Friday, October 16, 2015
Yo No Creo En Los Hombres, #68 Thu 10-15-15: The One Where the Protag Shoots Herself in the Face and Blows Everyone Else's Life Up Right Along with Her Own
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Im so MAD at MD right now!!!! Tofie, I might have to set up camp at your table right now because I cannot understand WTF she's doing! How- HOW -does this help anyone?! She's exploding Julian's main professional support system (which means Hono's tambien), plus whatever romance might be blossoming for him knowing full well that she'll never be able to love him the way he loves her. She's breaking Max's heart, risking Clara's relationship with Leo, re-burning the already impossibily fragile bridge they were all trying to build with the Bustamantes. She almost gave her mom a heart attack either way, not to mention the ENTIRE FAMILY'S reputation. Plus her and Dori's business since she knows Ivana thinks she's pregnant too and will now think she lied to her. And the truth about Dan raping her is going to come into this too, otherwise she's going to completely exonerate him. And again, making it harder for real victims to tell their story by making them look like liars!! AUUGGGHHH!!! TO WHAT END?!!!! Ursula already said they're going to ask for a DNA test, so even if she thought they'd leave her alone in that first moment of panic when she blurted his name, it should be clear now that they'll demand proof.
I'm done. I'm just done with her. This is absolutely the dumbest, most selfish thing I've ever seen a protag do. Hands down.
“She’s lying.”
"Max shows incredible restraint"
"(reminding us all of how much Julian’s burgeoning success is due to the Bustamantes…)"
"Espy almost passes out"
The title of this TN is wrong and should be Yo no creo en las mujeres
Sorry, but I blurted out bitch when MD confirmed to the crowd Julian was the father. Thankfully as I stewed, Mr. tofie reminded me, while these characters can be real idiots they are not real.
That fool in love Max got a lot to learn yet. Max makes decisions with he and MD at the forefront and MD makes decisions with her baby's father top of mind.
Feel really bad for Julian, MD just shot his burgeoning business in the head but of course she didn't consider that and knows with a sit down, a little cry and an I'm sorry, Julian will roll over.
For someone who has a mother with a weak heart, MD and her ex bf are gonna kill the poor woman with these blind side revelations. I thought getting thrown out of her own house would do it.
I guess that MD thinks she's protecting Max, but she's really screwing herself in all this. Nothing will protect anyone from those reptiles and their pit bull (Jacinto). We can only hope that Julian tells the truth tonight. But will anyone believe it? And Jenny fell off the wagon big time. That may be a point of no return.
The evil ones are holding all the cards at the moment and it's too soon for them to be playing them against each other seriously.
Hosefa was running true to form. She was waiting for an opportunity to stab MD's rep again.
How did Rudolfo's killers get out of jail?
I have been more sympathetic to MD than many, but last night, she lost me. I echo your rant and Tofie's rant. ITA! Couldn't agree more.
I kept thinking, I need to HEAR from MD's own mouth why she is doing this. How does she think it's better to tell everyone and the Santibanez that the father of her baby is a poor, handicapped accountant, instead of a rich, powerful LAWYER, who could you know, actually protect her physically and legally from the Santibanez? And, oh yeah, happens to be her FIANCE!!!
We all know what Julian's answer will be, won't we? So many people will be hurt by her idiotic lie. If she just confessed in front of everyone about what happened, Claudio and Max would see to it that Daniel is in jail, the Sanitibanez plan would be found out, and they could all go on their merry way.
Ooh! I could just spit!
UA - That's just the thing, she's hurting Max. I can only guess this is what she's thinking:
"They want the baby because it's Dan's. If it's not Dan's, they won't want it. As much as it breaks my heart, it can't be Max's because we used protection. And even if it was Max's, that would probabaly just make Dan want to hurt me and the baby more. He'll go after Max or he'll actually kill me. And if he doesn't, the sister will. Or the mom. For "trapping" Max. If it were just a wedding, they might let me live, but babies are permanent. No, I need to tell them it's someone else, someone they don't care about, someone they'll believe...Julian."
Fine.
First reaction, fine. But afterwards? In the middle of his office warming party, where you're being reminded at every turn how much he depends on the Bustamantes right now? Where your mom is? Where your sister and her boyfriend, who just happens to be your fiancé's brother? Where his parents are? And even if you're still in shock and running on stupid right then, WHY AFTER MAX TELLS YOU HE SUSPECTS THE TRUTH?!!!! WTF?!!! So you're scared that he'll what? Fight for your rights as the baby's mother and a rape victim? He's already beat the stuffing out of Dan and almost went to jail, he's going to think twice about doing it again. What's more, this isn't the same type of chock. And most importantly: What do you gain?! NOTHING!!! YOU GAIN NOTHING!!!! IDIOT!!!!
I need to take a minute again.
Girl you had to fight the slim to get this recap
Thank you for recappin this horrid episode.
