Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Refugio Para el Amor #115 Tue 9/18/12 "Every Man Is A Damn Fool For At Least Five Minutes Every Day; Wisdom Consists In Not Exceeding The Limit" (Elbert Hubbard)
- los ácaros = mites (part of Brigida's rant to herself after Roselena castigated her for not cleaning better
- una sotana = cassock
- poner mi granito de arena = do my little bit to help,( Magda's decision to let her home be the workshop for the women of the pueblo)
- un incondicional = a staunch friend (Pedro Campos with Max)
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Your description of Rod was spot on. I slapped my forhead and could not believe he was going down the jealousy path again. Seriously dude?! As I've said before, he should hope that Luci finds someone as wonderful as Pato to share her life with, if that's what she wants. He keeps whining about Gala, but he has not made one move to divorce her. At least when Luci got fed up with Rod she took action. Hasty, yes. But so much better than sitting around and whining about a situation you have the power to change.
I hope Connie moves out, but not to her beach house, which is in another town. Move in with Oscar, Connie! I likes how she and Rosa were wearing similar dresses with the same colors- black on white, and white on black. They both have such great style.
I also liked Luci's patterned sweater/bolero jacket.
Very glad that Luci didn't fall for Rosa's act for a minute.
What could Max be planning to solve the Vicky problem? Yikes! This cat, and mouse, and canary game that he, Aldo and Vicky are playing is funny. Poor Vicky is the one who will end up losing the most, I think.
Now, in terms of tonight's episode...I think Max gave Vicky a bad check, or something. Those crazy eyes dancing while burning the nail salon listings were not the eyes of a besotted lover! And add me to the "Rod is an idiot" brigade". I certainly don't feel sorry for him!
I swear, I will cry buckets if Gala manages to take Luci's baby from her. I'm too into this show, lol.
And glad you mentioned Luci's patterned bolero jacket. Thought it was very elegant and she looked smashing.
And I agree with you, Vicky is probably the one who will lose the most in this tri-partite game with Max and Aldo. Poor baby....she's endured a lot of abuse and still has nothing to show for it.
I too liked Luci's ensemble tonight - she was very elegant.
I hate where this story is going with Luci's baby. Gagme and the coven are just plain evil. I hate to think how she will treat the little girl that I just know she will have. But it will be another way to keep Rod under her control. As all dads, he will be smitten with his daughter.
Rosemary Primera
These are the kind of one-liners that, to me, are just pure brilliant concentrate.
Poor Rod, tripped up on his unreasonable jealousy again. I love how Luciana let him have it when he tried to imply she was wrong in her closeness to Pato. That Pato and Jana were the only ones who had treated her with TRUST and REPECT. Way to go Luciana - that really cut to the quick!
Poor Jana, how can she let such a boor manhandle her! I hope she dumps Boris immediately! If her father or brothers saw how Boris pushed her around or tried to physically restrain her, Boris would be taught a lesson pronto! Outrageous! I'm afraid for Jana if she lets Boris get away with such behavior.
The difference between the due dates of the two babies is small enough for Gala to attempt to give birth prematurely. Never a smart move. Whatever she tries to do about that will not come to anything good.
It's also not good for Luci to not want to know the gender of her child for all the potential plot developments that can come from that.
I don't think Gala would be above arranging for Luci to be kidnapped when she's in her eighth month and held somewhere until the baby is born. She will be told that the baby was born dead and released only if she is convinced. Gala will then make the baby disappear, as Roselena once did with Luci.
As much as we like Lorenzo as does Jana a relationship between them is a non starter until he finishes his education. Luci needs to sit him down and lay it on the line. Fab is trying but Lor has some of those same stubborn traits that his sister has.
Loved Luci's sleek look and her standing up to Rosa. The woman is having trouble believing the girl isn't some dumb peasant that she can intimidate. I also applaud her for giving Rod what for and reminding him why they are in the position they are. Bravo Luci!
Vi remains a major disappointment and there was no reason for her to keep mum about that pig. I'm pretty sure she knows that Luci and everyone else will be horrified with the truth. She is heading down the same stupid path Vicki took and for the same reason.
I'm sick of Julie and Gagme referring to Luci's baby as a bastard. Luci was married to Rod when the baby was conceived - ergo not a bastard. On the other hand Gala's was a one night revenge stand, poor thing with her for a mother and a father that won't ever really be able to love it.
Points to Conny for standing up to Rosa but please let her move out of the house. Rosa is such a soul and ego destroying witch who rains on everyone's parade. She needs to be left alone. I actually remember one novela where the rotten manipulative mother of the galan did up alone, out on the street selling lottery tickets with no access to her kids or grandkids. Here's hoping Rosa suffers the same fate.
