Friday, March 14, 2014
Lo que la vida me robo #88 3/14/14: Something something ...
Recap later, discuss amongst yourselves in the meantime!
Hello everyone, UPDATE SUNDAY NIGHT:
This has been an unusual weekend! I'm spending it in the hospital, hanging out with a family member (who will be okay). I've been watching robo on hulu with my phone & iPad. I'm going to try to write some sort of summary, but it's a bit dodgy on a phone, as I can't seem to get my browser on the ipad to work!
RECAP, briefly, from my iPad. events not always listed in order, please forgive, it's hard to edit on an ipad!
JL catches Ale burning the drug money at the beach. But rather than busting him, the have a heart to heart over a beach campfire. JL tells Ale that Monserrat hates him (JL) right now, and perhaps that's for the best. Monserrat thinks JL betrayed Ale, but that's not JL's style. JL talks about what a blessing Angel is, how much he cares for her (quiero, not amo) and he'll be empty when she dies. Ale is reassured that Monserrat never cheated on him with JL, but JL says, when Angel dies, he'll keep trying to get Monserrat back, that's just how he is. But... It's better that Monserrat hate JL for now... during this exchange Scheming Prima is watching them with great interest...
Bitch Maria fill scheming prima of Ale in on all of Ale's history. Scheming prima flatters Bitch Maria, telling her she's prettier than Monserrat, and so forth.
JL interrogates sleazy drug dealer who rats out Angel's dad (I think?). He feels very betrayed, and that's why he's ratting him out. he doesnn't know the identity of Joaquin's socio (business partner).
Ezequiel tells Medina that they haven't got enough evidence to pin anything on Ale. Medina tells him that he's got a powerful friend, he's pulled some strings, and they can get Ale now. Make haste!
Macario is warning Ale about JL, he thinks maybe JL conspired against Ale; I am missing something here. Ale doesn't think JL is conspiring against him. But I think Ale's a little worried. He asks Monse where she went to (or something) and is reassured by her answer. She is all loving concern about him.
Dim is joining the navy, and is sincere. Capt. Robledo knows Dim's dad would be so proud. Robledo has Refugio be in charge of Dim. Refugio acts very agreeable in front of Robledo, but as soon as they're alone, he unleashes his outrage on Dim, who says, hey look, I understand that no one believes me, but give me time to prove myself. Refugio later goes to JL to update him on the latest with Dim.
Hot Lawyer (co conspirator of Scheming Prima) is family friend of Josefina. They have a visit and she tells him how Dim is turning out okay. He was a gold-digger at first, but now that's all changed. Hot Lawyer is sure that Dim is a good guy. He smiles... Graciela comes in, all cool and aloof, and Sandro (Hot Lawyer) is all thrilled to see her.
Monse is reassuring Ale of her concern and love when in comes Ezekiel, ready to arrest him! Uh oh!
Sandro aka Hot Lawyer, has coffee with Fina and Graciela. He tells Graciela how his client is the niece of Benjamin, daughter of Ben's sister. Imposible, exclaims Gracie, the sister was sterile, couldn't have kids!
Both Ale's mom and wife wail in despair at Ale being taken away, but he kisses them both for goodbye and goes with the police.
Sandro is talking about his 'client' and the whole process of figuring out if she's an heir of Benjamin's, will Ale fight this? Monse says no. Graciela is all intent on this topic because she's obviously not happy to think Ale will be sharing his inheritance.
Drug dealer is visited by Medina, who offers him a deal: confess and I'll make sure you have to only serve a few years. Dealer says no thanks. the next scene has Angel's dad (whose name again escapes me) being furtively handed a switchblade by a guard, I think the blade is from Medina. No sooner has he pocketed the knife than Drug dealer spots him in the prison yard, comes over to accuse and argue with him for being a traitor. Angel's dad has his buddies pin down Drug Dealer, as he explains something (?) and then stabs him. Goodbye Drug Dealer.
The last scene is of Ale being checked into jail, the humiliation of having to state to the crime he's been accused of to the admitting guard, having his photo taken, and so forth. Ale gets to his cell and who is in a nearby cell but his old buddy, Amgel's dad! Angel's dad looks all teary-eyed as Ale gives him a venomous stinkeye.
END OF EPISODE!!! Didn't see the avances, but am sure they are MUST SEE TV!!!
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Looking forward to your recap. Thanks for letting us discuss in the meantime.
What an episode. I have a newfound respect for JL. My guess is that he wants to help Ale because he knows what it's like to be wrongfully accused.
Macario sure found the right time to spill the beans to Ale. But as many on The Patio have come to find out, Ale did not get angry at what Mac confessed to him about Montse. Not only that, but he was ok when Montse fessed up to lying about her secret visit to JL. What sucks is that now that Ale is showing his trust in Montse, those monkey writers want to separate them. Que the heck?
OMG. Ale's in jail and he still looks good in that prison uniform. I hope he's not in there for long, but I have a bad feeling because we still have ALOT of epi's left. Could Pedro be worse than Herny from LT? My vote for evil person of the year would have to go to Pedro. I think he's done worse things in a shorter amount of time.
