Saturday, December 07, 2013
Mentir Para Vivir #44 Fri 12/6/13 Making An Offer He CAN Refuse
No amount of money, JL emphasizes with a sincere look on his face, could separate him from his family again. Paloma insists it’s her family also, but he points out to Paloma that her family is merely an imaginary one while his is the real thing. He and Oriana have years together and a real past. Where there’s smoke there’s usually fire he tells her [lit., where there are ashes, cinders remain]. He is sure his wife still loves him, so, though Paloma’s offer is extremely tempting, he’s not taking the deal.
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I love the way the writers have handled JL, making him ALMOST redeemable at many key points, then pulling the rug out from under the good JL with some bad behavior -- often associated with that very well-behaved dog Tito! Well done by the handsome DO, too.
I was liking Ricardo more last night, as he juggled his many legal battles, trying to do the right thing throughout. Lila certainly didn't let her grief for her brother interfere with her interest in the moolah.
I love it that the actor who plays Manolo is getting to have a playful and flirty relationship with someone as attractive as Lucina. He too often cast is the steady right hand man or servant. He's been very good in this.
Traveling Lady, I agree with all of your points. I was thinking the same thing about JL. And your point about the actor playing Manolo too. Although I would like to see Lucina with Ruben, I would like to see her have a relationship with Manolo too.
What a STELLAR team of recappers for this thoroughly enjoyable novela! Each of you ladies have your own inimitable styles. What talented writers you are!!
A huge thank you from a newbie in Viewerville who is looking forward to another wonderful weekend discussion!
Fatima
Cathyx you are so right. This show definitely delivers.
Traveling lady-Have you seen Bajo la Misma Luna? The actor who plays Manolo has a smallish role, but he really shines in it.
A question about the actor who plays Manolo's cousin (the head police guy of Hermosillo.) Is that the same guy who played El Gordo in LFDD?
Cathyx - I also want to see Lucina with Ruben, but get a kick out of Manolo and Lucina together. She is such a good character. I'd love to run into her in real life! She lights up the room.
Awaiting your masterpiece dear Jardinera. Bye for now.
Hanna
Raquel is like a spy. Last time she watched the fight from back, in this episode she eavesdroped Lucina and Manolo conversation.
I wonder if anyone knows how many episodes remain for this TN.... this TN could be easily wrapped up in a couple of episodes.... Orines needs to stop the pretences, and cut JL loose. With the "drop kick" of Tito fresh in the mind of Rhodalina, Orines can go back to the Old Lady, and be well protected from JL.
BTW, I am not sure that Ricky is the man for Orines...There is something about a man that cries to be with a woman, that just does not sit well with me. (JL is doing it too.)
To borrow from Steve Harvey, a man profess his love, provides and protect his woman. they (JL and Ricky) don't whine, and shed tears to show their love, to a woman.
I don't know of any woman, that wants a crying (weak) man, although this can get women in touble, because they (women) are sometimes attracted to A$$holes, they confuse with a strong man.
I must admit, this TN is not bad, I wished it came on earlier, 'cause I find myself staying up to watch, not waiting for Univison.com.
Agree about the Fashion Police alert. Weird outfit on Oriana for un paseo.
Can Tito really be dead? I am laughing at the thought of JL living in that little house, but sick with worry that we have seen the last of quite a canine actor. The actress who plays Alina certainly handles the coming and going with Tito on that short leash very well.
Not that it matters to Alina, or to Tito, but I'm wondering if JL actually kicked Tito or if instead he shook him off his leg. Thankfully, the camera didn't show exactly what happened, only JL and Oriana's shocked faces as Tito lands on the grass. Hope they can patch him up.
Strange that the law would take Sebas' shares, but maybe the jerk will open his eyes about Ricky when he sees he'll keep him in the family.
Lee Fox - Men crying is a staple in TNs. Apparently, the producers think the viewers like it.
Even though JL needs to quit and let Oriana move on, they need family therapy to help Alina deal with this. Maybe it would even help JL. If Tony Soprano could do it, he can too.
I also hope Tito has not done for, pobricito.
JL's violence is escalating: first Oriana, Tito and I'm concerned about Lina too. His new job seems to be bringing out the worst in him.
UA - we did talk about the new opening. Some liked it, others didn't. The scene w/Maddie and her kids and Ruben is spot on.
Question: Did anyone besides me get the impression that Oriana gave in and had sex with JL. Judging from her reaction afterwards crying, holding onto the covers securely. To top it off, the way she went for the shower was as if she felt dirty. after all she was already in bed for the night when JL entered. Why would she need a shower merely because he asked for sex? Also, with my mind already in the gutter, I didn't imagine that JL had given up and left the room so peacefully.
