Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Refugio Para el Amor #96 Tue 8/21/12 Certain Women Should Be Struck Regularly Like Gongs* (*Noel Coward)
- todo sale a pedir de boca = everything is going just fine (not hardly, but we can hope)
- la cenefa = the border, frieze (what Luciana painted on the wall of her mother's house)
- vasijas (de barro) = earthenware pots (the pots with butterflies that won Luciana first place in the competition
- el fin justifica los medios = the end justifies the means (not really folks)
- la resortera = slingshot (Ariche is planning to teach Luciana's baby how to shoot one)
- tus baños de pureza = your purifying ablutions (Maiti ragging Brigida about her supposed innocence.)
- exprimir = squeeze (can be squeezing an orange...or in this case, Rod's billfold)
- cantar sus verdaderes = tell you off, give you what for (Paz to Don Aquiles)
- cada uno decide su destino = each one decides his destiny (Pato to Rodrigo)
- un auditorio = a legal hearing
- investigar los datos de los dueños = get some contact information about the owners, like eemail address, telephone number or residential address (what Linares wants Luciana to do)
- un sonaja = a rattle (Ariche plans to make the baby one that sounds like rainfall)
- enrarecerse = to become strained (Paz notes that the atmosphere is becoming strained when Don Aquiles is badgering her about Luciana's parentage)
- mantitas = little blankets (another project of Madga and Paz, the “two grandmothers” as Papa Linares calls them)
- están resabrosos = very tasty (Lorenzo, touting the tastiness of his wares “re” added to a word means “very”-- slang only)
- un pedido = order
- el tramite = procedure (police official explaining that it's procedure to pay a fine before Lorenzo and Fabian can get their confiscated goods back.)
- volante = can mean flywheel or referral note or slip (the latter is what Lorenzo and Fabian don't have....and need to get the bike back as well)
- llevar a cabo = to take place
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Great phrases and dichos too. Pato really is rattling them off every episode. I loved his love is repaid with love line to Rod. I think it struck Rod because he repaid Luci's love with distrust and accusations, and now he's paying the price. Same thing with Pato's line about everyone making their own life choices.
That last scene was painful to watch as Luci learned the horrible truth. It was also painful to watch the look of love on Pato's face as Luci hugged him. You're right about those worried looks Magda and Paz passed between them. They know this can't end well.
Pato's scenes with Rod were really strong...and you could see Rodrigo's face turning sad and sour as he registered the thrust of Pato's remarks. Our younger brother seems to be getting stronger and stronger, driven by his love for Luciana and his rehabilitation. Rod, on the other hand, is being ground down by his mother and his nightmare of a wife, Gala. Quite a shift in the dynamics of the two siblings.
Loved Pato being strong with Rod too. Serves Dead To Me right, he made his bed now let him lay in it. I like how Marcos was nice to Luci too. I hope they both rub into Gagme and Dead To Me's faces how well Luci is. It was sad for Luci to learn that Dead To Me married Gagme because she is preggers. It would serve Gagme right if she had a girl! I hope she does and that Luci has the boy!
Loved how Claudio decided to move up there to be close to Luci and her family. That was wonderful and I loved how he said they were all grandparents, Paz, Magda and himself and Ariche being a Tio lol.
Speaking of Tio's how sad for Vicky to have to be "on call" for evil Max. I love how Aldo wants to stick it to his Tio, but it will lead to more trouble for poor Vicky.
That Champagne Queen what a skank. I hope Dead To Me doesn't pay a dime of her credit cards.
Poor Lorenzo and Fabian, just as they are getting ahead and building a life, because of Rosa la Loca, they lost it all.
The police should have tested the food, saw it was good, and then let them go. I am hoping Claudio fixes this too, and sticks it to la loca.
We all knew she was loca and the doctor just confirmed it for us. I can't wait till they put her in the manicomio, but I am afraid of what she will do next. Hated the way she said she needed no meds, just Dios, and (Note to La Loca: Talk to the heavens cause Dios has tuned you out), the horned one has your number, jus' sayin'.
Oh, Judy good one about swatting Lastra too. He needs another one upside the head.
Thanks for the vocabulary too. Los datos usually refers to contact information in particular - email address, telephone number, residence address, etc.
The party ladies (in a scene right out of British sitcom Absolutely Fabulous) were hilarious passed out on the couches with slippered feet in the air. LOL!
Poor Luci - what news to hear!
The word I'm waiting to hear is manicomio. Complete with Nurse Ratched. Rosa la Loca going off her meds will be hell on earth for that entire family.