Even though he's dead, I was glad that Samuel (the drug guy) said NO to Pedro. It's about time someone told him NO. Of course Pedro had Joaquin do his dirty work for him. It makes me wonder if that was the first time Joaquin killed someone. I fear he won't be with us for very long.
Very sweet scene with Dimi coming into see Fina sleeping. I was happy that Addie didn't convince him to stay out any later, and that he showed up at the Naval base the next morning. These scenes bring a smile to my face.
No spoiler here, but I see more bad things happening with the teaming of BM and Faby. They will probably use each other to try and get what they want.
Gracie looked like she wanted to go for a ride on Sandro's yacht, if you know what I mean.
Off to bed...hasta pronto!
The conversation between Maria and Fabiola was interesting because of Maria's information about the length of Benjamin's "illness." It sounds like someone was administering arsenic over a long period of time to off him. That's about as cold as it gets.
Again we have a situation where someone didn't know about being adopted. Sandro didn't, as evidenced by the look on his face when Graceless told him that Anastasia was sterile. Whether Anastasia knew of the baby's alleged origin we don't know. Graceless had no idea that Anastasia and her husband had a child at all. Did Benjamin swear Amelia to secrecy about this?
Benjamin must have spent a lot of energy keeping secrets. We have to wonder why. If he knew or thought he knew of the baby's origins he might have disinherited her partly as revenge against Graceless.
In any event, adopted children have equal inheritance rights. I guess whatever Anastasia and her husband had has been frittered away by now.
I'm going out in less than an hour so I'll end this post on the following note:
We have no idea whether Fabiola is the real deal. The following scenarios are all still possible:
1. Fabiola is the daughter of Benjamin and Graceless
2. Fabiola was switched at birth with Maria, who is the daughter of Benjamin and Graceless
3. #1 and Maria is also the daughter of Benjamin, who victimized Gaspar's wife. He certainly wouldn't have been above that.
All of the above could have happened and the woman who calls herself Fabiola now is an impostor who killed the real Fabiola at some point along the way. She could also have been a rehab associate who took advantage of a relapse death to assume her identity. That could have happened at any time.
The fact that Benjamin instructed that her existence not be revealed and the monthly stipend stopped is interesting. Is it possible that he saw her in Miami and realized she was an impostor?
Dim coming home to Fina--sweeter and sexier than some steamier moments. But I knew it would happen and I'm still beyond ticked that he is under Refugio's tutelage.
Watching Sandho and Graceless get out their claws towards each other thinking the other is loaded---lord that was fun. What a twosome who deserve to get played.
Can't wait for your awesome recap Elvira. Will check in later!
Daisynjay
AuntyAnn, I hope you will be joining us at the JL table. I will save you a seat. And yes, Ale looked hawt even in prison garb.
I have a confession. I also thought Dim looked damn good in his uniform. The actor is quickly becoming one of my favorites - every nuanced expression is totally on point.
I am totally confused regarding Fab. If she is an imposter, she must have assumed the identity some time ago as Amelia clearly accepts her. UA, you brought up interesting points to ponder.
Bonfire bonding. Who knew?? I wasn't expecting JL to pitch right in with burning the money and yet...in another life, he and JL would truly have been the best of friends.
I had a suspicion Ref would be in charge of Dim. It struck me as rather odd he was the one who was indigant at seeing the new recruit. JL kept his cool (as usual except where Monse is concerned) and kept to the business at hand.
Looking forward to hearing JL and Ale's conversation by the fire. I can't wait to hear what was said.
Diana
When Amelia told Macario about baby Fabiola, she said something about Benjamin keeping this secret from Graciela for revenge. I get no impostor vibe from Fab. Don't know if it's intentional by the casting folks, but Fabiola and Maria look like they could be sisters to me.
JL knows Ale was set up with the cash, so I'm not surprised he's going to keep silent about the bonfire. But if JL keeps foiling Pedro's setup, I fear for him too.
Interesting moment when JL told Ale to let Monse think he's dirty as it will help him distance himself for her so he can focus totally on making Angie happy. I'm glad Ale asked JL why he married Angie and what he feels for her, cause I think I knew but I wanted to hear him say it. JL said he loves Angie (te quiero, not te amo) and she's filled his emptyness. I also appreciate that Ale said that Angie is not tonta [I can't say the same about your wife, Ale! :D ] and surely was aware of JL's feelings for Monse.
Diana - Refugio is probably indignant about Dim cause their first meeting was when Dim was acting like an a$$ with Esme back in the days when Ref and JL were hiding in her closet. If I'm remembering correctly, Ref tossed Dim like a ragdoll to get him to leave Esme alone.
In the meantime, Congratulations to the Baylor Bears!!!!! Now in the championship game. Go Bears, Go Carlos!
Carlos
First, I can't stand Sandho or Fabulush, which I know is the way I should feel: He loudly inserts himself into conversations and relationships while Fabulush slithers in on a thin film of wine. She's using Maria and that's OK cause I know they're going to be foiled in the end.