Don't like that preview of Gagme calling Luci and saying if anything happens to her or her baby it will be her fault. She made the same threat to Rod. Is there a long staircase near by. Oh no wait she has to find out if Luci is having the coveted boy making her poor spawn useless in her scheme of things.
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There was an important moment in Betty La Fea, right after she's been thrown out of the Board meeting and the company, when Armando asks Betty why she turned him in to the Board. Betty answers, " the better question is
why you did what you did to me when you knew that I was INCONDiCIONAL for you." I have never heard the
word used in such a context again until tonight, and finally I understand what was really meant there.
Don Aquiles has long surpassed his 5 minutes. He is the definition of an old fool vis-a-vis Vio. I'll love it if Magda finds out through the banns (would never have even guessed that word). That's clever!
Max and Jana ... hmmm. Is it believable that he needs to uphold his image in her eyes or is it a simplistic plot device? I can't decide because to me it's almost believable. If it turns put to be the motivating factor for Max to clean up that relationship (either with Vicky or Rosalena, but probably with Vicky) then it says something important enough about his love for his children to make him worth redeeming by the end. Especially since love of family is a primary theme, as you point put, Judy. Max is the most complex character, I agree.
The scales are falling from Oscar's eyes, even by Aldo raising a hint of suspicion in him, as well as through the intelligences of CL.
Rod is reverting in a way, but moving forward too. He has the jealousy bug, really bad, still, but I like how they brushed up against each other and then Luci laughed a bit after he left and she shook her head. If only Rod would divorce Gala. He can't stand her and there is no love lost between the two, but regardless of that, I think Rod will love the baby Gala is having. He won't blame the baby for being conceived, not like he is blaming Gala for trapping him.
I too am worried about Luci's bebe. I hope Luci is far away when she gives birth. I am really not liking these bruja's plans. And I agree with Decie Girl too. Luci's bebe is certainly NOT a bastard. It was conceived while Luci and Rod the Bod were married. Gala just can't get over herself. She is like Rosa this way. If you are married to Gala she owns you lock, stock and barrel. It's all about possession and no love. No wonder her first husband divorced her.
Rosa, what can we say, will never get better, I am thinking. Same as Gala she owns everyone. No love, no trust, no heart. Cold and evil. I still think her biggest fear is being totally alone and I am really hoping, by the end of th is TN she ends up this way. No love from anyone and noone willing to stay with her.
I liked Vivi saying yesterday, she wanted to know what Mati was smokin'. I think she is still smokin' it lol. Conny doesn't have to take this abuse from Rosa, and I love the way she continues to stand up to her. I really love Conny's character. Full of love for her kids and Rosa's too. I think Rod should have gone to his Tia Conny for advice. She would have set him straight in a New York minute.
Vicky and Aldo, so Max knows they have cooked up this little scheme. I am still worried about Vicky. I really hope Max doesn't do something to her.
Boris needs to go. That's it. No other recourse for him. To delibrately sideswipe Lorenzo, that's too much. He needs to go.
Love how Pato and Luci interact about helping those women in Het Het and Magda giving her house for the meeting. Lovely people. Love how close Magda and Paz are. Now if only Magda would tell Vio about her Papa. The more Magda waits the worse it is going to be.
One of my favorites,j "But Rodrigo's punishment and penance is not to realize this, and to continue suffering the Calvary of married life with Gala."
"When Paz and Magda 'plot' it is to help others. When Gala and Julie plot, it is to do harm." So true!
Jeronimo knows about Campos??
I especially like that you put the literal as well as the figurative definitions for the vocabulary-
@VIVI....I'm sure the similarity of Connie and Rosa's dresses is no accident. We've seen how carefully outfits are chosen to symbolize a character's personality and outlook. Tonight, they were similar but different colors--showing that while together as sisters they have a completely different response to life and love.
ROSEMARY PRIMERA--You're right, Gala will have another anvil over Rod's head if she has a little girl. But at least I hope his affection can make up for her total lack of tenderness.
SARA--Can't claim credit for "circling the drain". It's what a doctor told the aging mother of one of my students when she was reluctant to get more medical help. That rough phrase motivated her and how! She lived for five more years as a result of that warning.
I agree with DECIE GIRL that our charming lad needs to finish his education before a love match with Jana actually seems reasonable. But time will tell.