My favorite line from the recap was "She winds up the ol’ Victrola with that scratched record of hers and puts the needle on".
Niecie in MD, this is my 4th TN, but the first Drama. (I really like this better than the comedies that turned into dramas).
I have seen grown a$$ men crying like babies, in each TN. They build the galans up as hulks, then turn them into pudding when the woman doesnot want them anymore.....How much of this is "Art" imitating "Life".
Lee Fox - I'd like to know the truth on "Art" versus "Life" too.
I just finished watching the episode and I also hope Tito is ok. The way JL is treating the most defenseless for his household (Lina and Tito) says a lot about his true nature. He better get one hell of a Karmageddon. I don't believe for a second that he did what he did to give his family a better life. He was greedy. He only wants Oriana to maintain control. The only love there is sick and twisted. He's an abuser. Punto.
And I understand that in real life a victim often does continue to stay with the abuser, but this is a TN and I feel like this storyline is just encouraging that kind of behavior instead of sending a "get the hell out" message. JL gets darker and more violent and Oriana just digs in her heels and fires up the ol' Victrola (another great line.)
Loved Inspector Gadget and the Elfin Musicians and the 50's music line. I got a huge laugh out of that one!!
The one who is really bugging me right now is Oriana. I can't put my finger on it, but she's bugging me. The darn kid Alina doesn't need to get everything she wants. Oriana didn't have to go back to JL. Now, JL is getting even more controlling and abusive which is going to make it harder and harder to leave.
I fear that Alina and Oriana are going to become prisoners very soon.
As for my little Tito El Bambino, that little doggie had better be alive...or else.
Fatima
We are wondering how some of these TN, especially the comedies, perform in your country? Hope you can add your comments over there as I know I would love to hear your thoughts, too!
Gracias!
Fatima
In the words of Bulldog Briscoe "This stinks! This is total BS!"
Nothing about the interactions between JL and Oriana are good for Alina. Whether Tito survived that kick or not she isn't going to forget this spectacularly gratuitous display of cruelty.
I had signed up for hulu before I left in order to be able to keep up, but come (here) to find that hulu doesn't work in mx. I find that really galling since I am paying for the service,not to mention that it cuts me off from my addiction. I'm working on a work around, but so far,no luck. If anyone has any tech advice,I sure would appreciate it. Until I can figure something out,I am ever more dependent on our fab recappers as my lifeline.
Other than that,having a great time. Tonight we're headed for Garibaldi, will keep a sharp eye out for Jose Alfredo and the rest of the gang.
Carolina
Lina is so enamored with her father that Oriana sitting her down for a heart-to-heart would do no good. She has to experience his venom herself, unfortunately. And the Tito situation is opening her eyes.
JL is still a moron. He's doing the whole 'reconquista mi mujer y mi hija' thing wrong. Ric is also a more sincere heartfelt crier. JL's tears just freaked me out, while Ric's made me go 'Aaw'. JL's tears were more 'I'm crying to make you feel bad and force you to sleep with me' while Ric's was more 'I can't live without you, please don't leave me.' However, I'm still shocked he didn't take Doña Paloma's money.
Lee Fox 03:41 PM. You wrote: "To borrow from Steve Harvey, a man profess his love, provides and protect his woman. they (JL and Ricky) don't whine, and shed tears to show their love, to a woman". I like Steve Harvey but IMHO I think his statement is a bit outdated. It was applicable back when a women's role was in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant.
I don't see crying necessarily as a sign of weakness in a man. For one thing, what men do is more what I call "shed a tear". It's the women who weep nonstop at every opportunity.
That said, I find Ric's nonstop begging more annoying than the crying.
Ramera wear! I am dying laughing with the image of your husband thrilled to death that he saw ramera wear in real time!! :))
Please keep us updated on your travels there. Tell us more about the FOOD!
Fatima
Fatima
Cynderella
Just one of the many reasons for the transformation of the type families we see today. Single parenting seems to be the normal family unit today. (BTW - women can't raise boys to be men, a man has to be somewhere in a boys life.)
The point I was making, dealt more with men having a backbone. Profess your love for a woman, but if she don't want you....move on.
The sons of single women don't grow up to be men? Don't grow up to be what you would call a man, whatever that is? What examples do boys need in order to be a productive adult who treats women fairly? My answer is that they need to see men treating their mothers and sisters with respect. The men that the mother's choose to date can do that, but then it's up to her to expect and demand to be treated with respect or they are out the door. And that is all boys need to know to grow up to be a man. They don't need a man to teach them that, they need the women in their lives to teach them that.
I'm not saying that fathers aren't important, because they are. A healthy relationship between the two parents is the most important thing in any child's life, but if the relationship is not healthy, then it's better that the children are not subject to that. And that is my own humble opinion.