The other thing is the amazing bonfire-side bonding at the beach between Ale and J.L. Their sitting side by side nursing tequila shots in a knee to knee caress hearkens back to the glory days of the JL/Fuggie bromance!
I also feel a subtle kinkiness in JL's confessing to still love Montse right to Ale's face. Kinky and nervy how he tells Ale he so wants to be alone with her and searches for any kind of sign from her that the flame is still there. Ale for his part seems to be under some kind of spell because he listens, enthralled, as JL then whines about being left alone for the second time when Angie dies and then appeals to Ale to let Montse hate him:
"My main virtue or fault/defect is that I never give up, that is why I tell you, let her think the worse of me, let her hate me" implying that if she does not hate him he certainly will continue trying and might succeed in winning her back. Da noive!
Now, just after JL drops the cup into the flames, puts down the bottle and says good night to Ale, he walks up to him very close and tells him he will keep him informed of the events. Go back and look at it: in a full screen of Ale and JL, Ale on the left and JL on the right facing us with the ocean gently crashing in the background it seemed as if JL was going to, that he even should kiss Ale!
WTF!!! I swear! I mean isn't that what direction does, set a mood, craft the emotional environment in which the actors tell their story. JL even seems to be looking at Ale's lips?! In this powerful scene, Ale has reaffirmed an alliance with JL to prove his innocence but has he accepted JL's narcissistic assertion that Montse is only with Ale because she hates JL? Que the heck? That whole alliance could've been established in a bar or in broad daylight, why the intimate tableau of a late night, ocean-side bonfire?
Ok, I will join y'all in comments, have a half hour of show left. Thanks for the space Elvira!
Lila
Demetrios, you are too funny, "that sexy pendant of his" as Pedro's one redeeming quality, hee!!
Lila, your comment intrigues me. I so wish I could see that scene between JL and Ale. I will have to bookmark it as "to be seen later" if I ever get the chance to watch some of these episodes.
The acting here continues to be as good as I can recall.
Judy and Carlos, wishing your teams the best of luck!
Diana
. . .as JL begins to explain that Ale will be "mas tranquilo" more calm, have more peace of mind if Montse hates him they sit together again on the log. The talks turns to JL's motivation for marrying Angie and they continue their soul-to-soul.
Again, I was not looking for this but it struck me as a very powerful, intimate and character-revealing scene for JL and Ale. NO. I do not think they're gay but the way the whole thing was staged and played out I felt led to the point where a passionate kiss would have seemed to round out the scene and I was like "what the bleep!"
That's all, I know I'm carrying on. It just seems evident that despite their rivalry Ale and JL deeply trust each other and respect each other far more than they do the women they claim to love.
Lila
What kind of sympathy card do you get when you find out about Pedro’s “condition”?
“Sorry for your loss”
“You two can always adopt”
“You always could hit the high notes; now I know why”
I love both of your comments and look forward to a wonderful smile every day after reading them!!
Demetrios, yes, hold off on that Scorpio pendant for now!
Mil gracias, you two!
Elvira, can't wait to read your take on things. Need to start watching this ASAP on Hulu+.
Lila, amiga, you've got me intrigued with the Jl/Alejandro convo!!
Fatima
And I've noticed that Latinos, in general, seem to get much closer than Americans in personal interactions. Ditto for Russians. Years ago, I remember during one summer school session at IU, where a number of Russians were there for the season. There was an American guy sitting on the edge of a fountain. A Russian fella wanted to get a better look at the water and leaned in, resting his hand on the American's thigh. The student looked like he was going to faint. Really! Once the Russki got a good look, he ambled off. Nothing personal!
JL has given us the epithet for his tombstone which is surely to come: José Luis Álvarez, Un Hombre de Palabra.
Lila
Lila
JudyB that is very interesting. I can't imagine randomly touching a stranger like that to assist my balance or whatever! That's funny! Yah, JL was all up on Montse in that scene and he was also inhaling deeply of her aromatic ambience!
On other fronts: Dimmie's attempt to do a snappy salute like Fuggie was cute!
Lila
I am so looking forward to reading what happened last night. I haven't yet seen the episode—I was occupied all yesterday PM into the evening— and what you commenters have said really intrigues me!
It seems that the writers can still bring the twists and turns.
JudyB and Carlos: I know how much joy both of your derive from these wonderful contests of sport. I don't follow these things but I take great vicarious joy in your enjoyment.
Elna June
EJ
The guy sure has heck rocks that uniform. It takes the "whiny factor" away from him, but there are times I keep expecting him to break out in a sweat. He has frustrated me many times on this TN, but he is as you say, un hombre de palabra!,
Fatima...who STILL has not seen the epi. I've been getting sidetracked on this Saturday, I have to say. :))
sweating. After all, at the time he was working outside
in the hot Mexican sun. I also, when working
in my garden, sweat a lot.I don't find him whiny either. He had his heart broken after all.
Another thing I can empathize with. Can we give the poor soul a break?