Yikes! URBAN ANTHROPOLOGIST--you're scaring me with your possible scenarios. I agree though with whoever said you should be writing telenovelas yourself. You've got the potential plot points down pat.
CAROL--Thanks for those warm words and for bringing in the example of "incondicional" from Betty la Fea. I only saw a few episodes and had to look up "incondicional" myself to be sure I had the right translation. As for Max, I'm not sure how seriously he takes the threat of hurting Jana. But I can tell you that when a husband is unfaithful, the children often feel as if he were unfaithful to them as well. Infidelity is a hurt that goes very deep and very wide in a family....and takes a very long time to heal.
"hypocritical sterile and controlled image", "smitten barrio swain" and "calderon of hate and vengeance" were among my favorites.
As Audrey noted, Luci stood up to Rod about Pato with assertiveness and persuasiveness. Even Rod had to back down in the face of obvious reason.
Vivi, I also hope Connie moves out. It's a nice testament to Connie that Rosa has not totally decimated any sense of self esteem Connie might have had. Leave the viper's nest and feather your own.
Gala is becoming somewhat of a charicature. "Domestica" is all she can utter and venom is all she can spew. I absolutely refuse to believe Luci's baby is in any danger. I have to believe the forces of good (Pato, Hana, Paz, Magda, Claudio et al) will never let anything happen to Luci or her child. That would be unbearable.
Judy, thank you for bringing sun to a dreary day here. You constantly inspire...
Diana
EMARIE - Jeronimo was with the firm during the time that Pedro Campos worked there and also has access to the human resources file for that time, so he could confirm that Pedro and Max worked together, not Pedro and Claudio.
The contrast between Magda/Paz and Gala/Julie was emphasized by putting one scene right after the other.
The contrast between the love of the barrio folks for Luci's baby, and the hatred of Gala and Julie for same was emphasized as well by making them consecutive scenes. I really enjoy how the writers use contrasts to pound home the message!
Sometimes I just put the figurative definition in, but that's not always helpful. Thanks for noticing.
Reading your analysis, I felt myself wishing I really could embroider and create a masterpiece. Or bring together disparate elements into a beautiful quilt. Thanks for that warm praise.
This recap was exceptional Judy. Denoting each of the characters separately with such wonderful insights was truly inspired. I bow to you my friend.
I was not surprised, though disappointed, that Dumbass was back in force last night. I did rather enjoy Luce's little smile after she dismissed him from the office. She is on to him, knows how to deal with his outbursts, and that look of embarrassment now when he's put in his place by her is rather priceless.
I think his jealousy with Pato is because he knows how his brother truly feels, and being tied to Gagme he worries Luce could move on, and frankly, she should be able to. (Hate when the galan can be married, fooling around, whatever with someone else, and the heroine is supposed to just park herself and wait until he becomes available again.) So happy that Pato is going to work with the Het Het group, and that he and CL seem to have a mutual respect for each other. That's MY hero!!
I think the writer's are giving us the "history repeats itself" storyline, and I'm not thrilled. Watching Gagme with her car-grill teeth oozing venom about a poor baby is just disgusting. But it does harken thoughts of what Rosa must have been like and feeling about Aurora's child. I'm bracing myself for a plot line I know I won't like-anything to do with harming a baby or child just is not enjoyable in any way, shape or form to me.
Boris needs to go NOW!!! But I worry as he has gotten more possessive, and frankly out of control, what will he do if Janna refuses to have anything to do with him ( and she better make that decision immediately.) The way he grabbed her last night--nope, he's pond scum and she doesn't need that. I would say I wish Lorenzo would beat the crap out of him, but the poor guy would be the one to land in jail for it.
I really don't like having Don A on my TV screen so much. Make this plot line go away. And so help me, Connie changes her mind again to stay in that house of horrors, I'll screech. Do like that Oscar is putting the pieces of the puzzle together little by little. Won't be good for Max when he realizes how he's been duped.
And where does this insane hatred of Linares come from anyway? He was taken on as Linares junior partner, and then set him up as an embezzler (of his own money?) so that he could steal their successful company? And for this he hates him? Envy and greed I suppose, but so much for his supposedly chaste admiration of Aurora that he would do such a thing to her beloved husband. The same excessive greed that has him setting up a money laundering operation for some kind of other shady (get rich quick) business on the side that I assume Rosa knows nothing about.
ITA that the similar dresses with opposite color scheme was a great touch with Rosa and Connie, sort of like a piece of paper with the carbon copy behind it, with opposite patterns...
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Lorenzo: almost a goner literally, as Boris deliberately clips him and his taco bike with his car.
