Thursday, May 22, 2014
Lo Que La Vida Me Robó, #136, 5-21-2014: No Te Queda Nada Más, Alejandro! Our Poor Galán Lives Out the Grim Promise of this TN's Theme Song
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Alejandro is terrible. He hasn't changed one bit. Come on, writers, you need to stop making me hate him. He's just awful. I can't root for him.
The conversation between Carlota and Dimitrio was so funny. He teases her about her sex life and at the end tells her that she doesn't shut her mouth with Ezequiel, then adds "to talk".
Thank so very much for this splendid recap and all the detail and Spanish phrases! Loved your title too.
I too can't root for Ale. He's the same old, same old he's always been. I can understand why he feels the way he does, but he has no earthly idea what Monse has been through or JL for that matter, lo these seven years past. He still hasn't dealt with the time issue.
I really loved that convo that Tia and Dimi had and she was also giving him a foot massage, how very funny.
Also loved the reunion with Vicky, Nadia and Adolfo. Adolfo really does love Nadia and Vicky. I'm glad he will be watching over them.
I also thought the consummation, if there was one, was very realistic. Seven years of not doing anything would be very awkward. The writers were spot on there, I have to say.
Oh, and kudos to Fina for not backing down. I hope that La Capitana remembers this little spiel of Graceless and doesn't trust Graceless or believe anything she says. La Capitana was very disgusted with Graceless going on and on about how ugly Fina used to be. I wanted to slap Graceless into next year. May her anvil be huge.
About Dimi and the not wanting to talk to women. I think it really has to do with baring his soul to Fina and being dumped. He is gun shy and doesn't want to let any woman in.
Thanks again Julia R for this most fabulous recap : )
Although I felt some sadness for our broken Alejandro, I also feel some irritation that we'll be dealing with triangle trauma for many more episodes. By now, I don't care much which one ends up with Montse.
Montse shouldn't wear those shoes that could double as murder weapons on the plane. She only needs those in Aguazul, when she's surrounded by dangerous characters.
Fofito will need to man up in order to aid his helpless sister. His opportunity for both revenge and redemption.
Standing and cheering as Josefina refused to back down for Gracie. The lovely Monica was getting just a glimmer of Gracie's bedrock personality.
Dimi was most amusing with his Tia Carlota. I agree with Madelaine that he's gun shy about being open with women. He broke down with Fina, opened his heart and declared his love publicly, only to see her wave good-bye. He's burned badly and doesn't want to risk it again.
It was so good to see Josefina finally try to take control by forcing herself into the house and telling Graciela she was not leaving until she saw Rosario.
Poor Monica has no idea of whom she is dealing with in the case of Graciela. She is so out of her depth. I was happy that Dimitri walked in on the little threesome at the end.
Let's see if Adolfo will be instrumental in saving Nadia and Victoria from Pedro's "happy" family.
Jarifa
"Montserrat's House: Gracie, Monica, and Josefina share some coffee and unquality time together."
Love that "unquality time"! Pretty much covers any time spent with Graciela!
Thanks for catching me up on the nefarious doings in Agua Azul and beyond. I see that Men Behaving Badly continues.
In Dim's defense, I've got to say in general, men do not like extended discussions of their feelings. I remember a funny quote in a marriage manual once that said women feel a marriage is going well if "they can talk about it". Men feel it's going well if "they don't have to talk about it".
So Dim has got some blood brothers on his side!
I'm bucking the tide here and feeling for Alejandro. He's still dealing with the notion of losing seven years of his life. He really should see a shrink about that even if he didn't have these ginormous problems and crises. He needs to calm down or he will screw up.
As to realizing that Gracie has lied to him, I think he's beginning to. He is suspicious of the idea of Monse being pregnant. He can certainly confirm with Rosario that nothing happened to make that happen.
It's unfortunate that Monse didn't disclose all the details of what happened with Fabiola and the fake death threats. While I can understand her not wanting to deal with it at that moment she certainly knows the significance of Gracie's forced disclosure.
Very accurate images, too, i.e., Monse's "game face".
Ugh, will that woman ever get a clue and stop trying to please everyone all the time forever and ever? At least she seems wise to her mom. I hope.
Monica seems like the only normal undamaged human on the show. I do hope she has gotten enough of a load of Graciela (after that morning of listening to her talk) to stop urging Dim to bond with her.
I don't blame Dim for not going into details yet. How do you explain to your girlfriend that your evil snake of a mother keeps selling her kids to rich mates to get money and couldn't tell the truth if someone printed it on a poster and made her read it out loud??
Some great palabras! "El Perdedor" -um, does that mean "The Big Loser"?
grosero-? Is that "Gross One"?
These people need to learn to keep secrets and be more stealthy. Really, Fina telling Graciela why she needs to talk to Rosario.