Thanks for the invite to the JL table. It is greatly appreciated. But I am a loyal member of the Ale table. Cynderella is at the head of the table, and we have signed an oath to be faithful to Ale no matter the circumstances. I think JudyB might be a member, or maybe a member on probation. Anyhoo, thanks for the invite.
Back to work...hasta pronto
I have been thinking about the saying " That which does not kill you makes you strong" and that would definitely be the case for Rosario. For Pedro, that which does not kill you makes you twisted and vicious. For Mony, that which does not kill you makes you grow up a little. For Gracie, that which does not kill you makes you desperate , even more shallow , and greedier. For JL, that which does not kill you has no effect on your obsession with Mony. For Fabulush, that which does not kill you makes you thirsty. For Dim, that which does not kill you makes you contemplative and reflective. For Josefina, that which does not kill you makes you steadfast and determined. For Maria, that which does not kill you makes you bitter and vengeful. For Adolfo, that which does not kill you makes even lazier and more useless. For Nadia, that which dies not kill you makes you reckless.
For myself, I can remember wanting to slap the face of a person who told that to me in a moment of utter grief and loss. I found it neither comforting nor uplifting. Perhaps it was the way those words came out of their mouth as if by saying it, I would be miraculously "healed" (their words, not mine) of my loss.
Having studied a good bit of Nietzsche (and not always willingly), I have often wondered what his own words meant to him or how he took those words near the end of his life when he was suffering from syphillis. I wonder if those words ever came back to haunt him.
I always enjoy your thought provoking commentary. Thank you as always!! :)
Fatima
When I think of this quote, I think of another by Joan Walsh Anglund : "Every tear I ever cried
Turned to pearl
Before it died
Every pain that in me burned
Turned to wisdom
I had earned.
Your analysis is brilliant! That would be a great outline for a humorous essay on 'Robo'
You wrote a hilarious mini-recap for us today, my dear.
Thank you so much.
EJ
Can't wait for you take on things. I know it will be marvelous ;
I too really liked that scene with JL and Ale. JL bared his soul to Ale and told him what he was feeling, come what may. JL is a man of honor, a man of his word, with integrity, and truth, this is truly a man of honor. I proudly sit at JL's table for this and well, he is a sexy beast in that uniform!
Diana:
The reason that Refugio is so ticked off at Dimmy is because Dimmy let JL take the fall for something Dimmy did, the death of Bruno Gamboa. We all know that Gracie caused a lot of this, but Dimmy planted that gun in JL's room in the barracks, starting this whole ball rolling. Dimmy will have to prove himself and I think he will : )
Anon 3:42:
The scene with Refugio and JL was truly more like real life. Refugio was doing what we in the military call "popping tall", when you enter a senior officer's office you salute and stand at attention until the officer tells you parade rest or stand down. Also the reason JL told him Yeah, yeah, was because they are friends and as long as there is no one else around, he hasn't got to do that. The military frowns upon fraternization. Officers are not to be hanging out with the enlisted personnel. It is not conducive to good order and discipline. Just the facts : )
On JL getting too close, my guess is JL drank most of the bottle he shared with Ale and he's sloshed by the end. I almost expected his knees to wobble. On personal space, my former Colombian Spanish teacher says his culture has no concept of personal space - punto - so fugedabout it. I don't know if this holds in Mexico, but I can attest that it does in DR too.
Yes, Refugio certainly does have reason to be angry with Dimitrio. I was trying to say (but said it badly) that I was surprised at the contrasting reactions. While Dimitrio's actions did indeed hurt Refugio, the person who was most directly impacted and devastated was JL. As JL's life was changed forever partly due to Dimitrio's duplicity, JL had much more reason to be angry. JL's reaction seemed well, non-reactionary compared to Refugio's.
However frustrating Refugio may be at times (bringing Esme back home where only the unforseen intervention of Nadia on her behalf saved her from Pedro), no one can fault him for being a true, loyal friend.
Dimitrio has his work cut out for him but agree that he is up to the task! :)
Madelaine, enjoyed your explanation of "popping tall". Thank you!
Diana
Congrats to every one who saw Dimitrio as a character capable of a turnaround! It was quite a tender moment when he decided to sleep in Josefina's bed. Too bad Refugio is his superior.
The best question of the episode was Adolfo asking Sandro what a Cuban lawyer from Miami was doing in Agua Azul.
Jarifa
Fatima--I understand your reaction. People who immediately respond blithely with "Oh you're strong, you'll get through this" when what you really need is for someone to wrap their arms around you and say "I'm so sorry..." Well...they're in danger of getting a good clout upside the head! People are uncomfortable in the face of deep grief and just want to utter some magical incantation to make it go away. Doesn't work.
When I was at the lowest point of my marital mess, one churchy acquaintance intoned loftily, "Remember, there are TWO people at fault in a marriage." I so wanted to deck her! Sure, it was the truth. But what I needed right then was sympathy, not preaching.
Glad you had the courage to come forth and speak up for JL, sweaty or not. I completely agree with you - always have. I've been lurking at his table for the entire novela.
