Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Refugio Para el Amor #92 Tue 8/14/12 It Serves Me Right For Putting All My Eggs In One Bastard*
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Why would Uni cut out that scene of Melissa showing Rosa her rightous anger? Kind of important to show that one of the young people in the family finally knows Rosa's deep dark secret, no?
I couldn't figure out if Max was referring to Aldo or Vicky either with the dog/rabies saying. I thought he meant Aldo, as he had just made the threat to Aldo to stay away from Vicky for her well being. So basically scaring them both by saying he'l hurt the other. But he might have also want to leave it vague for Vicky. No need since she's already scared out of her mind. I was scared when he demanded that she get in the car. Yipes!
I'm with you Judy, about poor Vicky. I think she knows now she is stuck with Evil Max, until HE decides he's done with her. I hope she doesn't lose her job. Or nothing happens to her. It would be just like evil Max.
I love how Aldo is kind of stickin' it to Lastra, too funny.
I loved the comparison you made with Luci's life and family in Het Het and Gagme's with Julie in the D.F. There is so much love with Luci's family and loved how Paz told Lorenzo about how love brings a family together and not necessarily blood. This is a great family. On the other side of the coin, Gagme and Julie with Julie and her love of money. I feel so bad for that baby.
Melissa does have it bad for Claudio. He thinks of her like a daughter, she will have to tell him she is interested in him, cause he won't ever see it.
I am hoping Conny and Oscar get past this too. They are such a perfect couple.
Thanks also for the reminder that there will be no show tomorrow. Futbol will be on instead. Boooo!!
When Theo explained that the ghost appeared to drunks and disobedient kids, the first thing he said is, "Well I'm safe. I'm not a drunk." LOL! But then of course he admitted to being disobedient at times. And then when he told Luci that he knew they had Magda take him out to distract him so that he would hear what they were talking about. He points out that he's like family, so he should know what's up. He's a little kid, but he's not stupid.
And while he contended that he was "family" and should know it all, Luciana sweetly (but firmly) reminded him that some discussions were just for "big people", family or no. Clearly she'll make a good mother.
This situation is beyond ridiculous. The idea of Rod caving to his crazy mother is even more insane. Can't he see she's out of her mind or is Patricio the only one in that house who sees the truth?
@Sara....what a nice compliment. Thanks. I've told this story before, but Sylvia is the one who got me started including vocabulary. As a brand-new arrival at CarayCaray (and understanding very little Spanish) I always looked forward to her recaps, because there would be some vocabulary at the end.
And yes, Pato is so wise. Kind, but not a pushover. Really has good boundaries. I didn't include it in the recap, but loved when Rod came into his room, stupidly asked "What are you doing?" (to a quadriplegiac!) and he just replied, "Killing time." How true. And how sad. For now. Can't wait for him to be mobile and to have more time with Luciana.
Contrasting landscapes, contrasting color palettes, and contrasting values certainly clash and drive the plot in this tn!
I think that if I could rewrite the ending, Max, Rosa, Rod, Gala, and Julie would all take a private yacht voyage and get stranded on a deserted island, where they would have to endure each other for the rest of their lives.
Max scares me. He appears to be as mentally unstable as Rosa.
And yes Vicky's scenes w/Max were horrible. I was so mad at her for getting in the car and not running away. He'd have to park and car and run after her.
Pato continues to be the best. And though I hope Connie & Oscar get back together, I'm he told her she was an enabler.
-Would the heroine ever marry someone else other than the galan, but eventually end up with the galan?-- Yes. Either a civil wedding that can be ended with a divorce or a church wedding that ends in death for the other guy. The marriage would be sexless.*
-Would the heroine fall in love with another guy after the galan, and end up married to galan #2 and living happily ever after with him by the end?-- This is very rare. Most of us have only seen this happen once in recent years in Querida Enemiga where Gabriel Soto (Rod) was the galan. For this reason, most of us don't believe Soto would sign up for another novela where he (the main galan) doesn't get the heroine in the end.
*About the heroine marrying someone else but not having sex with him, I've only seen this rule broken once. The other guy was Gabriel Soto! The novela was La Fuerza del Destino which was on recently. He and the heroine remained married for a year, had sex, but over time she started losing her desire for him which was a point of frustration for him. In the end they divorced and she married the galan. And galan number 2 didn't die! That was a shocker.
