Monday, September 10, 2012
Refugio Para el Amor #110 Mon 9/10/12 Vio’s Looking for a Sugar Daddy; Vicky’s Trying to Lose a Sugar Daddy, but Gains a Dangerous Enemy in Rosa; Luci and Rod Refuse to Board the Forgiveness Train
DimRod is still being conned by Gala, who is still pretending to be feverish and in pain as he brings her water to drink. He’ll stay a while to keep her company, but when he returns to work he wants her to call him at any time, for anything she might need. (Score for Gala, who just a few hours earlier was being told to quit bugging him at work and thrown out of his office.) Rod then carefully tucks her in. Gala’s starting to realize that playing the helpless damsel is WAY more effective than playing the harpy shrew. Who knew?!! She calls Fernanda to report she has just hit the jackpot in her plans to control Rod and keep him from dumping her bitchy self.
L: I’m not generous. I don’t want your children to suffer. There has already been enough suffering with mine and my father’s, don’t you think?
R: That is generosity, Luciana. And for that I have to be grateful to you. That’s all I wanted to say.
V: You might not care because you have a pool (alberca) FULL of money. But I do have to work to support myself. And anyway, YOU’VE been very busy with lots of work. It’s better that you stay at work, tranquilly, without worries. Adios, ciao, sayonara! (LOL, a nod to the actress’s half Japanese heritage.)
L: No Vio! Don’t say that! Love is beautiful. Even if at times it only lasts a short while.
V: Yeah. But it’s horrible to suffer. I’ve realized that I wasn’t born to love anyone.
Pato: She confided in you?
M: Yes. I was her confidant. I knew absolutely everything that was happening in her life. I knew her so well that she didn’t even have to tell me. I could guess (devinar) her thoughts; I knew what was happening to her. I still remember when she met your father—she came back to the house happy, with a huge smile on her face.
P: How I wish that my mama was the loving woman that you knew.
M: Mi niño, your mother’s problem is that she wants to be perfect—for you all. For this reason, she avoids appearing fragile/weak in front of you all. Because she wants to be your strength. But she’s a good woman. The affection between us is very special. I will always, come what may and no matter what she does, be at her side.
R: How long have you been unfaithful to me, asshole?!! How long?!!!
M: Don’t ask me what you don’t want to hear, Roselena.
R: Hypocrite! Jerk/asshole! (best meaning of maldito in this context) How long have you been sharing your life with a slut (golfa)? How long?!
M: It’s very easy to guess (adivinar) Roselena. Just since YOU decided to stop sharing your life with me.
M: I don’t know. The best way to find out is to tell them. Talk to them Roselena. Tell them I had to go looking for the arms of another woman, because my admirable wife has refused to be my mate since Hannah was born.
R: No Nana. Nothing excuses what she did. I know I’m no one to judge her, but I can’t see her with the same eyes (as I once did). Never again. For me, that mother who was good and selfless (abnegada) doesn’t exist anymore. Sorry Nana, but I can’t forgive her. I don’t ever want to return to the house.
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Violeta is going off the rails. I am afraid that Magda is going to really face major consequences for having kept the secret of Vio's dad all these years. There are some major anvils hovering there.
Vicky also has some giant anvils hanging over her head now, and they are called Max and Rosa.
What a wonderful recap with the all the great details.
I am in awe of of God. The restraint he showed while Rosa was doing her evil with Luci! I am afraid I would have struck her dead on the spot.
Vio really takes after her bio dad. She is in for a lot of pain in the coming episodes. Magda is going to be the one to suffer, poor thing.
Good for Luci and Rod, Rosa doesn't desserve their forgiveness and I think Mati belong on that list. She has been Rosa's willing accomplice all her life.
Hanna is always a delight. No wonder her mother doesn't like her after what Max said. I wonder how many amantes he has had over the years.
I don't look forward to Rosa and Julie taking care of the Luci problem.