Rod should definitely cancel Julie and Gala's credit cards. Gala signed the pre-nup because she has other ways to ruin him financially, starting with maxing out the credit cards.
Gagme should not be allowed to reproduce. What a nightmare life that poor child will have. With Gagme's attitude about a female child, I am afraid that just seals the deal. She better send the stuff she just bought to Luci because she will be the one having little Rod. Did I hear right, Gagme wants to name the bebe Max and not Rod?
If Claudio buys a casa in Het Het, I am sure the whole town will be in like and respect him just as we do.
The girls were a hoot in the police station, especially Vio. The poor guy at desk couldn't think straight after she arrive with all of her assets.
Rosemary Primera
AUDREY-thanks for expanding the definition of datos, I've added your clarification
UA-don't lose your dinner over Don Aquiles! He's not worth it! The big A does seem to treat the pueblo folks like his serfs, and he's delusional enough to probably still believe that one day Luciana will be his. His lair is so dark and disgusting...I love how the set people have built him a home base that is feral and cave-like.
ROSEMARY PRIMERA- I too was amused by Violet's assault of the counter at the police station. I'm surprised the desk man could even utter a coherent sentence after that.
Pato so broke my heart last night. It's going to be rough to watch his intereaction with Luci. There is just something sweet and right about them, heck they even have better chemistry as actors on the screen. Casting is really blowing it lately with some of these main couples vs. the heroic side-kick.
So I'm betting Luci stays mum about the bebe to Dumbass now, Pato will know and protect her along with CL - not sure the writers would go so far as him marrying her and going to live in Het Het, but wouldn't Rosa burst a vessel over that!!!
La Loca and the Champagne Queen picking out the baby's room decor -that will be one scary room to wake up in. Let CQ use Rosa's cash - serves her right. As for Gagme busting in on Dumbass, how terribly professinal of her. Hmmmm, don't you run a business? Go to work yourself. He is going to so be living the Yo-Yo life with this nutjob. Guess he should be use to it after his mother. Still not feeling sorry for him.
Hoping Claudio saves the day for Lorenzo too. Someone needs to do it and stick it to Rosa. Oooooo-- Janna would be a good one to do it too.
VIVI- Yes, I'm sure the Gossip Girls would love to join Claudio's harem. He's educated, attractive, kind, and by pueblo standards a sharp and elegant dresser. A good start indeed. Makes Don Aquiles look like even more of a savage buffoon than he is.
He just gets better and better, while my muscle man Rodrigo (still love those pectorals) looks weaker and more churlish each day.
I still feel our main couple is destined to be together at the end, but that means a really really terrific woman has to come along for Pato. We can't have all that nobility and capacity to love go to waste!
Thought I saw Pato move his Right hand as if to comfort Luci when she was on her knees by his chair.
Rod is a complete doormat. How much abuse from gagme are we going to have to put up with? He should retaliate for the wedding dress on the barbe by burning Julie's Champagne collection. Man I hate her character. Such a second hand rose.
"self righteous backside", "raging Sergio Sendel phone slam", "groveling and growing up" and "bodacious cleavage at the ready" were but a few of my favorites.
"El amor con amor se paga" - no wonder we love Pato! He is grateful for every small stride, for every small movement. I believe he was able to stroke Luci's hair only due to sheer will and determination. We've seen him move his hand, but not to that extent.
It's evident Rod is in hell. And Rosemary, could her feelings about not wanting a daughter be any more loathsome?? Yes, she is despicable.
Madelaine, I want Aldo to help bring Max down but I'm afraid for him (and for Vicky). He lacks Max's cunning and is simply outmatched. Max will strike like a venomous cobra - quickly and lethally at the slightest provocation.
What about Ofelia for Pato? I think she is sweet and kind but of course I have to be honest, is anyone good enough for our Pato??
Thanks again Judy! This was inspired.
Diana
And yes, right now Rodrigo is being a complete doormat. I'm sure he's going through a period of self-loathing because of his despicable treatment of Luciana.
We knew from the get go that his character was due for getting beaten down before growing up. And Gala is certainly a big enough witch for the job, backed up by her sleazy trashy mom.
Ofelia doesn't seem to be a very well-defined character yet, but we know that she is intelligent and courageous (her risky entrance into the States is proof of that)and Lastre, scum that he is,quickly recognized that she has more "class" and "categoria" than our bumptious Violeta or Serena, so there's that indication that the writers might have something more in mind for her. Pato would certainly be a wonderful father for her little girl. Hmmm..now you've got me thinking. Another barrio gal for the Torreslanda family. Roselena will shoot herself!
