Saturday, February 17, 2018
Papa a Toda Madre, Capítulo 24, Friday February 16, 2018: Anifer will not accept Kika or "I am your father!"
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Lots of funny asides in this one, Cynthia, as well as your always wonderful screen caps, including Darth Vader! Wow.
Jorge is a classic example of someone who is unable to live up to the morals preached by his church, and so reverts to truly scummy behavior to hide his sins. Not as drastic as King David's story in the Old Testament, but pretty bad. And stashing bereaved children in an apartment in a strange city and leaving them is just incomprehensible. Of course it's also incomprehensible that there wouldn't have been any friends or relatives in Tijuana that would have been involved. But I get it, necessary to the plot.
Sounds like Anifer did a lot of "acting out" in this one. Will look forward to watching it later today.
Thanks as always Cynthia for the work you do. The patio is now open! Happy Saturday.
I have to admit I am losing interest in this show. To little plot and too much message. Case in point. Our little darling Renee needs to butt out of Jorge and his children. Whether it fits the shows gay message or not, if Jorge is teaching his children something which is embraced by mainstream populations and most major religions, and it does not involve 'killing infidels', or something of the sort, it is none of her business. Abrasive and closed minded as Jorge and his closet skeletons are, he has the right to teach his children what he believes without interference. And like it or not, if the whole world were gay, humanity would die off the planet in a generation.
And believe me, I have no issues with homosexuality. My personal belief is that if it were so great it would be more popular, like look at ice cream, for example. Who doesn't like ice cream?. But like many fringe issues, the proponents attempt to paint anyone who views them with a jaundiced eye as closed minded haters. That is misleading and dishonest, and has become far too accepted.
It is not that big a deal, and I am just tired of hearing about it. What are we supposed to do? I'm not taking one for the team to prove that I'm OK with it. Live and let live. Like I care less what kind of music you listen to. But don't drive by my house with it rattling my windows. Then it IS my business.
There, that was nice wasn't it?
Sooo which side is Fabian on?
How dumb can Mauricio be?
Has he never bedded a fake, plastic bimbo before? He sure acts like it. This should be old hat by now.
Where DID Renee get that ?Dress? I'd be in a pissy mood too if I had to wear it on TV.
Is Mau planning on getting Renee's LoopyLoan Dinero form Kikky? Good Luck with that one.
A tidbit last night....the kids have a trust fund or some such? Another TN beanie moment like family moves which require only one copier paper box. Urie didn't tap into that in the treatment of her illness?
I'm glad Vero didn't sacrifice her job in defense of Tonto. Their kids look about the right age for Vero to get that seven year itch and find a boyfriend or replacement. Maybe Dulce's man has a friend?
Flor really should run off with Pablo. Let Neuron stay home with his turtle boots.
Happy Saturday.
" And stashing bereaved children in an apartment in a strange city and leaving them is just incomprehensible. "
Agree. I am astonished the children went along with it. I am also mystified at the transient lives all these TN people supposedly have. Just pick up and move to a new town in an hour and a car ride? No friends to say goodbye to, schools to get out of, term papers to turn in?
I know I "root' more easily than an avocado, but when I have moved it took weeks of planning and logistics, and something more than a backpack and a Toyota Corolla.
And Jorge and his screaming about calling him Dad. I guarantee they are calling him Jorge Shitforbrains behind his back. Being a Daddy is not something like a light switch, up--light, down--dark. You become a Daddy, in cases like Jorge's. They're a lot of things to dislike about Jorge.
So now it turns out the Mauricio was a real user in high school. Poor Kika was all too willing to help him with his work. I wonder how far he will get snookered down the rabbit hole before he realizes that maybe Kika does not have his best interest at heart. There still is hope for him, though, because he wants to pay off Renée’s debt.
Kika was surprised when she was told she had no vote until her money is actually transferred and the company has it in their account.
JudyB, I must admit that I found Anifer on the bratty side today, They need to find some happy medium for her behavior where she is assertive but not bratty.