Rosemary Primera
I am glad Luci and Rod haven't succumbed to her asking for forgiveness. She needs to earn it by demonstrating she is truly sorry (which she isn't...she just got caught in her lies).
What is in it for Mati to make peace among the maligned, suffering family? Por Dios, Dios mio!!!!
SFChicaBonita
And I also expected lightning to strike when Rosa was hissing her ? apology? It was the scariest apology I ever heard.
Well, it was God's house.
I think when Mati goes begging forgiveness for Rosa she is really asking forgiveness for herself. She knows she has been enabling Rosa all of her life and look how she has turned out. I bet before this is over, Rosa will turn on Mati as well.
RP
RP- Great theory about Mati really asking forgiveness for herself. In many ways, she sees Rosa as an extention of herself, so that makes sense.
Oh I loved your comment about Mati not being real. I don't think I've ever be pulling for a "good" person to be set down (or taken out) the way I want her to be. She keeps enabling this monster.
I am sorry to see Vio acting out like this. She wants to leave the Inferno and when given the opportunity to work for the best people she knows she turns it down?!! WHY?!!
RP I think you may be right about Mati being Rosa's grand protecter. Rosa would turn on her in a NY minute.
Vivi in DC Great recap as always. Many thanks.
SFChicaBonita/
Oh, Vio, what happened to her. She is so going down the wrong path. I was hoping she would buck up and see how great Polo is for her, but now, I am afraid what is going to happen to her.
Gagme is really pushing it. Rod will see through her little game sooner or later. At least he didn't cave and sleep with her. I think the only reason he is treating her better is for the health of the baby. She will try to get him to change I think, but I don't think Rod will cave, at least I hope he doesn't.
Poor Luci being in a room with Rosa, shuddering as I write this. What was wrong with Padre Honesto? He should NOT have left Luci alone with the wack job, especially since he knows all la loca did to her and Claudio!!!! I am glad Luci said what she did. Yay! She should never feel guilty either for telling Rosa she can't forgive her.Glad Luci passed her exams, I just knew she would.
I thought Conny was getting a clue about Melissa maybe having some feelings for Claudio. She kept staring at Melissa staring at Claudio, lol.
Yay, finally Vicky stands up for herself. I think Aldo and Vicky make a great pair. They are so funny together. I really hope that lasts. I just hope if she does meet Max tomorrow it isn't another drugging and handcuffing.
Rosa is finally getting what she deserves from Max. I am glad she found out Max is having an affair. Max is no saint either, I hope he gets what's coming to him too, but now what she thought was happening with Aurora, didn't happen, but now she knows Max is really having an affair. I hope she never finds out it is Vicky. Now I am really worried about Vicky, not from Max, but from la loca.
Love Valentina, I really hope she and Gabe just start hanging out with Luci. Gabe likes Luci anyways and I think if Valentina spent anytime with her, she would too.
At least Luci didn't forgive her.
Gala's game can't last long. She's going to slip up sometime soon. And how can Rod not know that his mancave is gone?
Hats off to Luci facing off Gagme and then La Loca. And i'm glad Claudio bucked her up and told her not to feel guilty for not granting instant forgiveness but to give it time.
Hilarious watching yet another uncomfortable meal involving any member of the TL family. Oscar was so clearly not happy with Claudio's presence and he picked up on Melissa's vibe just like everyone but Claudio has. Sooner or later he is going to find out and then he will let her down carefully.
I know that Val isn't as rotten as Fernanda and Gagme but I'm not sure i like her. She is weak and put up with being insulted and ordered around. I do however agree that she would probably like Luci but i don't see it happening.
So the Dumbass gives orders to obey Luci but not Claudio. I guess he is going to continue to hold a grudge until he somehow discovers the truth about Max.Not a very cool way to treat someone you hope with end up your father in law.
Oh so much enjoyed Max and Rosa's confrontation. What did she expect after the way she treats him and has apparently for almost 20 years. I'm not crazy about men and their piece on the side but if anyone deserves it is Max. However things do not bode well for the not too bright Vici and her co-conspirator.