And I agree with you about Max. He has a punitive side that is really scary. He's much more dangerous than our coddled carefree Aldo seems to realize.
Did Gala mention having a boy to be the heir? Gotta lock up the Torreslanda business - if there is any left after Claudio gets his part back.
Let's tie Rosa by her ankles inside a huge bell. I thought we could use her as the clapper but maybe we could circle the bell, beating on it with metal bats.
I'm not liking Claudio's idea of living in Het Het in a big house with all of our favorite people. He should buy a tiny place and live alone. Maybe put in a swing set and little tricycle path. Luci's baby would love 'going to Grandpa's house' rather than living there.
Had to chuckle at your nix on Claudio's big house "all live together" plans. From the look on Paz' face she wasn't on board either. After all, she just got her own home back, and it's been freshly painted and with a lovely frieze done by Luciana. Who would want to pack up and move again. Not me!
Soooo...are you and Mike putting in a swing set and tricycle path soon?
The more the writers attempting to make Rosa's behavior a medical condition. As daisynjay stated yesterday, Rosa's a spoiled brat who throws tantrums when she doesn't get her way and manipulates her family members as well. To say its a mental breakdown seems to absolve Rosa from the choices she's making. She is fully aware of the horrible things she does. Her justification of them just makes her a sociopath.
Diana - Yes Ofelia could be a match for Pato but as Judy noted she must become more defined as a character and be fantastic. He's set the bar so high, its hard to give him anyone but the one that he wants, sigh.
LOVED LOVED the recap and also your further comments. The Gong theme.. GREAT!! esp if the gong itself is RodTheBod... LOL!!
fav line from recap:
Rod listens to all this drivel with a just-kill-me-now face....the same one he's been wearing ever since she told him she was pregnant.
fav moment. Paz telling it to DonA.
another fav moment: Pato telling Rod 'amor con amor se paga' which makes me think that Rod will probably be the one that will get Lorenzo out of the mess... and will begin doing things FOR Luci even though she won't know it is him behind the 'good deeds'. The more he has to withstand Gala nad Julie the more he will appreciate what he had with Luci.
Another great moment was when Claudio said he would buy that house with 8 rooms in town so he could be close to Luci and the baby and Ariche inviting himself and his mother and the look on Paz and Magda's face was priceless.
Can't wait for the next confrontation between Claudio and Don Aquiles... but first we will have the first hearing between Max and CLaudio.. I hope they can put a bulletproof wall between the two parties at the trial... things can get violent there with Max' short fuse.
KAREN, I agree--the "trastorno de sus facultades mentales" doesn't explain Roselena's malice, her hatred,or her clever and continued lying. Unless we're going to go all the way back to conception and just say shes "a bad seed". Sociopath works for me.
MARTA - I like your idea of "amor con amor se paga" leading Rodrigo to help Lorenzo with his "multa" problems and other ways of helping Luciana. He has a lot of growing up to do and behind the scenes generosity is one way to do it.
Not sure, but I though Ariche said he'd love to come live with them in the big house also, but he couldn't leave his mom. Whatever. Though, he clearly considers himself part of the family and likes thinking of himself as a second "tio" to the baby, along with the hapless Lorenzo.
Hope the day your way is as lovely as it is here. Blue skies, fluffy white clouds, low humidity. A miracle for central Ohio!
And a disagreement about Ofelia as well.
I recall someone else (maybe jlk) saying he (or she) didn't care for Ofelia. I just haven't quite got a handle on her yet. I do know, from reading stories of women who've had to leave their children behind in order to earn enough to educate them that in many ways it's a lose/lose proposition. The woman toils in a low-paying job, without the protection that a legal citizen would enjoy, and the child, feeling abandoned, does not appreciate the sacrifice (and it is one) that the mother makes, only resents her absence.
It's so sad that life is this way for so many. And those of us who were able to raise our children safely here, with free schooling through high school etc. need to always remember and be grateful for our enormous blessings.
VIVI--I'm somewhat conservative on the mental illness/crime debate. I believe in guilty while mentally ill. So I would want medical treatment while in prison but I would not want the latitude that many dangerous mentally disturbed patients have with open weekends etc. Twice in the last few years, parents and siblings in our area have been killed by these patients while they were on a home weekend. The fact that they often refuse to take their medication when "out" doesn't help.
However, in the case of Roselena, she seems to be operating rationally in spite of her mood swings. Her evil doings show planning, cunning and precision. I would definitely deem her rational enough to be judged culpable under any philosophy.