Other good people I really enjoy are Josefina...she's steadfast, clever, and witty. I suspect there will be no makeover until Dimi offers an even stronger showing of more heartfelt intellectual and physical love. I've always liked this actor, and began to like his character once he failed to kill JL when he had the chance; he too has a great sense of humor..; Esme is an interesting character - shows much common sense and kindness, and Angelica is a beautiful person with great courage to enjoy life.
Love Sandro The Rogue - I think he really brightens up this TN.
Fabiola was probably too wasted to understand what she saw on the beach and I am also saying too far away to hear their conversation with a night breeze probably in the other direction. Just in case the writers try to pull a fast one.
Fatima, we were all hopeful of Dimitrio's redemption and are so happy it is actually happening. Seeing him in love with Fina just makes me happy (way too invested in this as you can tell :)
Niecie, the only lingering resentment JL seems to be harboring is that he lost Monse. Is he necessarily still angry with anyone in particular? There is some bitterness toward Ale. But you may be right, we will have to see how he is with Graciela the next time they meet.
Diana
Diana You certainly don't have to tell me about being too invested in this TN! I'm right there with you. I'm glad Dim is transforming. Certainly have no objection to that! To me, they are the most interesting of all of the couples and I enjoy seeing their interactions.
JudyB my dear amiga, I just KNOW we would hit it off if we were to ever meet in real life. Your analysis of my response to that Nietzsche saying was exactly how I felt. You are absolutely correct that many people are not comfortable with another's grief. When I was told that, I felt like the person was just saying "Get over it Fatima, shut up and just move on.
I was thinking yesterday that we are going to have huge withdrawals when this TN ends way down the road; huge withdrawal.
Fatima
Ive been thinking about who wil not make it to the end of this TN and other than hoping Maria, EZ and Pedro go, I think Adolfo and fear Refugio will die.
The only thing that would make me withdraw from it is if it became a standard narco story filled with gratuitous violence or if it became as illogical as CI did. There are times I wish I hadn't stuck that one out.
That's what I meant. Sorry for the confusion.
Fatima
And of course we would hit it off if we were ever to meet. And I've had the blessing of meeting several CarayCaray folks as they have passed through Columbus. Maybe one day you will too.
Diana--I KNEW you would understand my point about Refugio. You and I are always on the same page.
Elna June-- Carlos and I have the joy of sports, but also the heartbreak. Both our cherished teams lost last night. I'm feeling mighty sad this morning. I imagine he is too. But now, onto the NCAA selection!
I hope that I will have a reason to go through Columbus, OH some day. If and when I do, you betcha I will be looking you up, amiga!!
Fatima
I agree with you that Carlos Mota (Refugio) tends to overact in his role. As you said, he's done it in other roles and he seems to do it very sporadically. I understand "popping tall" and all about the crispness of a military salute and waiting to be dismissed, but this guy salutes as if he's going to throw a roundhouse punch at someone. A lot of his lines would be more effective if they were delivered with controlled anger, but he always screams his lines. A good actor knows to use "peaks and valleys" in delivering dialogue, especially in anger, but his are always at a steady thousand-decibel peak. IMO, of course.
Judyb...wow...you are so right about the person whose loved one has been hurt having trouble with the culprit who did the damage. As my own personal novela continues , I find that your comment is so helpful as so many of your wise words have helped me. We seem to take one step forward and then a step back, but I guess that is life. Sometimes issues are not resolved easily and completely. You put out one fire , but the embers still smolder. Some problems and some problematic people just seem to hang around making life complicated and agonizing for folks who just want to get on with things and live their lives. C'est la vie, n'est-ce pas ? Talk about having an albatross around one's neck. Well, we all have our challenges; we are all dealing with something or someone or other...just like our telenovela characters. Thanks for your wisdom and insight, Judyb. You are a wise woman. Susanlynn, not making lemonade out of the recent crop of lemons, but simmering a huge pot of her family's favorite spaghetti sauce ...when life throws tomatoes at you..make spaghetti sauce !!!!!
I want to also add the chorus of gratitude this Sunday for the wonderful people on this blog. We share an interest in television stories and storytelling, but as much as I appreciate our shared enthusiasm for our hobby, I really appreciate that what has developed here is a wonderful community. I think that when a TN ends the loss I feel is not just the end of a good tale, but the regular meetings I get to have with the peculiar group that develops around a particular story.
Caray Caray has been a very powerful source of support for me in my own journey of physical healing. The feedback from my friends here has inspired me to try more writing. Altogether, as odd as it may seem to those not in our charmed little circle, the people on this board feel like part of my community.
Weekend discussions of the telenovela are an especially sweet time, because we can use the topics of our TN to springboard into more personal reflections and discussion. I first found this sense of community on 'Gancho' as Judy mentioned.
I appreciate our blog mom for starting this site and I appreciate each of you.
With kindest thoughts,
Elna June
Judy's empathy, support and encouragement is known and treasured by the Caray community. She graces us with her presence and unfailingly inspires us with her unquenchable enthusiasm, wisdom and kindness. We are so fortunate to be in her orbit.