As for Jorge, if he felt so strongly about Rafael and Rodrigo, he never should have come to the baptism dinner. He was a hypocrite again being offensive to the people whose food he was eating.
As for Jorge, again, telling Lili and Baldo that he was their father and not “Jorge” or whatever, was a good thing. He may be a jerk who should take them home to live but he is doing the best he can for them in his own head, not mistreating them and not kicking them to the curb. They must be at least sixteen and would be on their own up in Tijuana anyway. He can offer them more here. In telenovelaland, it will all play out.
Yes, Kirby, I was also happy that Verónica did not cave to Toño and put her position on the line for him. It must be only a matter of time before she gives him the boot. She looks tired.
I loved Flor trying to drop the hint to clueless Nerón that she wants to get married.
On to the next Capítulo!
Kirby: Fabian is still upping the ante.
Judy B: Mauricio is STUPID.
There is a fine line between cute and obnoxious. How independent and self aware does a six year old need to be?
"She looks tired" yes. more exasperated than anything. Like "hmmm...what have I done?"
I don't know what an actual priest would advise someone in this case, but I hope it would not be that. Part of the message that I find grating here is that the Church as a whole is BAD and foments organized hypocrisy. I understand that is how many people view organized religion today. And it's certainly true in some cases. But I don't think in all.
Just one other thing. I don't think Anifer told Kika she was fat. She said "Me caes gordo" which means "I don't like you". Rude and inappropriate thing to say. But not as rude as telling someone they are fat.
I'm with Kirby. I understand Renee is speaking up for her friends but she needs to calm it a little. Not every get together has to be a war. Sometimes she comes across as really self righteous.
I'm with Baldo and Lily. Jorge is treating them poorly. But yet it is keeping with how he treats Sam and Val. No interest in their likes, wants or opinions. Just a job to get thru.
So Kika Is getting revenge for highschool. Sounds about right. Fab have Mau some good advice but Mau doesn't seem to care to listen. Still confused by Fab myself.
"He winces at the idea while she relishes in it" and "Valentina gets all “fan girl” with Kika as she instantly recognizes her" were among many favorites.
The screen shots, especially of Darth were great. The one good thing Jorge did was tell his children to address him as their father. Although he does not deserve it, that is the truth.
"They get to arguing and Lili accuses Jorge of being ashamed of them". I think Jorge is ashamed of himself. As she should be. At this point, he is an utter failure of a father and a human being. By putting the children in a hotel rooom, alone with their gried was truly horrifying. Further, "if he felt so strongly about Rafael and Rodrigo, he never should have come to the baptism dinner" was right on Jarifa. Hypocritical and prejudiced.
Carvivlie, appreciate your noting he treats all of his children the same. Sadly.
Way too much Kika. She is all right as a peripheral caracter but the "I'll ruin you for ruining ny high scholl life" is getting tiresome. I agree with you Kirby about not enough plot. While I think there is potential for some interesting storylines but Jorge and Kika (and heaven help us Lupe) aren't it.
Judy, no priest I've ever known would ever tell a father to deny his children's existence. Absolutely ludicrous. "Part of the message that I find grating here is that the Church as a whole is BAD and foments organized hypocrisy" stated it perfectly. I tried to take it in stride as to how the clergy was portrayed initially, now I'm getting annoyed.
It's just a TN, right? Sigh.
Cynthia, thank you!
Diana
The fact that the boys are gay is acknowledged in the neighborhood, but that is about it too.
Out of what I see as respect, not shame by any stretch, they are not in your face with it, and do not show affection in front of children in the neighborhood who might be too young to understand. They are great neighbors and all of us who I know well never even think about that aspect of their personal lives. Their yard is always immaculate, they are good neighbors.
This is why I take exception to this show's portrayal of gay people and non-gay people's attitudes to them. Maybe in Mexico, it is different, but that is not what you see here in the US.
JudyB and Diana I echo your sentiments about the priest. Can we just "CUT"berto out of this TN? I dread seeing scenes with him because it just upsets me even more. Every word that comes out of his mouth is absolutely irritating.
