failed to provide that revelation.
Different mommas? Sounds right. And so thats why hosefa abused her all these years cuz her bio mom wasn't around?,Yes?!?! What a hot mess. Come on happy ending!!!!!
Nina- Yes. Josefa is taking her anger about Isela's mother stealing her husband, dumping their baby on her (or maybe Jo took Isela from them???), and running off together, out on Isela.
They did both continue the lie with Danny-Boy and Maleny and I can understand why they did it although it never occurred to her or to Arango that they should just go out and get jobs.
Marcia
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