Mati what more can be said for this doormat. Talk about a world class enabler! Her constant defense of the indefensible Rosa is getting old. Just as Rosa is obsessed with the Max/Aurora non affair, Mati is obsessed with trying to convince herself and everyone else that Rosa is a loving, kind, caring woman. Nothing she sees or hears ever changes her mind. I fear for her if and when the day comes when she has to confront the monster her nina is.
You are unique in your ability to catch every nuance of a capitulo. To say you are thorough is an understatement. What a wonderful recap you gave us today—gracias, amiga.
I love that Luci is not going to jump too quickly on the forgiveness bandwagon. Good work, L!
Thanks again Vivi for your vivid presentation of this episode.
Elna June
I have come to the conclusion that Rosa must be making some major donations to the good Padre's church, because he acts more and more like someone who is also under her "spell". Knowing what he knows, he just walks out of the office and leaves Luci there alone? Doesn't even ask her if she's ok with that? No, Rosa speaks, I obey. Stupido. But our girl held her own.
So Vi is going to ignore a possible sweet love that is right there in front of her and go for sugar daddy, all because of the Lemon Sucker? This is not good...but a total set up for when her real sugar daddy comes to town. (Boy that will be uncomfortable to watch.)
Tired of Gagme. Period. I zone out when she's on screen. Same old same old.
The look on Melissa's face when mom invited her and CL to join them was hysterical. All he is doing is being kind, and she's like a puppy dog looking at a dangling bone. That girl is in for a major fall ( I hope--do not like those two together.)
Now for the major aggravation of the evening---Mati. Seriously, why do I now have more tolerance for Lurch than I do her?? Yeah, she will always be at Rosa's side no matter what she does. Well, in the justice system they call that aiding and abetting, so be prepared as your little sweetheart goes further off the her rocker and will probably do something even more awful. Could not stomach those scenes last night. (But a Nod to Rod for not caving.)
As for her Looniness, had to love the way Max was so unfazed by her screeching and discovery. Don't like the guy, but she shows no affection to anyone, yet expects this love and loyalty in return. A supreme egoist for sure. Wonder if Max will want to go public with Vic--what will she do? And what will Rosa do if he does?
Violetta is an idiot.
Luci held her own against La Loca this time, but there will be many more rounds to come.
Mads- I think EVERYONE at this point can see what Melissa feels for CL, except him. He’s such a sweet man, but so clueless about this one thing. I don’t think he’ll ever have eyes for anyone but his beloved Aurora.
Urban- I was ticked off at Padre too. What was he thinking?
Decie Girl and Daisynjay- I am also very disappointed in Vio. But it seems that this character was meant to be a tragic figure from the start. Her look in the opening credits always reminded me of a pretty bird caught in a gilded cage. I hope she eventually has a happy ending, but the immediate future looks bleak. She’s got some hard lessons to learn, and so does Magda about keeping secrets. I’m not sure if it’s a complete 180 that she’s taking though. Magda has said many times that Vio was not content with a small town life and took herself to the city at a young age because of this. She wants the life of glamour of the big city, although that’s not what she found. I also don’t think she believes that she deserves a pure and true love like Polo’s and that’s why she gravitates towards bad choices like shady Marcial, and now the sugar daddy plan. This may come from deep feelings of abandonment by her unknown father. There’s much more story to mine there.
Yes, that dinner with foursome was hilarious. There was more being said with looks than with words, and Oscar did not let down he guard for one minute. I wonder if he thinks CL might be planning some payback at the TLs through wooing Melissa. Little does he know how clueless CL is about this young woman’s feelings for him.
EJ and Daisynjay- You know my love for these revelatory conversations and the subtleties the actors/characters bring to the scenes. It’s my weakness. Thanks for indulging me.
Daisynjay- Interesting idea about Max going public with Vicky. I don’t think he’d ever do it. He’s just as much about keeping the family unit together (even if it’s a complete sham) as Rosa is.