I also agree that Anifer is a brat who needs to be taught manners and discipline. Her mother taught her so many good things; I just can't believe Anifer is behaving the way she is, but OTOH. a psychologist would probably say that she is acting out because of separation anxiety or some such condition...they always seem to find some medical/psychological excuse for bad behavior.
Carvivlie, "I understand Renee is speaking up for her friends but she needs to calm it a little. Not every get together has to be a war. Sometimes she comes across as really self righteous." Totally agree!
Kirby, "How dumb can Mauricio be? Has he never bedded a fake, plastic bimbo before? He sure acts like it." It seems to me that Mau is a male version of a fake bimbo...but he should be able to know one when he sees one, right?
I don't even know what to say about Jorge anymore. Instead of dumping and hiding his kids in an apartment, he should get to know them and allow them time to get to know him before demanding that they call him "Dad." Common sense should tell him what the right thing to do is, but instead he runs to the fossilized priest probably knowing that the priest will justify and endorse what he has been doing all along...denying his sins and wanting to be absolved of any responsibility for those sins.
Kirby, "I'm glad Vero didn't sacrifice her job in defense of Tonto. Their kids look about the right age for Vero to get that seven year itch and find a boyfriend or replacement. Maybe Dulce's man has a friend? I really hope she gets that itch soon.
Calling Jorge father? He is not. He is a stranger that paid their mother child support. If she went to the court I think he would have paid even more. In New York State, child support for two children is 25% of the income. Legally, Jorge has no rights over Lili and Baldo. He doesn't have custody. They should go to child services and turn themselves in. If Jorge wants to be their father, he will get the custody and all the obligations that come with it. One would be not to have the children stashed in a secret house, asking him for food.
I give Jorge an "E" for effort. He did confess and seek counsel. Unbelievable that any clergy he confessed to wouldn't suggest Jorge bring kids who just lost their mother to the church for comfort and support.
I agree that this tn has too many heavy handed PSAs. Someone definitely seems to have it in for organized religion. One of my many cousins is a Chaplin in a nursing home and is a very good guy who presided over the funerals of both of my parents. Talk about prejudice. There seems to be some folks prejudiced against formal Religion.
I thought that this tn was supposed to be a comedy !
Anyhoo, lets hope that things lighten up and we can start making fun of people.
What was up with that dress Renee was wearing?
I am enjoying this TN a lot. I only hope that the writers have thought everything through and know exactly where they are going and what they want to visit on the trip there. Many a novel or TN has been ruined by a lame ending.
Giving them the benefit of the doubt, I give them credit for the TN's title, Papá a toda madre, which can be complimentary or derogatory, depending, as someone pointed out quite early. Sorry, I don't remember who.
Anyway, it looks like we have a story of several fathers who are just awful as fathers at the beginning, or even worse than that. But hopefully there is redemption for them, and Mau has already started and is making progress, helped along by precocious Anifer and feisty "good woman" Renee.
And I think we may have seen the start of redemption for Jorge, the worst of the lot. He is in a tough situation but is trying his best, pitiful as that is. But he went to his spiritual advisor, Father Cutthroat, and received advice to maintain appearances at all cost, first and foremost. Much like his own father and his godfather gave him.
I don't think that sat too well with Jorge. After confession the priest twice offered his hand to be kissed, a very old custom and a sign of submission, and Jorge instead shook the hand.
That brings up one more thing I hope for in this TN, some redemption for the Church itself, or at least some explanation for the one-sided portrayal. I would hate to see what they would do to Pope Francis in this TN :-)
And I still love Kika. She just isn't evil enough, definitely not up to "Dragon Lady" standards. Well, hopefully she will become a lot more diabolical.
:-)
Yup ReKnee-jerk and her understudy Any need to not take life so seriously.
And I agree about Kika. She's a bad girl and needs to be spanked.
I mean, how long ago was High School? Unless she didn't get out till she was 28 it had to be fifteen or twenty years ago.