We revel in the camraderie and generosity of spirit of the recappers and commenters here. I have shared things here that I keep secret to most. The freedom to be ourselves and to be weclomed, accepted and embraced is priceless.
Diana
Diana, that is a very interesting statement that you made, about the ability to share here, some things that you prefer to keep secret elsewhere. I am so very glad to hear that, because sharing is also a special gift that one gives to others. You are a good listener on this board and I'm glad that it is not just one way. I, too, treasure Caray Caray as a place where it is safe to open up. We are not wimps, but at least we are polite about it and open to other points of view.
A Spanish speaking friend took me to a wonderful restaurant last night. She and her family love the place and I can see why. I have never seen so many happy people in one place all at one time! There was this wonderful Karaoke going on (I don't usually pay attention) in Spanish. There was a wide variety of songs that were sung (including Banda, Nortena, "in the style of Vicente Fernandez" and so on). Some of the singers were really good!
The food was incredible and really rich. Not only was I able to read everything on the menu that was in Spanish, but I was able to order food for both of us and carry on a conversation with the mesera TOTALLY in Spanish! She spoke to me like I knew what I was doing!
My friend remarked that my Spanish had improved so much since we had least seen each other. She knows I watch the TN and the news (I love Jorge Ramos). I have told her about my CarayMates and the CarayCaray site.
I said that so many of our recappers go that extra mile and give us lessons in verbs, tense, dichos, etc.
I can't tell you how excited I was. I know it was only one night and I had my friend for back up, but some day soon, I might be able to go to that wonderfully happy restaurant on my own.
Never in my wildest dreams...thank you SO much Caraymates for so many wonderful language lessons I have received here.
Fatima
You and Judy were the first to welcome me 6 years ago. You were and are an incredibly gifted, warm, intelligent woman. You make everyone feel valued and special.
I think Caray just brings out the best in all of us. What a gift.
Diana
What a lovely testament not only to the recappers and commenters, but to you. I am thrilled for you!
Diana
Fatima, I am excited for you! Your friend must have been very proud as well. That restaurant sounds like a real gem. It sounds like you will get to practice your Spanish again soon. Congratulations.
So I nabbed the first man who exited the store. Asked him if he could help us start the car. The older woman with him looked at me coldly and sniffed "He only speaks Spanish".
I managed to babble "Esta mujer..su bateria esta muerta. Puede usted....VROOOOOOM."
Dear guy smiled at me like I was the Second Coming..."Usted habla español1", he smiled. We were instant buds and he understood me perfectly, even though I couldn't remember the word "arrancar" for "start".
I do a lot better now that I have a Colombian friend and more opportunities to learn and practice, but never since have I experienced the "high" of that real life moment seeking help.
Wow. Soldier on, Fatima....and thanks everybody for those kind words about me. I don't feel particularly wise...more like someone "stumbling through the stars" like the old ballad goes. But at least, here at CarayCaray, we are stumbling together, and leaning on each other when we need to....and also cheering each other on!
Nette
I was so excited, I cannot tell you. It was small, but a huge start. It gave me a huge boost of confidence, I've gotta say. I think my friend was proud of me and she never let on to the mesera that I was just learning. Wasn't that nice?!
I think it is hugely amazing what learning a few words of the language does in terms of opening up doors for us.
JudyB, all the wonderful things that are said about you are true. You are such a wise woman. :))
Fatima...still on Cloud 9!!
Hope this goes well for your school! I love March Madness!
Fatima
Been absent from comments for a bit and have missed it. I'm so happy that Dimi is indeed turning around. Can't wait for him to have enough hard earned dinero to get the heck out of his mommy's house! What will she do without her bebe! One thing I'm confused about, I thought we knew that Fabiola was Graciela's hija, no? Anyway, a bit ago some of you were commenting on nature vs. nurture, and she (Fabi) certainly has Graciela's money grubbing nature! Not looking forward to the weeks we have of proving Ale's innocence, but I'd like to go on record to say that I bet he and JL ARE good friends at the end. Eventually JL is going to get that there is no more Montse for him and he's going to MOVE ON. Maybe Pedro will try to whack JL and Ale will save him and then JL and Ale will kiss and make up--although I doubt that it will happen in the way Lila thought was coming in the last epi.
Well, good night!
I was out all day, so I did not have a chance to finish reading comments until now.
I have to say that I agree with all of you that the CarayCaray family is awesome. This is the first blog where I have ever commented, and I absolutely adore reading all of your posts and advice. I really listen to everything, everyone has to say, and take it to heart. I love the fact that everyone is treated with respect, no matter what our opinion might be. I am still a newbie (I started posting last year during La Tempestad, but have been watching telenovelas for 20 years) but I feel right at home. So to everyone out there in the CarayCaray universe, I say Gracias!
Back to cooking...hasta pronto!
Our state is loaded with talent. For which I can take no credit. I was absolutely horrible at basketball and besides, was born in Indiana.
Carlos and I often talk sports,Daisynjay sometimes as well, and Lee Fox (who isn't watching this one) also gets into the mix.