I really don't like Rodrigo at all, what an idiot. I sure wish Luciana would wake up and marry Pato instead, he's the only one in that whole family worth a plugged nickel. Rodrigo is such an immature, selfish hothead. Ugh! I actually think he and Gala deserve each other.
In reference to the "muerto el perro" threat, Maximeano is saying he'll be in charge of Vicky until he's dead or decides to do otherwise. He's equally as unbalanced as Rosalena but it seems even more wicked somehow.
Your description of Gala and her game to get Rod, perfect.
No spoiler here, but you don't have to be psychic to see what will happen. Rod will cave to Gala, marry her in a civil ceremony before he will be able to find out that Luci is pregnant.
@KAREN....even though I hate Gala, it's interesting to watch her as she manipulates clueless, impulsive Rod. The actress is very good at playing cold evil predators. But I think she could play someone good if they gave her a chance.
@CHISPA!....love that moniker. And thanks for giving us your take on the "muerto el perro..." Are you a native speaker of Spanish? That's always a help to us when we get tangled up in some of these phrases.
@EMARIE...great to hear from you. Yes, the contrasts here are so beautifully represented. In one way, I hope that Luciana doesn't move to the capital. I love the scenes in the pueblo, the easy, relaxed pace of life, that blazing blue sky, the warmth and texture of the buildings. That locale feeds the spirit in a way that the smog-filled streets of Mexico City never could....for me at least!
One of my least favorite lines in ALL TN's ? " “It wasn't my secret to tell". If it was a surprise borthday party, knock yourself out. But stealing a baby and other assorted nasties, no, don't buy it. But I do so want Connie and Oscar to make it thru, so hopefully he won't get as ticked as I do when hearing that.
OIne night we get Max the model father, another night we get Max the Manhandler. He needs a few anvils just for how he has treated Vik.
Dumbass, please listen to your mother carefully. SHE WHo Shall Not Be Named just offered to "raise your child". Yes, the certified nut job you've grown up with who has the snobby class ideas. Really want that and to be chained to the likes of Gala and, oh and just for added delight, you get the Champagne Queen as a mother -in-law....But alas, this is our hero of more braun than brain and I"m sure he'll be staring starstruck in front of the magistrate soon.
Vivi-It's interesting how many "break the norm" TNs Gabriel Soto has been in.
I really wish I had started watching this one. I just didn't have the constitution for 2 hours episodes when it began, but judging from comments in other threads this one is very good.
How ironic that Roselena nobly wants to raise another generation of children. Mind you, Jana and Pato have turned out pretty well, thanks to their own native wholesomeness and that of Matilde. But Mati is getting older now and her influence on the next crop of babies would be lessened. Noooooo...don't let Roselena get her hands on that baby. Or Luciana's either.
Glad you're at the Oscar/Connie table with me. They bring out the best in each other so I hope the romance makes it through this period of disillusionment.
We have seen Connie, as well as Padre Honesto, urge Roselena to tell the truth repeatedly. But without success. Padre Honesto can't reveal what he knows under the seal of confession. But should Mati, Max, or Connie have told Linares the truth while he was in prison?
Given the enormity of the secret (and the crime) I say 'yes'. For Connie, it would have meant the end of the sisterly relationship. For Max, the end of the marriage. But letting a man believe his child was dead, while grieving the loss of his wife and enduring an unjust (and long!) prison sentence, is unthinkable.
And yet....we "like" Connie. And we like the way Max interacts with his children (most of the time) but loathe the way he treats poor downtrodden Vicky.
I might email you for a little catch up, Judy so I can at least keep up via recap. Refugio is actually in the perfect time slot for me (no recording conflicts.)
I blush to admit that I often eat my dinner in front of the TV and this is the perfect time slot. Since my husband comes and goes (and eats dinner) at very odd hours, TV is my dinner table!
I eat dinner in front of the TV, too. We live in a smaller home and the layout is more living room cum dining room.
Judy, you accomplished all of the above and so much more. I think this is your finest summary - the quintessential recap. "It Serves Me Right For Putting All My Eggs in One Bastard"? I laughed out loud. Genius. Side bar worthy.
"Super studly Sperm Donor Rodrigo" and "Gala, as part of the cold gray stone and steel big city world of Rodrigo represents “un amor sucio”....self-interested, scheming, materialistic and ultimately destructive" were a few of my favorites.
Watching the pain and love between Luci, Paz and Lorenzo, divulging the truth yet fighting to stay together, to be the family whose bond cannot be broken, despite so many obstables. Contrast that with Gala's revelation of what should have been a joyful announcement - stated only to gain position and establish permanent ties to a man who never did and will never love her. What stark contrasts.