I agree with you all that Max is no saint, but damn! Almost 18 years with no sex, hugs, kisses or caresses from your spouse would drive most people bonkers. And he clearly still desires her, as he’s tried to put the moves on her in bed a few times. She’s lucky he doesn’t try the same caveman behavior on her that he does with Vicky, otherwise we’d have a story of spousal rape. Perhaps that’s why he does treat Vicky that way? She’s a stand-in for what he’d like to do to Rosa when she defies him.
Vivi, CL is truly clueless. Here you have a lovely young woman, hanging onto your every word and your don't wonder? Is he maybe not sure because of her age? Hmmmm
Olive
CL doesn't seem to see himself as a sexual creature anymore. That seems to have died with Aurora. And so he cannot fathom that someone else would see him as an object of desire. Add Melissa's age and beauty, and it becomes even more unfathomable to him.
We tend to focus on Max and his treatment of Vicki as if he always treated her cruelly but that did not happen until he felt she had betrayed him with Aldo. He was never going to leave Rosa but he wasn't into abuse.
It's too bad that Vi thinks she can find a sugar daddy in a dive instead of taking the job Luci is willing to give her and start moving in more well to do circles after all that is kind of how Vicki hooked up with Max. Vi just ins't thinking things thru. She is actually one of the few characters who has been written almost exactly as she was in the previous version. Jana and of people Julie are also running parallel at this point.
I find the comparison to the previous version fascinating, some things are the same, others are similar and some are completely different.
Did not know about the Vicki actress' Japanese heritage, but that explains her exotic good lucks. (Dang, you know everything, girl!)
Nearly screamed last night when Mati, in the midst of all her enabling-peace-at-any-price crap said "But she's a GOOD WOMAN." How in the hayride (thanks Marta) could you ever say that about Roselena knowing what's she's done. Absolutely wanted to hurl.
Also, surprised that Connie, normally so socially adept, made the lamentable faux pas of inviting Claudio and Melissa to their table. That didn't suit anybody. Melissa wanted to be alone with her mentor (and secret crush) and Oscar certainly wanted to be alone with Connie. Gal, we're deducting points from your Emotional Intelligence score right now.
And speaking of deductions, NO REFUGIO TONIGHT. You've got a soccer game and an hour and a half of Por Ella Soy Eva tonight.
I too was not buying into Padre's reasoning OR Mati's trying to convince Pato that his mother is GOOD...
Interesting revelations last night with Rosa and Max where he barked at her that he had had a lover(s?) since Jana was born... seems Jana was not a planned baby or Rosa only wanted to have boys for some reason... so since then she did not let Max touch her and that is (at least that is what he says) when their marriage started the roll down the hill...
I also don't buy into CL not even questioning Melissa's behavior... and yes that must have been an awkward dinner (Connie/Oscar with Melissa and CL, esp with Melissa drooling for CL without even disguising it... yikes!)
my tv schedule doesn't have Refugio tonight either... or Abismo for that matter... both are not back until Wed nite.
I really want Norma and Pato to meet and start interacting. the more i think about it the more i like them as a couple..
and ITA, what was that last night with Lula and her Rosa-ish attitude toward Luci's past as a 'chacha'?? Did you all see Jana's face when she said that? (like WHOA!! don't go there!)
Lula and Boris belong together. nuff said!
JudyB, i am flattered you guys loved that 'what in the hayride' phrase... lol.
then Rosa gives away Luci and starts struggling with her conscience ever since... then apparently Rosa gets pregnant again with Jana... i wonder if Jana reminded Rosa of Luci and that is why she does not seem to care for Jana as much as for the boys, and also seems to not trust Jana, as if Jana reminded her of Luci...
Also, i am getting a bit confused with the ages and tests around here. My understanding is Luci was testing for the equivalent of the high school... and Jana and Boris and Lula are currently in college. is that what everyone understands it?
Melissa is a few years older than Jana so it would make sense that she is finishing up her law degree.