The others on the line graciously put up with this OT as they do when folks get into recipes. Just another indication that this is a super gathering of friends who have never met.
We don't know for sure whether Fabiola is the spawn of those two devils. She is the right age and right coloring, but if you see my posts above, there is a real possibility that she is an impostor. The one way to find out is a DNA test which would force Amelia to spill the beans on how Benjamin came to have a baby girl he gave to his sister.
This will open up a serious Pandora's box no matter the result.
Looking forward to your recap, Elvira, and glad to read that your family member in the hospital is okay.
I'm on the start of my spring break today from the university where I teach, and I've been really enjoying having time to read everyone's comments.
I can only add to the chorus of how much I love our on-line community here at Caray Caray, and always feel that everyone is smart, wise, funny, and kind. Such a rare and wonderful combination to find in so many people!
Fatima, congratulations on your achievement with Spanish. That sounds wonderful, and you should be really proud of yourself. Thanks, too, to Judy. B, Susanlynn, and Cap'n Sylvia for sharing their stories of language learning and encouragement.
Just to encourage you more, Fatima, I'll share my story, too, because watching TNs and having Caray Caray has been a big part of my Spanish learning.
I've been studying Spanish since May 2012 (so close to two years) but I've been serious and have also taken six classes now. I watched TNs for about a year-and-a-half before I decided to take the plunge and try to recap myself. I was really nervous when I started here, but everyone is so kind and encouraging. Anyway, all this has really helped my own confidence and abilities with Spanish. I really agree with Cap'n Sylvia that it's great just do force yourself to do things you're not sure you can do. Realizing you can understand and make yourself understood in Spanish is a huge thrill.
So just to say I have no doubt, Fatima, that YOU will be recapping one day soon, too!
And thanks to everyone for encouraging me.
I'm fortunate enough to have quite a few students from the Spanish-speaking world with whom I can practice, too. Recently, one very lovely woman from Spain was commenting to me that my accent is decent, and that I even sound kind of Mexican. I was really proud of this and had to admit that it's thanks to all the good people at TELEVISA.
Don't be afraid, I'm over the JL/Ale bonfire bonding thing: an intense actor and a different understanding of personal space sounds good!
Hi, Rebecca. I think JL and Ale do warily admire and respect each other now and Ale would be added to the best buds society with Refugio. There's just a little matter of a petite but uber hot blonde. I think JL is going to die in the end, maybe yet again saving Ale's or maybe Montse's life and he'll die professing his love for her.
Cap'n. I think my receptive Spanish (reading and listening) is probably darned good and I probably could speak but I'm just too scared! The few times I have I was told I do well and have a good accent but I'm afraid of being laughed at. (Which also happened once!) My ability to speak Spanish reminds me of my Son's command of English. He has autism and does speak but pronouns and tenses are still difficult for him and he's always used "canned phrases" that he's heard from tv and videos to express himself the way many of us probably use novela phrases with ease! At (nearly) 27 he's still improving. He, however, is not afraid to speak and keeps plugging away. I need to take a page from hisbook!
Anywho, love Caray family too, or The Caray Nation as I like to call us and yes, everyone is tolerant when some us (looking in the mirror) go on rants about about a favorite character, story angle or conspiracy theory!
;D Lila
Lila
Lila, go out and speak Spanish! And if someone laughs at you so what? We WILL make mistakes, sometimes silly ones that people can't help but find amusing. The other night I was up at the nearby outdoor bar; I have struck up a friendship with the woman who works there (she speaks no English but is trying to learn) so I go there every other day or so. Believe me, I KNOW the word for peanuts but I had a brain fart and in mid order I blanked out. I got as far as Yo quiero caca...caca...caca... She looked shocked, the other patrons looked shocked, and I realized I had gotten as far as ordering some poop! I finally blurted out "CACAHUATES!" and everybody burst out laughing. I know I got red in the face but I laughed anyway and I had to admit it was funny. Now whenever I go there Conchita asks me if I want some caca...(long pause)...HUATES? You can't take those things too seriously.
We've seen that Hot Sleazy Lawyer Sandro knows Fina and Tomas. I wonder what his story is?
I'm hoping some of what appear to be eevil liaisons will turn out to be alliances for good!
Lila
I think the sleazy drug dealer was still loyal to Arechiga despite the setup. Arechiga apologized to him before he stabbed him.
Enjoyed reading all the comments. I'm encouraged too to speak more Spanish in public.
That would also coincide with Marcario's and Amelia's involvements in the baby situation.
There is no way that Fabiola would be Gracless' daughter if she were only 23, as that would have put the birth between Dimitio and Monserrat, who were 28 and 19 in the opening episode.
Thank you so much for this splendid recap and I am sending healing vibes and prayers to your family member.
Thank you for doing this great recap under very difficult circumstances.
As always, it was bright and witty. "Angel's dad looks all teary-eyed as Ale gives him a venomous stinkeye" stood out as one of my favorites.
The prison has a revolving door. Between those who visit on the interrogation side - JL, Ref, EZ, Pedro, and those who have actually been incarcerated - (several doing double duty on both sides) - Ale, JL, Ref, Angel's father, etc. the list is growing daily.