Susanlynn, I think "Papá a toda madre" means something like "totally awesome dad." Well, no totally awesome dads in this TN as yet, not even the fathers of the current fathers, nor the priests. We'll see how they fare by the end of the TN.
BTW, this TN must be doing OK with the audience to judge by the number of paid commercials LooneyVision managed to squeeze in last night.
I didnt think Rod and Raf were overly affectionate or pushing it down people's throats. They were like any happy, affectionate couple. But I'm a new Yorker so I'm used to such displays.
I hope this "comedy" lightens up soon. I am starting to miss lovable Ramoon and slightly dim Fab. No heavy messages in that one accept beware of demon gambling, do unit wear pigtails if you are over eight, and try not to be an awful old person.
1. "...don't think that sat too well with Jorge. After confession the priest twice offered his hand to be kissed, a very old custom and a sign of submission, and Jorge instead shook the hand". Andy, thank you - I completely missed that.
2. "Common sense should tell him what the right thing to do is, but instead he runs to the fossilized priest probably knowing that the priest will justify and endorse what he has been doing all along...denying his sins and wanting to be absolved of any responsibility for those sins". Hear, hear RgvChick.
3. "I wonder what will be the event that turns him into the father he should be if it’s isn’t Yuriria dying and now being responsible for Lili and Bar". I do too Jarifa!
4. "And yes I saw that glimmer of hopeo when Kika made some disparaging remark about Any and Mau set her straight that "IT' has a name, BTW". I was glad for that too Kirby.
5. "If Jorge wants to be their father, he will get the custody and all the obligations that come with it. One would be not to have the children stashed in a secret house, asking him for food". Spot on Lucio
Finally, Susanlynn, I am also thinking this isn't hitting the right comedic notes. I'm sort of missing Ramoon myself :)
Diana
RGV Chick: The other day you responded to my comments regarding Jorge about the scenario I had come up with. No, I didn't mean that I thought that Jorge had left Yuri at the alter and not married her, it was merely a fantasy scenario I had dreamed up as a "what if". I am glad we finally got the "rest of the story" and found that he got together with Yuri the night before his wedding and that's how Baldo and Lili were conceived. He didn't know Yuri got pregnant and so he went quite a while before he even knew. It's good to know that he contributed to their support. But he sure got himself between a rock and a hard place! No wonder he is always so uptight, he is carrying around a lot of guilt.
Jorge going to his priest was an interesting thing because this priest seems to have no love and no mercy. Jorge wanted to confess and make himself right with God, but the priest was more intent on criticizing him.
I think of that every time we see Father Cuthroat.
I certainly don't miss Ramoon, but I do or would miss Birdbrain Fabiola if only she would just walk around a while in one of her spray-on dresses and keep her mouth shut.
I very much miss Miss Ada and her hills and valleys and beautiful eyes.
For anybody interested there is a Cantinflas movie, El barrendero, on Unimas 8 - 10 pm.
You are a fabulous recapper and screen saver and I would never have understood that phrase about a black scorpion if you hadn't explained it.
So once again thanks for all you do. None of us will ever forget how you flew out of state to help care for your ailing mother and then came back and completed a recap for us all. You are my hero.
Jarifa, I definitely miss MMTF. Looking forward to part 2.
Kirby, I don't know about DV. Is Amar Sin Ley still filming?
Diana
In regards to the saying "me caes gordo"...I'm sure you all know how it feels when you eat too much and you feel full and heavy and "fat." Well, (IMO) I think that is where this saying originated. It can be interpreted as "I can't stand you." "You make me want to puke." "I don't like you" etc. etc. etc....
RGV Chick, hey I learn something every day. When Judy alerted me about the "me caes gordo" statement, I hurried and consulted with my son in law who explained. So that is why I edited the recap to reflect what the term actually meant. So we keep on learning...I'm always glad to learn something new. And sometimes we have to learn from our mistakes. :)
Before I found this site I would watch a TN episode and record it, then play it a second time with closed captioning on and try to read in Spanish what I didn't get the first time through. I still didn't understand half as much as I do now when I can read a recap.