Is Aldo supposed to be older than Melissa? how come he is not in school at all? i guess he is probably younger than Melissa, but did not pursue a career that takes long in school, he just wanted to work and has become a computer hacker.
As for Connie, perhaps she wanted to keep an eye on Melissa after she sensed her daughter was trying to have a romantic dinner with CL?
Marta- It's not suprising to me that Rosa stopped having relations with Max after Hannah. Hannah, after all, was concieved soon after Rosa started to believe Max and Aurora were lovers and after she had given baby Luci away. Perhaps having her own infant daughter soon after her greatest sin, and what she believed to be Max's great sin, contributed to her frigidity towards Max after the birth of their baby girl. It seems like Pato and Rod had a loving mother in their early childhood, but Hannah never had that. Poor girl.
This is not the first time Lula has shown her snobby nature. Remember when she first met Fab and Lor at Boris' party? It took a while for Hannah to forgive her for her behavior.
Hannah, Boris and Lula are in the final year of high school (colegio) and are around 17-18 years old. They are just a bit younger than Luci who is barely 19. Lorenzo is about the same age as Hannah/Boris/Lula, but didn't finish high school. Luci had already finished high school and as about to take the final exam when her dad died. That's why she never took it in Het Het. Remember, when our story started she was just 18.
In Paz's memory, Rod looked to be about 7-9 and Pato looked to be about 5-6, if not younger. They were very little boys running arounf the garden.
Melissa and Pato are about the same age. Both done with undergrad in college, but she pursued her higher degree, so she is just warpping that up. They are likely mid-20s. Aldo is younger than Melissa- early 20s, but did not finish university. Remeber he faked his grades early on, which is why Max and Connie said he needs to work instead. Rod is late 20s/early 30s.
so i have to fix ages for everyone about 4-5 years under my original assumption, except for Luci. yea now i remember Luci had just taken her test at Het Het when her dad died and she had to flee town to get away from Don Aquiles.
Like you, I am very afraid that Vio is extremely vulnerable to consorting with the dubious Don. What a mess that would be. I'm anxiously hoping there is only some harmless flirtation and nothing further. To build a father daughter relationship there can't be anything improper to overcome. Ack.
We are all so fortunate kyou are so generous with your time - gracias.
Diana
Marta, let me list out our young people by age group. My best guesses:
17-18: Hannah, Boris, Lula, Lorenzo
?: Fabian
19: Luci
19-23: Aldo, Vicky
23-26: Pato, Melissa, Violeta
?: Ofelia, Serena, Norma
27-33: Rod, Gala, Valentina, Marcos, Gabriel, Fernanda
Ealry 40s: Oscar
?: Frigida
Mid 40s-50s: Connie, Rosa, Julie, Max, Claudio, Magda, Paz, Don Aquiles, Estelita
60s: Matilde
Can't help thinking that at least three parents are going to be very disappointed in their children - Conny with Aldo's involvement with both Vicki and Infierno. And his manners are atrocious, Magda with Vi and the sugar daddy decision and poor Geronimo when he discovers Vicki's affair with Max. In all these cases the parents will be loving and supportive in contrast to Rosa who would have them loked up and on bread and water.
Someone mention Rod and the disappearing man cave but i don't think the work has ben done yet. Gagme wanted all that expensive imported marble and stuff but sooner or later the work will be done.
Someone also commented on Lula the Gagme in training with her behavior at Boris' party when Lor and Fb arrived but she also made some snooty comments to Jana about rod marrying a servant. She really is a little snob. I always laugh when these characters get on their high horse about the rich marrying servants as if they had married someone would two heads. i guess they don't know that back some years ago one of the Rockerfeller's married one of the household maids.
I've never understood class snobs, but they exist everywhere. And it is still a really big deal in Latin America, as is the race issue. The stories I could tell about my time in Ecuador!
Vida2- I'm inclined to agree with you that Rosa was always spoiled rotten. It's just that when she was a kid and teenager she could do less harm than she can now.
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