If she had a brain in her head she'd go to the back door and ask the help where Rosario is and then ask which market Rosario goes to and just go and try to find her.
"..what seems an inexhaustible supply of sports coats he is always sporting" and "Setting the Stage for a Second Duel on the Playa, Perhaps?" were among my favorites. Your captions? One was better than the next.
Agree with Anon and Madelaine that I cannot support Ale. Unfortunately, I agree that he hasn't changed one iota. "Let him kill me," cries Alejandro. "Or I can kill him!". And there you have it.
Nadia is riveting. Her pain is palpable and the actress is amazing.
But the scene that made me cry last night was Adolfo. "Adolfo weeps openly, reaching out to embrace Nadia with love as little Victoria clings to both of them." Heartbreaking. Pedro has decimated that entire family.
I know Adolfo is a murderer. Am I just plain wrong in that I want him to be redeemed??
Monica is asking for a lot, much more than Dim is willing to give at the moment. I think she wants to move too quickly. Just because she is "all in" in such short order, doesn't mean he is. At least for now.
Fina held her own with Graciela. And gracefully.
Monse is clearly not in love with JL (to me at least). I think she holds him in great affection. What will that deteriorate to once she realizes his deception?
Wonderful Julia.
Diana
We need to ask ourselves whom Adolfo has killed over the last 7 years. Has he only killed drug dealers and other scum? Is that the dividing line between true evil and redemptability? We're still wondering the same things about EZ.
The fact that many of the characters in this story tread the fine line of moral ambiguity makes us tune in to this night after night.
So the whole he-man thing continues with Ale threatening a do or die scenario--AGAIN? And I'm sure JL will start the same thing when he sees Ale back. All we need is animal skins and clubs with these two. Cripes.
My guesses is that Monse may have been okay with going through with the full honeymoon, but that it isn't emotionally the same as she had with Ale. Cue her return to the Big Gorilla without batting an eye as soon as she knows he's alive.
Can I also add I was totally on board with Dim not wanting to be so "open" with Monica. I'm not a person who feels the need to open up past deep hurts or regrets with most anyone. With what he has gone thru and how he has come out so well, it most likely is part of his being able to move forward: the need and desire to not have to relive all that again. Monica is not getting his memo. Who knows, maybe at some point he would have been more open, but her pushing most likely just shut the door.
Pedro does know that Adolfo is the Scorpion correct? Or at least is a known enforcer? Adolfo may not have had much to live for, but he does now. Pedro must think that he can use N/V to threaten Adolfo, but I think it is going to work in the opposite manner. This is Adolfo's straw breaking the camel's back to get revenge for his sister. That scene was heartbreaking.
And cue the Kleenex for tonight's mom hugs.
Daisynjay
Whether Pedro knows that Adolfo is The Scorpion or not, he set him on that path. It looks like it will be up to Adolfo to take him out.
The more of Monica I see the more I like her. She has a really good moral center and a lot of strength too. I am starting to wonder whether I really want Fina and Dim back together again.
So the writers have turned JL's character like Ale, and Ale is still his jealous, controlling self. I was always in JL's corner but now they are both treating her like a prize pig. She needs to have an "I choose me" moment and leave both of them.
Fina has changed. Before those comments from Graciela would have her hanging her head. Good to see she's got enough self esteem just to laugh it off.
I wish Adolfo would just kill Pedro now. Just end this misery of a story line.
Anonymous 12:08: Thanks so much for reading so early and glad you liked the title
Mads: You're always an early commenter, too, and I really appreciate it. ITA that the sex scene between Montse and J-L was very realistic and very well done. It wasn't steamy and sexy, but it was moving to me, and I appreciated the way it showed two wounded people try to be together with respect and understanding.
La Paloma: Thank you so much. I was thrilled to be called sagacious!
Jarifa: I always look forward to your early morning comments, too! I was also happy to see that Josefina is finally standing up to Graciela and in a way that's natural to her character.
Judy B. You always comment early, too, and give me much pleasure with your praise and insights. Maybe Monica was pressing DIM too much and too soon. As he himself said, it was an exhausting day and he was tired. Maybe just being together was enough.
Urban Anthropologist: Thanks, as always, for your early morning comments and praise. It means a lot to me since I always enjoy your recaps so much. I also enjoyed your point about how the moral ambiguity of the characters in this TN keeps us coming back.
Emarie: Thanks so much for your kind words and thoughtful comments. And I should have translated those phrases/word, which I will now:
Grosero/a: a crude or vulgar man/woman
El Perdedor: The Loser. This is actually also the title of the song that plays during the opening credits.
And while I'm at it the refrain in the song is what I referred to in the title of the recap "No me queda nada más" which translates as "Nothing is left to me" or maybe more idiomatically "I have nothing left."