I'm sure you didn't mean it that way but your comment came across as very critical. If you have questions you should just ask them. I have found people here, both recappers and others, to be extremely helpful and nice. Nice is good.
Thanks again.
It is up to each recapper to include what they want, and of course to write in their own personal, distinctive style. When Melinama first started this blog, she wrote ONE recap for a WHOLE WEEK of episodes. You can bet not every conversation was included, nor was there a set order of one scene after another.
Cynthia, thanks again, as I said earlier, you are my hero because I know how busy you are with both your work and your personal life and you stay up until a very late hour indeed to bring us these timely recaps. And if you're like me, the adrenaline that goes into that work will continue to keep you up for many hours more. So thanks from the bottom of my heart. (hmmm.."bottom of my heart"...another weird expression)
And thanks Rgv Chick for your theory on how "me caes gordo" came to be. Etymology of alang is fascinating.
P.s. I am looking out the window at about five inches of snow.
Have a good Sunday everyone.
Which makes me think of another English expression..."don't look a gift horse in the mouth!"
Jarifa, I still remember that you gave us so much additional information on MMTF...about the aledrijes (colorful fantastical creatures) and the holidays. Thank you for that and so much more!
I am actually surprised, the way LooneyVision is with product placement, that they don't have Rafa and Rodrigo drinking Dr. Pepper. Just Sayin......................
And Rgv Chick, thanks for mentioning alebrijes. I didn't follow Mi Marido Tiene Familia and so missed Jarifa's information on it, but I decided to look it up and found it very interesting.
Sure do enjoy all the info I can find on the internet and on this blog. Thanks everybody.
:-)
Good afternoon patio! Who's table are we at tonight???
I have a suggestion. Let's form one huge table, one in honor of our Cynthia and other marvelous recappers. Those who work tirelessly at the cost of time away from friends and family to give us these treasured gifts. Those who never have but the kindest, most supportive words and encouragement for all. Those who nurture us, and empathize and sympathize when road blocks and heartaches arise in our personal lives.
To all the recapper and to the kind commenters, I raise a glass and toast you! Thank you, for all that do. For all that you are. For who you are!
Diana
I think this is a woman thing. I remember in MMTF when Julieta and Robert got married there was afterwards a big discussion here about Diana's dress, how pretty it was.
Back to the DVR... yep, she was wearing a dress, and it was a very pretty dress. But she was onscreen for maybe a few seconds or so. Not something I would have felt a need to comment on, or even notice.
I do learn a lot here.
:-)
I noticed the dress right off the bat. Then the second night, at the celebration of gay luuuurve it was shown much more, and it is hideous. I have seen a lot of dresses, and I have never seen anything like that on or off anyone.
Renee is showing herself to have that one trait almost all engineers have, wholesomeness to a fault. I can't count how many of my coworker engineers I have seen whose wives left them or at least cheated on them with car salesmen and bartenders. Most of us mistakenly believe the ability to repair the microwave with a paper clip and duct tape is more attractive than a good line of bull and being genuinely funny. It is not.
I am still hoping for a war between Kika and Falcon. Her not so secret weapons might not work on old numbnuts Falcon. She sure is spending a lot of effort, and you would think money, to extract revenge for a junior high or high school transgression. It is not like Mauricio killed her parents or left her with a couple of twins or something. He probably bedded her then let it out that she needed more practice. Probably true. You can't learn it in a book, Honey.
And what in tarnation is Sammy about to get into with the shark site? Buying Flintstones Viagra .?
Ayi yaii yaii
But am going to disagree a bit about the engineers. A good sense of humor is great, but a solid guy who can repair things around the house, and does so, is pure gold.
Dating someone with a good line of bull can be great fun. Marriage and children would be much better done with a wholesome, faithful engineer. IMO of course.
Judy, you know that as do I. But when I was fresh out of college, and maybe ten years after, I saw that a lot.