I'll join you, Vivi, Madelaine and everyone else who are disgusted with Max's treatment of Vicky. I also thought last night was the first time Aldo seemed genuinely frightened. As well he should be. daisy, let the anvils fall - no redemption in my eyes for Max.
As Karen and others noted, Pato is the best. The one voice of reason and unflawed logic. One who sees things and people for who and what they are.
I'm enjoying the vocabulary and dichos immensely. Learning and laughing. What could be better??
Diana
JudyB- I don't like it wasn't my secret to tell. Max didn't know about the baby 'napping until Rosa told him years later, when Claudio got out of prison, not like Mati and Conny knew at the time. I am not sticking up for any of them. I think one of them should have ratted Rosa out. They could have done it anonymously, at the least. A letter or phone call to the police would have worked. I see each of their reasonings too. Max, who is in legal trouble now and could,and I hope, does lose everything, Mati, who feels Rosa is like her child, and who would never rat her out, and Conny, who is Rosa's sister, who I think pities Rosa more than really loves her. But none of this excuses what each did. I don't know how they could live with themselves knowing what this was doing to Claudio. Wait till they find out Max defrauded Claudio too. I think that is when the conscience is going to kick in, when they realize exactly what this family has done to Claudio. Although this baby 'napping is beyond the pale. But on the other hand, if one of them had gone to the police at the time, the brunt of the punishment would have been given to Paz and Galindo. I am glad that didn't happen.
You nailed right there our healthy addiction to telenovelas...there is so much to learn in another language (and so little time!)and to see places and locales that many of us, me included, will never get to see in person is another plus.
And several people have noted that CarayCaray is a much friendlier, respectful forum than some of the others on the internet. That makes me very happy.
Pato is amazing. The writers have given us a very strong character who handles his paralysis with grace, but also determination to get better. But in the meantime, he still wields a strong rational and moral presence. Definitely the "sage" of this telenovela. More so than even Padre Honesto.
I think Oscar won't dump Connie over this, but he was right to chastise her. Now she'll also have to deal with Melissa. I think Connie is receiving her punishment in the form of the people she loves being appalled by her behavior and letting her know. Unlike Rosa, these things do matter to her and probably weigh more heavily on her conscience.
Mati gets on my nerves more because she continues to give Rosa info that she can use to hurt Luci.
"And several people have noted that CarayCaray is a much friendlier, respectful forum" Judy I couldn't agree more. There are other forums I have tried to comment on, but just don't enjoy because there are always too many commentors that border on nasty, or want to get into arguments over opinions. Our little group is such a friendly, relaxing, funny and down-right educational gang.
There have occasionally been ugly confrontations in years past on certain lines. But Melinama steps in quickly to quash any unkindness towards other recappers or commenters. She is determined to keep this blog respectful and also gossip and spoiler-free. Occasionally there are glitches, but not often.
Also, a few things that keep bothering me:
1 - Could they have made they inferno look any more like a Middle School hang out? I mean seriously, it looks like they went to Dollar Tree for the decor. Bugs the crap out of me...
2 - Why oh why is Rod's office set up the way they have it? There is NO executive (or anyone with an office) who would have the door behind the desk and have to walk from the door all the way around the desk to get in the chair. Anyone who walks in the office can see what he has up on his computer. Bugs the crap out of me...
3 - The doors to the study at the TorresLanda home. Seriously, they swing back and forth as if they are hollow and cheap. Bugs the crap out of me...
4 - Gala's shoes squeak when she walks in her apartment. Can they not fix that crap? Bugs the crap out of me...
5 - Has anyone noticed that since they cleaned up Aldo's look, the makeup department is putting too much blush on him? This does not bug me, but makes me giggle.
6 - Melissa looks at CL like she wants to eat him. LOL... again, does not bug me, but make me giggle. She has a beautiful smile.
Never noticed that Gala's shoes squeaked, nor the cheesy doors or the poor placement of Rod's desk...but those are all good observations. And often, in table scenes, they have everybody sitting on the same side so the camera doesn't have to whip around.
Too much blush on Aldo! interesting. As for Melissa...yes, a beautiful smile but boy does she come on strong, sparkle-wise. Amazing that Linares hasn't picked up on it.