This is definitely the sweet innocent love couple in the show… I guess they will grow/mature together… but Boris needs to just go away… what else does this guy need to see the writing on the wall?
Pato: listens to Rodrigo's repetitive whining tonight about having to live with a woman he loathes, without once saying “I told you so” or “You brought this on yourself.”
I could not have said it better myself. Rodrigo might be a few years older in age, but Pato is decades more mature, gentle, sweet, generous, caring and emotionally stable than his old bro.
Luci: LOVED the end of the Rodrigo/Luciana scene where they shared a smile despite the fact that they were arguing the whole time and then she can’t help it but smile and blush when he left after brushing by her so close with the report. ‘Still in love’ indeed.
When Paz and Magda “plot” it is to help others. When Gala and Julie plot, it is to do harm. So true.
Our hunky galan, "He is still circling the drain." (perfection of a 1-liner!) …has a long way to go but he's beginning to see the importance of honesty and forthrightness.
Yeah, I saw it the same way, but he has to trust his own brother and Claudio and stop listening to people who have done nothing but destroy his life (and his vision of his future, as he told Pato a couple eps ago)
regarding the fear for the baby, i totally agree, the good guys, including Rod who swore to Luci to look after her and the baby back at Het Het will be able to do something. But i fear that Gala/Julie will try to either commit murder or make history repeat itself.
And about Max, Aldo and Vicky, i have a feeling Max would actually start a business for Vicky, only to turn it into another faccade for money laundering or some other illegal business that will keep Vicky tight on the leash for him. And Aldo will probably make matters worse rather than better.
Wonderful rant about the heroine's plight by the way..."and the heroine is just supposed to park herself and wait until he becomes available again." So true. And often in real life as well.
My other favorite was "Gagme with her car-grill teeth". The camera focus on those teeth and those bloody red lips was especially dramatic last night. I don't remember her having such an intimidating set of choppers in previous telenovelas, but the actress does always play evil with awesome energy.
AUDREY--Max's heart is very very flawed indeed. But I think his hatred of Claudio is understandable. They say we always hate those we have harmed. And the more we harm them, the more we hate them. Something about our narcissistic ability to justify ill-treatment...by convincing ourselves the hapless victim really deserves it. Also explains why abusers and torturers often feel no real guilt about what they inflict on others.
As for his insane greed, we have often seen evidence that the only thing Rosa values about him now is his wealth and power. When that is threatened, she's furious. So perhaps this is his way of trying to hang on to her (though God knows why he wants to!)
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And have to admit, I'm a sucker for sexual chemistry and when Rod brushed so close to Luci, and she reacted (and he smiled, delighted!) I totally enjoyed it. Yeah, he's still a stupid jealous dolt, but goshdarnit, those two are in love and that's always fun to see. Perhaps because that "in love" feeling is so transient and fragile in real life, it's all the more entrancing when it's portrayed like that.
JudyB---Loved your hearts scenarios. That was brilliant, a clever new idea for a SUPER recap.
Loved the line--When Paz and Magda plot, it's to help others. When Gala and Julie plot, it is to do harm. -- great insight
Daisynjay---Gagme with her car-grill teeth was a great line also.
the gringo
Max may be laundering money but for who? As a legitimate business man he has no need to, there are all kinds of legal ways to hide money. We also know that Lastra and Ivan are skimming money from Max which if he has shady partners could be dangerous for them (not that i care). Aldo now has two pieces of valuable information that he could use to get in Max's good graces but he chooses to continue to play the big shot with Vicki and the Barrio Boys. Aldo may be in for a very rude awakening and Conny will not be pleased.
Was thinking of Vi and Don A, one of the creepiest novela story lines ever and can't help thinking it would serve him right if she took him for every dime and never gave up the goods. He is a thief, a bully and treats women horribly. Turn around is fair play. I can never get passed his treatment of Luci and Paz, his contempt for everyone in the pueblo and poor Dona Lucha who will be devastated when she hears the "good News".
Yes it looks like Oscar is sensing he doesn't know a much as he thinks about Max. One more person who is going to be disillusioned. I can't help wondering if and when the kids will learn that their father is not the upright businessman they think.
The boys know about the infidelity and they kind of rolled with it. Jana may idolize her father but i have a feeling she too might give him a pass because she also recognizes how cold and unfeeling her mother is.
And I have to follow your best seller with my quickly remaindered opus.....tonight.
The comments have all been so insightful. I, too like "circling the drain," very appropriate in this case, and daisynjay for memorializing Gala's "car-grill teeth oozing venom about a poor baby..." ooh, too good to pass up.