But please, never be afraid to express your opinion. We love to listen, sometimes disagree, and always chime in! That's what makes a blog line come alive.
Thanks again Judy and Happy Wednesday!!
Olive
I am slowly catching up on episodes as my husband is back home now, but I have to comment on last weeks wedding episode. When Hana & Pato were pacing his bedroom before the wedding... Pato rolling all around his room because he couldn't actually pace was the funniest thing I have ever seen on TV. HYSTERICAL...
Also, if Julie were assassinated, I wouldn't even flinch. For real...
Anyway, glad it "spoke" to you. I was afraid people might be offended by Noel Coward's quote as promoting violence against women...but that's just how we feel towards these three wicked ladies!
Pato's values are indeed more in line with Luci's. But sometimes when a couple is too much alike, they grow complacent and stagnant.
Rod and Luci's differences are enormous...but those differences, while causing problems also cause a spark. And if they end up together, they will both have to stre-e-e-e-tch to accept and understand (and perhaps embrace) the other's point of view.
A few years back, I worked with a very nice recapper who was an intellectual, calm, talented, laid-back guy. And he always loved the spit-fire (occasionally nasty in my opinion!) gal characters in the stories. And shared once that he loved his wife because she had that same fiery take-no-prisoners temperament. Whereas a previous girlfriend, calm and mild-mannered, was nice...but just didn't light his fire at all.
Soooo...maybe Pato, while flat-out wonderful, is simply too easy-going for Luci.
Just a thought. Feel free to argue the opposite point one and all.
Gala wants a boy because that would make him the prime inheritor of the business and all the wealth in her thinking. A girl baby wouldn't carry the same clout.
Great call on the humor of Pato zipping around in his chair while everyone else paced. I love your sense of humor.
As for Julie, she seems to be a total waste of oxygen. Too bad the lady reproduced. And Gala is the more dangerous version since both her ambition and IQ outstrip her mother's.
Loved your line about Pato getting stronger while Rod is being ground down. Well, he asked for it--Dumb DimRod. He threw away the diamond and ended up with a lump of coal. Now live with it you jerk. The question is how long will he take Gagme's abuse before he explodes?
Katie Lennon---Rosa's complaint about the tacos had me boiling too. She's still trying to make Luciana's life miserable--now through luci's family. What a bruja. Both Rosa and Max have to fall,---can't wait. Maybe in the end DimRod might just see what kind of parents he really has.
daisynjay---I was thinking the same thing last night. Maybe Claudio will set up Lorenzo and Fabian with a real store front business. That would be great.
the gringo
If Jana wasn't his sister, she'd be a great match. I love her spontaneous affection and lippy attitude. Someone like that, from outside the family, might really be the spark for him.
Gala sure is having fun tightening the noose on Rod. I too wonder how long it will be before he explodes. However, since the wicked witch is carrying his baby, he may manage to tamp down his fiery temper.
VIVI--even though we know (or hope!) that the macho attitudes shown in Eva are exaggerated, I don't think there are many women head of corporations in Mexico. Heck! there still aren't that many here.
reminds me so much of great forum discussions we had during the 09 transmission of Betty la Fea and the earlier this year rebroadcast of LHDM in early mornings.
Keep 'em comin!!
btw, on the first subject i agree that it is usually a lose-lose situation and in the latter, that is the key to the relationship. even with major differences in personality and values, if the respect or trust is lost, that's it. Better head different ways.
Ditto on Gala being smarter and more dangerous than Julie.
We have a long way to go, just like our friends in Latin America. The AVON case was so galling since it is "the company for women." You think all the male execs at AVON HQs around the world just yuck it up in the board room each time they say that tag line? AVON in the US is run by a woman though.
The pregnancy is all about competition for Gala anyway - eyes on the prize (whatever that is). They want the best situation for her children inheriting the most of the "Torreslanda Fortune".
Love Ofelia for Pato. Norma, Claudio's assistant, would be good too, but Ofelia being lower class would really stick it to Rosalena. Esp. if Jana dates Lorenzo too. HA.
Why didn't the boys call Aldo? I know he was busy scheming with Vicki on how to at least get something from her horrible situation with Max, but he is an investor in the business and has the means to pay the fine.
Kelly
And I'm not sure he actually has much money either. And don't know the size of the fine.
Hey! maybe it will all get sorted out tonight. For me, just a little over an hour to go.
However, the bike Aldo bought looked more like the old ones I used to ride, not those hunched over racing bikes. No idea what that would cost in Mexico.
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