Thanks. That bird made me stand out in the sun for--ever to simply get a shot of a fly-by. You can't really stand in the shade, cause the same thing which provides shade blocks your view of anything in flight too. Not to be a doodoohead, but it is already HOT (86 degrees) here. Even our normally cornfused weather forecasters are scratching their heads and talking about records.
I feel for the girls who get back from the gym or some high school function for the kids and finally notice that they are married to a fellow who is boring, has no hair, looks pregnant, and can do nothing. Then we engineers start looking better. :-)
Kirby, "Renee's dress was a FAIL." YES it was! All that was needed was for Renee to be sporting ponytails, lots of red rouge, and super long lashes. Juby B, "strange baby doll look"...definitely!
Kirby, if you're a doodoohead, then so am I...it is HOT here too and our weather guys are also scratching their heads and talking records; PLUS it's SUPER windy so allergies are going "hay"wire.
Awesome pic, Kirby, thanks!!
Weird weather here, too. We are hitting upper 50’s today and tomorrow. Rain is washing all the snow away. Flood watch.
Great photo, Kirby.
Liked Weekend Bird..free and soaring.
Oveecast and misty here . Springlike temps.
Presidents' Day to do list....watch "Office " marathon on Comedy channel. Cleaning. Laundry. Go grocery shopping. Check online for Baby Doll pajamas. Life in the fast lane.
Happy Presidents day all. I would have loved to have been off today but my company took this (and several other holidays) away so they could close at Christmas. I won't comment further :)
Yes, the dress was strange. I kept trying to determine if the blue bow was 3D or not. Of course, I've commented on Renee's outfits before and seen celebrities wearing similar styles, so I know nothing.
Judy, it was a baby doll look! And yes, I remember baby dolls. Never wore them but remember them :)
RgvChick, rouge and pigtails would have made it Raggedy Ann indeed. RgvChick. Great call.
Jarifa, we got snow too but mild temps yesterday got rid of most it it. 70's here on Wednesday?!
Andy, yes we did discuss fashion a lot on MMTF, but we had Julieta who never had a bad hair day and who never looked less than a million dollars. Lots of clothes to love there.
Diana
So when I put birds up, I choose photos which can be trimmed to about square without loss of a wing or head.
But to put up Ms. Grudge Forever that would have meant losing either the top half (not acceptable) or bottom half (even less woofable).
So I just copied it and made a jpg two wide. VIOLA !
Yes, I tried to lure Andy into service in the male fashion police on Fabian, but soon realized that was far below his pay grade and gave up.
Now your eagle was truly amazing. And, I might suspect, all natural...
I will leave it at that :)
Diana
:-)
Susanlynn: Thanks for the info. I had laundry to do today also, but I had no idea that was part of life in the fast lane.
I think I was expecting something a little more glamorous...
At the risk of sounding like a little Goody Two Shoes (where is my pop-out dress?) I give thanks every night for hot showers. Somehow those WWII movies about the miserable shower arrangements soldiers had to concoct made a BIG impression on me. As did my grandparents wood-burning stove, washtub in the kitchen and scary daddy long legs hideout outhouse.
#indoorlaundryroomsrock
Love showers. We only had a clawfoot tub at the farm.
Outdoor makedo showers make me think of my fav Broadway show.."South Pacific."
#countingblessings
Alright, enough drama from me. Thanks for all your comments and for all your support.
I am definitely looking forward to tonight's episode.
And all of the episodes to come since I want to see just how they tie up all the loose ends and explain the oddities. I'm expecting redemption for the fathers of children at some point, and perhaps for the Church as well. The writers and producers must know that many people will be upset at the portrayal of the clergy in this TN. Even the priest at Milady's baptism wasn't great. He didn't like the name Milady, and then he wanted to hurry things along since he had a wedding to do.
But that resolution or redemption, if there is one, is still a long way off. Tonight I hope to see some further evil machinations of our nasty, cheeky, villainous, fun Kika. And some better clothes for Renee.
Looking at the news I see that Oaxaca has had yet another earthquake, though not a severe one.
It's been a rough time for Oaxaca.
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