Tuesday, December 10, 2013
Mentir Para Vivir #45 Mon 12/9/13 Tito has nine lives – how will Jose Luis explain this new lie?
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How funny we all are about Tito! We love him, so and the collective sigh of relief must have been heard in Mexico. Great to see him alive and in the hands of our handsome Good Samaritan.
I did get a small kick out of JL with his band of possible Tito substitutes. Nothing like the real thing.
I found myself wondering how in the world the writers could have bumped him off?! At the point that I saw JL carrying my little Bambino, I figured he was gone for good. Never in my wildest dreams did I think JL would LIE to his DAUGHTER and tell her Tito was dead when, in fact, he just dumped him off to die. JL had NO intention of taking my little Tito to the vet.
That action alone confirmed for me that JL is mentally ill. I am also glad that Oriana is telling Rhodalina that her father is ill versus "bad".
So, what drives Matilde's anger that she is so ugly and hateful to her children? There is no excuse for how she spoke to and treated Fabiola last night. Matilde is a sanctimonious, self righteous fool. She has been calculating in the way she has lived off of Paloma. She knows darn well what she is doing. Her acts are intentionally designed to hurt and control.
In my view, any mother who does these things to her children, must be in a world of hurt and anger themselves. So, what has happened in Matilde's life to cause this horrible behavior (and, no, don't tell me it is because her husband lost his job, blah, blah, blah. That has NOTHING to do with it).
Is Matilde redeemable or not? I guess only time will tell.
Thank you SO much for this really precise recap, Adriana Noel!
Fatima
The point where I wanted to throttle her was when she told Oriana that Ric was bad. Really, kid? Really, Rhodalina? Tito is gone and you're talking trash about Ric.
Anywho, it was a bit of an odd moment there.
Also gotta say that Ric is my man. I don't see anything weak in his profession of love to Oriana when he throws in the tears. To me, it does not come off as begging. Ric was a player. Ric has now found someone that has stolen his heart. I think it has taken Ric so much by surprise that he has these moments of being overcome by the whole thing.
If Ric were standing here right now telling me the same thing, you betcha I wouldn't tell him to go take a hike!
Fatima
I want to single out this passage because it was so funny to me: "Oriana, this is what happens when you take moving advice from a 6 year old – they change their mind the moment dad kills their pet – kids these days are just too spoiled.
Sounds like this was a pretty interesting capitulo. I hope I find time to watch it today.
Besides, I already knew Tito was fine.
"See, Oriana, this is what happens when you take moving advice from a 6 year old – they change their mind the moment dad kills their pet – kids these days are just too spoiled."
Heh heh.
So the stars have lined up for Rick to be a hero for Rhodalina. The vet remembers Tito, has linked him to Rick. Rick gets to pay the vet bill (again) and produce a mended Tito. Yay!
And hurrah for the guy and his Doberman... I hope that they get some deserved credit. I like them both better than I like Rick.
Carlos
Carlos
Why on earth is Oriana saying JL is sick? If he was acting this way after being a solider in a war w/PTSD, I could understand this. But his actions come from him continuously making bad decisions (not just ONE as he likes to claim) and believing his wife and child should always agree with him. And when we realized he left Tito to die in the park, I was revolted.
Also why is Sebanada wanting to kill Rick? Clearly Rick handled both Maria and Seb situations badly but Seb's rage is misplaced. And when you see how people are trying to please him while he raped an innocent young woman, the character moves closer to being unredeemed.
My take on Oriana telling Rhodalina that JL is "ill": this is the only way Oriana can describe what JL is doing and how he is behaving. I think it is finally dawning on Oriana that some switch has flipped in JL's brain, but not even she knows how to explain what is happening to JL.
I was glad that she didn't use "bad" to describe JL because this is the same word that Rhodalina uses to describe Ric. I think Oriana was trying to go for a more concrete description of JL (which was probably lacking) versus a more abstract descriptor that the child would not understand.
Fatima
I was also amused and disturbed by Paloma's assertion about hiring a hit on JL. I don't think she's really serious, but...
JL's actions with the dog were sick. I don't think Ori could have found a better way to describe his attitude and actions to Alina.
Alina is only calling Rick bad because that is how JL described him to her. I think this time living with JL was exactly what both Ori and Alina needed to realize that JL is not the same man. Or at least to see what's behind the mask when everything isn't going JL's way. The only problem now will be escaping him. I don't think he'll buy this idea of them going on "vacation" without him. I'm sure he'll suspect the truth-- that Ori is leaving him.
Kudos to Ricky for not saying "I told you so" to Oriana, at least I don't think he said it pointblank.
Can't wait for Tito to reappear in Alina's life. Maybe this time the Good Samaritan will stick around. And maybe hit it off with Fabiola? She needs a friend closer to her own age.
Niecie in MD, like you, I don't think Ric said anything even approaching "I told you so" in this episode. That's my man!
The scene were JL was raging in his room with Oriana on the other side of the door really demonstrated (to me) just how phony that rage was and how he is such an expert manipulator. For one brief moment, I thought Oriana would cave, but thankfully, she walked away.