Too bad that Rhodalina didn't select a Rottweiler. Little Tito certainly has a warrior's heart but is after all is said and done...well... little. I'm guessing that he is still alive but suspect that things will never quite be the same between father and daughter.
I really like Carmelo. He reminds me of a real life cop I know, right down to the scowl and the dangling unlit cigarette.
I'm so sad that Berto was killed so soon. I'm guessing that ballistics will reveal that the same pistol was used to kill Ricky's daddy.
I can't decide whose begging annoys me the most, Ricky's or JL's.
I get a kick out of the sneaky face that the sweet Paloma gets when she is doing a bit of conniving.
Carlos
I tried so hard to make my sons "men" that they joke and say that I was rough with them. The other day, my son said (joking), Ma my arm is broke...I'd say get up, shake it off, quit crying and act like a man. Has your arm fallen off? Then you're OK.
When boys transition to men, only a man can guide him through the perils and challenges of manhood. The man does not have to be a dad or boyfriend, they can be a teacher, coach, minister etc.
For me, the whole men crying in tns is a form of humility for the galan to show he's serious about the prota since the galan is typically a rich guy usually gets what he wants. It's a big courting game. Look at Ric. He's had various women crazy about him-Marilu, Raquel, Maria, etc, but only with his true love' Oriana has he had to do the work to get her heart. There's no doubt he can take care if her, but her hubby JL, who through his contraband business deals can also take care of her. But Oriana doesn't want just money. She wants someone who'll protect her peace of mind. That's why Ric is the galan and JL the Villano. Ric is willing to humble himself and protect Oriana-he told her about Sebas and Maria, offered to sell his shares to get JL to leave her alone, get the Colombian lawyer to clear her name. JL has just made Ori's life hell-dirtying her name originally and blackmailing her to stay with him. Just a thought.
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Sara C.:
As for the law governing the rights of inheritance, I have no idea cuz I thought the same as you. I have to figure that it is just different south of the border....
As for why they gave in to Lila's demands, all I can think is that they wanted to avoid the scandal of a public legal fight, because it just doesn't seem right to me. Would all adopted children be in danger of losing their inheritance?
When people lament the high divorce rate in recent times I have to think that the failure to form strong relationships is the primary cause and children growing up in single-parent households are at a distinct disadvantage for this because they have no primary example to follow.
Human isolation is getting worse all the time in other ways. We're now living in a world where many people don't even learn the art of conversation. I fear for the future.
In Por Siempre Mi Amor, both protagonists are business owners who have made their own wealth. In Robo, she’s old money, he’s new money. In PEAM, she was rich and highly educated, he was poor and highly educated.
If she has the 44, then all they can do is prove that that was the gun that killed Ric's dad, but not that Oriana didn't use it. If JL has the smaller gun that Lina held, the prints won't be on that one either. I'm not sure how JL would be able to use that gun to keep Oriana around.
I think here in Mentir we don't actually know Oriana's background. We know she went to college and can teach math. Her parents are dead and she didn't know her grandparents. So, she was pretty much middle class. She didn't work when she was in Colombia in order to take care of Lina but she didn't have servants, drivers, etc. She also adjusted quickly to the idea of working and taking care of her daughter as a shop girl when she first assumed Ines' identity.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that in tns I've seen, money is never really an object for the galan so Lee fox's projection of how crying/begging works in tns based on his own American experience doesn't really fit since most tns are just variations on the Cinderella story-something traditional like Maria Isabel, Mentir which is in the middle IMHO, or even something out there like Teresa-I just read a photo blog chronicling how that TN went where the prota was pretty evil and stepped on everyone to get out of poverty.
And I use tns as variations of Cinderella stories because iirc in Cinderella the prince was seeking the right girl as much or more than Cinderella
I am no Luddite. I keep up with technology, but honest to gosh, I get literally FRIED when people just want to communicate via garbled text message. They don't even want to talk over the phone. Nopis. just try getting same people to put down their stinking phones when they do finally agree to go out for a meal.
I enjoy others company. I enjoy good discussion. The dinner table for my family was a chance for a daily, monthly, yearly "speak to each other" time. It was a thrill for me as a child to be allowed to sit at the dinner table when my parents' wonderful friends came over for dinner. I might not have always understood their highbrow conversations, but I was allowed to sit there and take it all in.
Those types of settings are few and far between and I was not born in the dark ages, either. Guess I was just lucky with the parents I had.
I digress, but I had to tell you that I am in TOTAL agreement.
Fatima
In their view, there is "no time" to take the time to sit and talk. They prefer text message or a quick Skype or using the iPad to chat.
They do this with everyone. They want to "get it over with".
Of course, my friends' parents like me because I like to talk! LOL!
Fatima
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