Diana
Fabiola could not have begun the imposture until teen or adulthood. Amelia has seen her, but we don't know how frequently or when she began. Remember Fabiola was in Miami and Amelia wouldn't have been able to tear herself from her own helicopter parenting for any length of time or very frequently.
I am guessing that it's been several years since Amelia has been to Miami as she would have said something about Benjamin's death. She is not likely to have known that Benjamin gave instructions to not tell of his death and to just stop the monthly checques.
Here's a thought: If Graceless gets the idea that Fabiola is her daughter, who else is betting she would throw Monse under the bus and take everything away from her?
In view of the discussion about the yacht, Sandro might actually have money; I don't know how he could conceal poverty from Tomas. Could he also be ultimately looking to fleece his "client"?
Found this episode a bit of a downer with a killing and an incarceration, but there was that brief tender moment of Dimetrio with Josefina, and the two polecats, Graciela and Whazzizname sizing each other up some more.
Spring is here and a friend's breast cancer, believed cured, has now metastasized to the bones. I'm having a pull the covers over my head moment but intend to be the kind of support you were to your family member, Elvira. Sometimes all we can do is BE THERE. And care.
What do they do to the malecón on St. Paddy’s day in Agua Azul?
Do they dye the water de las fuentes green, por lo menos?
Judyb...So sorry to hear about your friend. We have a friend whose 36 year old wife has stage 4 colon cancer with tumors in her liver. it is very sad. She will have surgery soon. They have three sons aged 8 to 18. Life can be very unfair and sad.
Sandho, Fabulush and Graceless are all greedy. Gracie helped kill Bennie by inches and (thinks she)killed her own newborn, so I have no doubt she'd hurt Montse if need be to get her paws on pesos or dollars! I think Sandro is like some of those guys you see on "American Greed." He's probably considered charming and charismatic and could easily "borrow" the trappings of wealth and lie smoothly about it. Do we have any dirst on him?
I think Fabbie IS Gracie's Daughter, she and Sandy will probably cause all kinds of trouble and bad blood. I think Ale may think she's an imposter in the sense that she carries NONE of Bennie's blood but is posing as such for the moolah.
What I wonder is if Ale discovers that this woman is the baby that Gracie had with his dad and Ale tells her, will she give up her sneaky ways (not the bottle, that's too much to ask) accept her fortune and become a loving Big Sister to Ale and Montse? If she does will she out the slithery Sandho or include him in her new familia? Would Sandho let her inherit, remove her from the family and disappear her? Will she and Sandho even survive? I hope she does: I'm cutting her slack for the way she "born in sin" and "shaped in iniquity". Her only "sin" we know about so far is mistaking wine for koolaid from an early age.
Lila
She has already made nasty remarks about Rosario, so no demand from Alejandro would be fulfilled. She's already in league with Maria. The one thing we can count on is that she wants it all and she would piss it all away. Just like Graceless, and she wouldn't have to be her daughter to do that.
Julia, I seriously doubt I would EVER be able to write recaps like all of our wonderful recappers. I am a LONG ways off from that if ever! Thank you for your kind words.
Lila, mi amiga, just get out and find a place where you could order one little item in Spanish. That's actually how I started. I always had my Spanish speaking friend with me, but I would do the little things and she would help when needed. Do it, amiga! You will be glad you did!!
JudyB, I am so very sad to hear this news about your friend. I would agree that the best thing you can do is be there. If the so called friend that I mentioned in the Nietzsche conversation had just been physically present, that would have meant so much more than their casual rote repeating of a quote that didn't mean that much to them at all.
You are one of the wisest women ever. Your friend doesn't really expect you to say anything (which you already know), she just wants you there. How fortunate she is to have you as her friend.
Elvira, you wrote a snappy recap even in the midst of helping your family. How very gracious of you to do this for us. Thank you so much!!
Fatima
A couple of years ago we lost my favorite cousin (my age), who died about 2 months after being diagnosed with lung cancer (a shocking diagnosis), and that same year we lost a longtime family friend who had been in remission from breast cancer. That is why Mr. Sharkbait and I decided to throw caution to the wind and sail South. We don't know what our futures hold, so we decided to do the thing we wanted to do rather than wait. Last night when the huge full moon rose I thought of my loved ones who are no longer on earth, but who are still alive in my heart. It made me sad, but it made me kind of happy too, or maybe grateful is a better word, that I am able to have memories of those people.
JudyB and Susanlynn prayers and positive vibes))))))))))for you loved ones and for you!
Lila
I surely do admire you and Mr. Cap'n Sharkbait for doing what you want to do NOW.
Fatima
I like this quote : " Nothing rooted in love is ever lost, for it has become part of the living whole." --Pam Brown. And, of course the Navajo concept "to live in hearts we leave behind is not to die."
I really believe that those we love and lose hover near us. I say good morning to my dad every day when I go out to the mailbox for the newspaper and look at the field across the street , and my grandma often seems right beside me.
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