I would so love to know the back story on their marriage. Surely, there must have been signs along the way that JL was not a good choice in a husband. The back story is just as important as the current story.
Fatima
My thought when he told her he'd get her another dog was that he would get something large and utilitarian as in Guard Dog to keep other people away from Oriana and Alina. Something she would be afraid of. It's way beyond not getting it.
I think he's both amoral and sick. Speculation, not spoiler: In the finale they will find out that he has the same brain tumor as Alvaro Montellano in Duelo de Pasiones.
Do we know if Oriana has currently voiced if she had any doubts about JL during that time frame when she married him and went to Colombia?
Sometimes, we see things, but don't want to give voice to our doubts. I just wonder if Oriana had doubts then.
I can also understand the emotional turmoil she feels. She loved the guy. It has to be very painful.
Fatima
I'm with others who do not understand Sebastian's rage at Ric. Ric tells him that he will still consider him his son or brother and that won't change.
I am also wondering what is Mathilde's backstory. Toxic parenting always has a genesis; her parents could have been just as bad as she is.
I agree with you and other commenters, on Orines letting a 6 year old run her into a snag by moving in with JL. Since she was very comfortable at Polomas...
Again, I am somewhat baffled by the way the children in the TN's I have watched, have so much authority, and comand over the grown-ups. I commented on PEAM, and was semi beat down for saying that, children need to let the grown ups make the decisions, and they stay out of grown folks business....
Rhodellina is a "cutie" pie,(and a very good little actress) but she needs to let her mom make the decisions, where to live, and what company to keep. Dad (JL) should be in her life, but only on every other weekend....period.
Kelly
As for why Oriana describes her husband as 'sick' well just remember how many screws must be loose JL's brain. He likes putting his finger to fire to start with...
I'm glad Leonardo the Park Rescue Hero is back. I hope we see more of him! He seems like a good prospect for Fabi.
Poor Alina is going to develop a very warped understanding of death. She was told her father is dead...now he's back. She was told Tito was dead...now she'll surely soon be reunited with him, too. When someone she knows actually dies for real, she'll probably keep waiting for their reappearance.
Fidelia probably has a shrine to her long-lost love Ruben in that house. Or something. She is VERY insistent on not letting anyone go there until she's been.
What about Ric's cabin that Sebas and Maria hung out in for awhile? Couldn't Oriana and Alina go there? Or would it be easier for JL to find them there?
- A secret love child with Ruben?
- A playboy collection, the men edition (are they called Playgirl)
- Pictures of Maddy and Ruben's 20 years of marriage, all over the walls?
JL clearly has some emotional issues. Trying to win Alina back with 4 dogs won't help. He needs to stop trying too hard to impress his wife and daughter.
It doesn't look like Manolo will be so understanding if Lucina tells him the truth. She and Raquel may be in trouble.
I too wonder if Fidelia is hiding something at her other residence. We shall see.
--TF
I disagree w/ the theory that there's always a rich galan and a poor(er) protagonista. That didn't happen on Fuego en la Sangre.
I don't think Ricardo handled that encounter w/ Sebastian very well. Ricardo is deeply flawed. I feel sorry for that kid.
Ricardo probably could have done better with Sebastian, but that kid is seriously disturbed. I have to wonder how that happened.
There is something really wrong with Sebas. I can't really get on his side after what he did to Fabi, but I think he has some serious damage. I'm with Ric, though...can't figure out what or why.
I'd like to add my 2 cents to the "bad" versus "sick" debate. I say the man is sick. Not to worry, when you think of it, "sick" is worse than "bad". For one thing, merely describing or labeling someone as bad is too general and vague. But if asked what makes you call a person bad you'd list things like criminal behavior, cruelty to animals, angry outbursts, mood swings, self harm, abusive, conniving, accessory after murder. IMO a person has to be sick to be this bad.
Oriana giving in on the JL situation was the only time she did give in to Alina and she had to in a way. The family broke up suddenly and Oriana had to lie to Alina about her father being dead and have Alina lie about her identity and Alina complied. Their deal broke down when JL came back and basically forced Oriana to come back with him after strategically poisoning Alina's mind towards Ricardo and basically telling Alina she had to pick a parent to live with. Oriana basically decided, after the whole 'porque tantas mentiras' convo that she was just gonna have to suck it up and move Alina and herself in with JL to show her daughter that she wasn't the bad guy. Now that they're there in Fort Falcon, Alina is learning firsthand that her dad is a dirtbag. Oriana couldn't,t tell Alina that, she had to experience it for ourselves, especiallynsinc a lot of us were unsure if JL was a bad guy or a good guy. Oriana and Alina moving in has shown conclusively that he's a dirtbag and Tito showing up tonight, hopefully, will show that he's a bigger liar than Oriana because JL didn't lie to protect the innocent as the protags have done in this TN, but only himself.
It was so funny when Martin got in the back seat with the dobbie, who is as big as he is.
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