Vivi in DC: Thanks so much for reading before you left for work. I do feel bad for Alejandro, but I agree with you that his feeling that Montse and his own son being with a good man they both love is somehow worse than Nadia and Victoria being with a man they both hate and who is an abuser crazy.
Diana: Your praise is always so detailed and thoughtful--thank you! ITA with you that I really want Adolfo to be redeemed. I also want HIM to get Josefina in the end. I have always really liked him, too, in sprite of his flaws. He is probably my favorite character on the show.
Daisynjay: So happy I made you laugh and thanks so much for your praise and smart comments. The whole he-man thing with Alejandro starting again is annoying--maybe he'll get beyond it by the end and have some growth.
Carvivlie: Thanks so much for reading. I really like Monica, too. I agree that I want DIM with Monica-and, as I said, Josefina with a fully redeemed Adolfo.
I hope I got everyone--forgive me if I missed you! And thanks to all!
Best,
Julia R
Thank you so much for this exquisitely written and thorough recap (with just enough mischief to assure us your sense of fun is nicely intact). I especially enjoyed your subheads, my favorite being this one:
DIM Does The Seemingly Impossible and Actually Gives Carlotta TMI
Going on 40 nephew + aunt who has been like his mother to him + graphic double entendres = eeewwwww!
P.S. Emarie, grosero means rude or vulgar. It can be used as an adjective to describe a person or thing; or it can be used as a noun and mean 'a rude or vulgar person.' (Grosería is a noun that means rudeness or vulgar behavior, or a rude remark.)
Perdedor means simply 'loser,' from the verb, to lose: perder.
A review of the comments leads me to the surprising conclusion that Urban Anthropologist are in agreement about something. No, seriously.
I am also feeling sympathy for Alejandro right now. Lo siento. I find myself swept up by the central fairytale. I want to see the golden family reunited. I want steadfast Rosario to have her boy back. I want Penelope to know that Odysseus has come home and she has allowed one of the suitors to deceive her.
I so despise José Luis for his recent behavior. I doubt that even Angélica would approve of what he has been doing.
Alejandro's problem is bigger because JL is not evil, not a criminal (in the greater sense), and basically a decent person. There was a good-faith belief that Alejandro was dead. The right and logical thing to do would be to have Monserrat choose between them. Laurito should be left out of that until she makes that choice.
The big irony in all this is that JL needs to help rescue Nadia and Victoria. He may exact a high price for that assistance. If he does that he's stepped over the line because Nadia and Victoria's safety can't be compromised for any reason.
Novela Maven- Sure. I want Ale and Monse to get back together, but only because that will make her happy. Both JL and Ale have deceived her for their own convenience at various points, so in my mind that only thing that should make Ale win out over JL is the simple fact that Monse is in love with Ale (vs loving/caring for JL).
In the real world, if Monse were my friend, I would tell her to dump both these possessive losers. And if for some strange reason she HAD to choose between the two (because being alone or finding a better man isn't an option), I would tell her to go with the one who didn't rape her.
The scene with Gracie,Monica,Dim and Josefa was quite interesting.. I really hope JL does not make Monse pregnant.And when Maria returns ,she will most likely cause even more issues and complicate the things even more,unless she somehow magically forgets about Ale and prefundamente falls in love with Adolfo but thats just wishful thinking, I wonder how Addie will introduce Maria to Vicky when he marries her.Will he tell her she is her aunt but also been the whore of Uncle Ale? Most likely not!
With Nadia, Vicky and Victor, there are lives in danger. He has no idea what kind of mental and/or physical abuse Pedro is and will use against them. There is no comparison to Ale wondering if Monse and JL are having sex.
Very well stated.
Diana
But yes, I am really loving Nadia. I didn't care much for her, but her acting has been so good lately. And Adolfo turns my heart into marshmallow, to use a quote from yesterday's recap.
I have to agree to liking Monica, but I do think she was out of line wanting Dimi to bare his soul to her so soon. She needs to be patient.
But it's true I am finding myself rooting less and less for Fina and Dim because I think Dim and Monica are a good fit.
And I know it'll never happen, but I'd like a redeemed Adolfo and Fina.
When I was growing up we called someone "gross" when they were rude or crude,...
Notice how many times Graciela called Fina "la fenómena", as in freak? Then she said she must have been to a lot of spas over the past 7 years to look halfway presentable.
Instead of just laughing it off Fina should take the next step and knock the smirk right off of Graciela's seven-layer face.
I had missed some things. Thanks for clarifying everything. Looking forward to a reconciliation between Dim & Fina. The writer make this character very real, witty and likeable ...and besides, I think he is cute.
Enjoy all comments.
Hi to all my good friends on the Patio and in the Bunker. I miss all of you and look forward to coming out for a beverage and a chat.