I also have my bartenders license still intact for the state of Indiana. I look at it as my safety [parachute :)
Out side the box here. Is Gala really preggers? This could be part of her strategy (fake preg) for getting Rod the dumb A back. Little does she know that Julie or Rosa loca or both together conspired to pay for the desired result, fooling Gala, too. Rosa loca didn't seem to be too confident in Gala's strategy.
Paz and Galdino only had the "dirt poor" and "powerless" choice. No accepto the bebe would have resulted in firing and probably bannishment from their occupation in that area.
Don't think that Lorenzo understands that his Taco stand is a grapevine for all the other maids that listen in on his conversations.
Although I'm sure Paz and Galdino's motives for taking baby Luci were good pure--they likely felt Rosa would choose a worse fate for the baby if they didn't take her and it sounds like they fell in love with Luci as soon as they held her-- they still took a baby who wasn't theirs legally. Doesn't matter if Rosa threatened them. But it was VERY lucky that they were the first ones Rosa thought about. She could have dumped Luci at some third rate orphanage or worse! The money Rosa gave Paz and Galdino was probably what they used to buy their house and their farm land, I'm guessing.
No, I'm not exactly a native speaker of Spanish but I did live in Mexico for a few years. When I was a teenager my parents were in Matehuala, SLP, Mexico helping to build an orphanage and I went down to visit them and ended up in the hospital (that thing about not drinking the water is true...btw). My doctor during that hospital visit had a great bedside manner and I married him a couple of years later. We live in the States now, have 4 mostly grown up kids, and he still calls me Chispa.
Interesting fact, the village scenes for Luciana's village are filmed in Real de Catorce, Mexico, very close to where I lived when I met my husband. It's a gorgeous place and it sure has brought back a lot of memories seeing it again.
Your two paragraphs contrasting Luci's world and Gala's world should be award winning.
Luci's pueblo doesn't have many modern conveniences that we are all used to, but if given the choice of the little mountain pueblo or the luxury's of the D.F., I would choose the pueblo in a heartbeat. There's warmth, peace and serenity there.
Sally---I vote YES! for your yacht idea.
the gringo
@CHISPA!...love your story. How romantic. Sounds like it could be a telenovela. And what wonderful parents you must have had to be down there building an orphanage. Our church does mission trips in various Latino countries, but nothing in Mexico at the moment. However, since you've lived there and are married to a native speaker, that makes you bi-lingual in my book! Glad to have your help with the idiom.
@EMILIA...I've noticed your Iron Skillet cropping up on lines even where you and Mike are commenting. It's a CarayCaray staple. Let's whack Brigida too while we're at it.
"It was beginning to look like an awfully bleak episode as Rodrigo later engaged in a booze-influenced re-coupling with his ex-fiancée Gala (Jessica Coch); but the episode ended on a high note as a major secret long known to the audience was finally revealed to a pertinent character: Paz revealed to Claudio Linares that she isn’t Luciana’s birth mother, that Claudio’s daughter didn’t die twenty years, that, in fact, Luciana is his daughter. It was one of those wonderfully torturous scenes as the revelation was doled out, bit by bit, and you’re not sure if the crucial information will ever actually get out. You begin anticipating all manner of delay, minor (phone call, knock on the door) and major (swoon, heart attack, meteor strike). The revelations of big plot secrets on soaps and telenovelas are tricky business, it’s necessary to build up anticipation for the reveal to be impactful, but wait too long and the audience will become restless or annoyed or lose interest in the secret altogether. But when the revelation is done well and the scene lands just right, it can be downright cathartic for the audience and is one of the things that make soaps great. Needless to say, this revelation on UN REFUGIO PARA EL AMOR was pretty great and set the table for what looks to be another eventful episode Monday."
I wonder if this writer is one of our Caray Caray contributers?
I am sure people must be coming to our site and lifting recaps though. Writing likes yours is just too good to pass up.
And yes, woe, woe, woe, the dark forces appear to be winning right now. I expect we'll all be biting our nails until the end. (which is guaranteed to be happy...for most everybody anyway.)
Thanks for "la flor" by the way. And right back atcha.
Olive
Max is truly demented when he's around Vicky and Roselena is so warped, she's convinced that HER vision of happiness is what would really benefit her children.
They are stick figures in her fantasies, not real people with needs and desires of their own. A more self-righteous witch I can't imagine (although I understand there have been some even worse in other telenovelas).
I am SO hoping that Gala, Julie and Rosalooney get their comeuppance soon!!!
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