Speaking of Gala, I spoke too soon, thinking she would not actually physically harm Luci's baby until I saw that monologue last night. She's capable of anything.
I think the writers want us to anticipate a repeat of the Aurora-Baby Luci story. Too bad. There are so many other ways to make the threats come to fruition, or even backfire on Gala. Mind you, this telenovela has been body-count free, I hope it doesn't start with infants.
Anon @ 9:50--Max's check to Vicky. I don't think it was bad. He'd be dirty enough to do that, but he'd be burning his own bridge to Vicky if he tried it. She did complain that it was only what she made in a month, or less, but she would start buying stuff with it (clearly believing he was going to provide the cash for her new nail salon). ITA that it wouldn't be beyond him to consider using it as another money laundering enterprise.
Anita
GRINGO....thanks, my friend, the writers love contrasts like that and so do we! And Daisynjay's description of Gala is perfect....I swear her teeth have grown since the last time I saw her in a tn.
Have no idea where the Violeta/don Aquiles rumble is going, but the fallout should be quite dramatic.
ANITA...what a nice compliment. Thank you. And I agree with your reply to Anon. that the check Max gave Vicky was probably for real, if very skimpy.
Now, shall we all start calling Gala Car-Grill? Makes a change from Gagme. I'm sure she could pull nails with those monster teeth.
I think Jessica Koch may be typecast. Gala to me is almost identical to Roberta from CME. She has been doing some spectacular nagging of Rod though. I must admit I enjoy that part. :)
What is fascinating to me about this TN is that I enjoy Luci but find her choice of one true love almost tragic. I think your meditation on love makes me the question the validity of Rod and Luci's beyond the physical. Rarely do we have heroines who cry and remain likable and the writers have done that here.
KAREN, thanks. And many others share your reaction to Rodrigo as a tragic choice for Luci. But how true to life this is! We often love people who are destined to break our hearts and wound us deeply. Yet it is in recovering from those wounds that we grow in compassion and wisdom. So if our destiny in this life is to learn and become better, than a tragic love choice is, perhaps, a gift....a painful gift but a gift nevertheless. A broken bone, when it heals, is stronger at the point of the break. And so it can be with our heart and our spirit.
Perhaps I'm an optimist but I'd like to think that after learning some life lessons about love our destinies would be kinder to us ;)
Ah Destiny! I would wish it were kinder but I suspect that Destiny is a tough taskmaster. If you pass one test, it sets you another even tougher. Rather like a hard-ass coach.
Speaking of, here's a happier end scenario: After Gala is put into prison for whatever horrible thing she's going to try to do and Vio (please god) comes to her senses, poor Juli (literally poor with no one to support her) is forced to marry Don Aquiles for his money and she has to spend the rest of her life in Het Het. It'd serve them both right!
Rodrigo needs to start looking for a bigger place, pronto. Something with two master bedrooms. And two living areas so he can get the heck away from his wife. Sadly, he's going way over his allotted 5 minutes.
Kelly
KELLY....I love your scenario of Julie ending up with don Aquiles in the spartan environs of San Francisco el Alto. Hard to decide who would suffer more. And she'd have to change from champagne to tequila!
Vivi...you always amaze me at how well you analyze the characters' actions--or lack thereof. Yes, he does seem oddly paralyzed when it comes to marriage...once he's there he seems to be stuck...not improving it and not leaving it either. The women are taking all the initiative here.
DECIE GIRL...hard to believe that we are ending by Thanksgiving, although this story has really moved along. It's been gratifying to see how they have Pato making really small steps--and with great effort. But a rush to find him a love interest worthy of him? hard to imagine. But maybe...
It is funny how even though the men sputter and posture according to macho traditions it is the women who seem to run things in this TN, I do love that.
Love Kelly's punishment for Julie (and for Achilles). It's a classic.
She'd have to drink Moscal whatever that is.
How wonderful! A character study of the morality play disguised as a recap. It's a wonderful idea and you presented it masterfully. Even though I harly get to see the show, I feel completely caught up, knowing where each character stands.
In summary,this is a splendid recap presented by a splendid recapper. My hat is off to you, dear JudyB.
EJ
ELNA JUNE...that is very high praise coming from you. Of course I plan to steal your idea of a series of proverbs sometime as well...I've collected a series on forgiveness and I'm sure that will come up. It was a great way to shape your recap.
By the way, I sent you an email about Melinama's correction of the recap format problem. Don't know if it will change how we pre-write our summaries or not. I tend to get confused on any computer details.
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