Moving Day is May 28th. Thanks again for all the kind wishes and good vibes. I won't be able to comment today but I will post a short recap and a place for comments this evening.
Thanks again to Mads, Urban Anthropologist, Gloria, Novela Maven, Eli, Julia Rold, this fine recapping team for all of your support.
Elna June
I give Ale a plus for being understanding with Fina about her not telling Monse he was in a coma.
So the triangle has reversed. The biggest difference now to me is that there's a young boy involved. Something Ale must’ve momentarily forgotten when he said he’d get Monse back even if it killed him. Poor Victor, in anguish himself, having to listen to estupideces from his BFF.
Hmmm, JL and Monse are in Miami. Might they run into Sandro? Hoping for more Scooby and less triangle.
I am disappointed but not surprised that Ale has not changed. At least I can look forward to his reunion w/Rosie.
The actress portraying Monica did such a good job at silently conveying her shock, horror, and discomfort with Graciela's cutting remarks about Josefina. I think she now has a much better understanding of Dimitrio's tenuous relationship with his mom. She so looked like she was looking for an escape hatch. I'm sure she's looking forward to paling around with Gracie.
I don't know which scene was more touching, Victor describing their new daughter to his blind wife, Nadia, or Nadia's reunion with her brother Adolfo. I fought back tears with both.
I just can't picture Adolfo's redemption, we've seen him blow away two guys and worse, he set up Padre Anselmo murder at the hands of Zeke and he pulled the trigger on the pistol pointed at María's head with the intention of killing her. Of course JL and Refugio have also shot folks and gotten passes.
Carlos
Once again you have outdone yourself. Thank you for this beautifully written recap. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.
You guys know that I side with Ale. I have been a loyal member at his table from the beginning. I am not changing teams. I feel sad for Ale. The tables have turned and he is in pain. I know that he will eventually reveal himself to Montse, but the writers are sure taking their sweet time. At least he will have a reunion with Rosario tonight, according to the avances. There is no doubt in my mind that Montse will want Ale once they are reunited. And JL knows this as well. I can't wait to see JL's reaction when he SEES Ale up and walking around. But I am anxiously awaiting the reunion between Ale and Montse. There is going to be more heart-pounding, emotionally-charged, energized tension during that reunion than there was during last nights "love scene". I am soooooo looking forward to that.
Speaking of love scene, it was more like bla scene. Sorry, but I just don't feel any chemistry between the newlyweds. And Montse seemed to be going through the motions. When she stopped and turned away (when they were in bed, under the sheets), it was more than nerves. She was maybe trying to think of an excuse? Who knows? JL needs to get a clue. He is the one always saying "te amo". Montse never responds with a "yo te amo tambien". JL is trying to hang on to a past love that, according to Angie, was doomed to fail. I agree with those who are tired of Montse pleasing everyone. I hope when she sees Ale, she runs to him and gives him a big 'ol kiss. Because everyone knows that's what she's going to WANT. Who wouldn't want some lovin' from that sexy, blue-shirted hunk!
Very emotional scene between Adolfo, Nadia and Vicky. You could see Adolfo's true feelings. He really loves his sister and niece. I just hope that Adolfo doesn't get killed in his efforts to help Nadia, Vicky and Vic. I have always had a soft spot for Adolfito.
Get the tissues ready. Rosario's reuniting with her hijo tonight. Should be a good one.
Back to work...hasta pronto!
I also saw the growing horror on Monica's face during Gracie's barrage of insults. The day Gracie's real background is revealed to everyone else will be sweet. However, I think it's wait until the Ultimas Semanas.
Have to say, I'm so glad that Fina is holding her ground with Graciela, now that she knows she was tricked. Looking forward to tonight when Dimi arrives home to find his witch mom, Fina and Monica together. I'm hoping he heard the way his mom was insulting Fina too.
Aunty Ann, I guess we are in the few but you couldn't have said it any better. I'm also feeling bad for Ale and hope they don't drag his meet up with Montse too long. She's meant to be with Ale because he is her true love, and although I didn't use to dislike JL, his keeping quiet and pushing Montse to move up the wedding using Laurito as an excuse so that he could go on their honeymoon was not right. It will come back to bite him when Montse learns the truth. She can expect these kinds of deceptions from her mom, but not JL who she considers noble and good.
Maricruz
I hope Monica can be healing for Dim, and help him put a bandaid on that Madre-ectomy incision he has gaping open.
ITA with your comments on JL. I never really hated the guy, he was just annoying. But now I don't like him. He is deceiving Montse, and using Laurito.
I am curious to see if they will do a time jump for the honeymoon trip. Lo siento, but I don't want to watch JL, Montse and Laurito on vaca for the next week. I hope they get back to Aguazul soon.
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