You know what? I've come to the conclusion
That this tn is basically about liars, liars and
More liars, and stupid people. I think I'll just
Watch this tn ro see how much more deeper Mdummy can sink herself deeper into the deep sh**pit that is her sorry life. Im sorry
For espy, clara, max, and poor julian. That's
What His father was seeing when he told the nurse "I have to see my son. He's in danger". He's Right, and Mdummy did it. Isela, its to late, you're already in the snakepit with the other Reptiles, and you dived in happily, you
Wrechet (woman). Iuse that term loosely.
Poor Esphy, poor Espy, poor Espy.:-( :-( :-(
She got the dumest daughter I've seen in tn
History. That I know of. If these people hurt
Julian becaues of that lie, she should just go
Dig a hole crawl in it and bury herself. Ok Ok.
Ari trying to hit on Alma was a hoot. (And Claudio had a nerve to look jealous.) Is Ari totally unaware of the reputation he now has, now that everyone knows he was Maleny's lover? Idiot. He also had a never getting all territorial with Doris (right after trying to seduce Alma), and getting on her about Orlando.
Max - always. He's a true galan's galan and he demonstrated that last night. He knows his girl, so he didn't bail when she first said Julia, but instead, correctly ealized that she was lying. And even now, knows to go to another source. Unfortunately, my bets are on Julian going with MD's story because he's never not backed her up in his life. The only thing that I wish Max had done differently, is taking Julian's story privately, without even MD. Hey, if she's going to lie like she did something wrong, he's going to get treated like a suspect.
Leo and Clara's scene. It was sweetand Clara showed forward thinking that was realistic and adorable. It really deepened the story to me because having her think about how much time she has with her mom, without relating it directly to her being ill, is just so realistic.
Isela's theory about Marta's imprisonment is interesting. I hadn't out much thought into how Josefa might have helped put Marta in a position to get arrested before, just in what role she might have played in her death. Isela's theory sounds plausible to me, but who did she steal from and why did it get her killed?
I admit to being an idiot. I wanted Max and MD together so bad I fell for an episode and a half of her smiling at him and confused that for caring. Good job writers. I'm headed over to my Max is a rebound/transition guy corner cause she is still hung up on her ex. Uncertain if she is treading that thin line between love and hate but whatever it is he dominates her life and she lets him. Look, I get she's a grown woman and her decision to make and if she wants to elope to Acapulco with Dan tonight ain't nobody's business, but she's disrespecting family and friends that love her and dragging them into a big black Danhole.
Who might replace Jacinto at Vera Duval, MD perhaps, and would she take the job now Dan's child is on the way?
Jenny is right on th eedge of that rabbit hole. I don't know how she gets through her life most days if she's on that thin a rope. Now, with MD's lie and being surrounding by alcohol, well...Good luck, Jenny. I just hope she doesn't embarrass herself in front of Adrian.
Also, why couldn't two young killers outrun a drunk, frail old man? That didn't make any sense. Yeah, they're definitely going after Julian. And when they stab him or throw him down stairs or beat him up or whatever, he's not going to have rich friends willing to foot the medical bills. Or even a jump. THANKS MARIA DOLORES.
Sorry. Got distracted from the good by the incredibly dumb. Um...I'm glad Doris admitted her feelings to Ari. Now, he can't say it was a shock or anything. It's too bad he's a jerk, because I'm starting to really dig the idea of a younger dude helping Alma get her groove back.
Tofie - oh I think she loves Max in so far as you can love someone without trusting them more than a smidge.
Dan is an open wound. It won't heal because she doesn't understand why he did it and why he won't leave her alone now. Maybe she wants to blame all of his crazy on his mother. And if that's the case, ok. But what did Julian every do to deserve this? Nada. As soon as the first "perdoname" spills out of her mouth, I'm going to have to throw the screen out the window. I HATE when the villains ruin every damn thing and then turn around with those damn "perdonames" like "I'm sorry I'm a volatile, lying, nut job. My bad. Cuddle?", so coming from a protag, it's more surprising, but just as annoying.
Ari really angered me last night too, he's a punk.
So how does Isela spin it to MD she filled the room in on the details of her morning visit to the doctor?
There probably was no way to make a good choice here that didn't carry major risks. She didn't give Max enough credit for learning that beating the crap out of Scuzzy Santibanez didn't do any good. To do so again would have landed him in prison for 10 years or more and Max knows this.
I like Isela's theory about Hosefa having made Marta steal. I hope that can be proven.
The only way Maria Dolores & her child can be truly happy with Max, Julian or anyone else is for her to save HERSELF. But she's not going to do that as long as she believes she deserves everything bad that's happened to her. And on some level, she is right ---a lot of her woes ARE her fault:
*the debacle with Ivana and the dress. Gerry told her to take special care of the fabric/dresss. She did not, she was careless & left it with Daniel.
*continuing to meet with Daniel, at night, alone, after everyone told her to stop dealing with Daniel (pre-rape)
*Not telling Max about the deals Daniel was trying to make regarding the house/business
*Not telling Max about the incident with Alma & Clara
*Not telling Max or Esperanza about the rape
*Not telling Max about the baby or the Santibanez kidnapping
She pinned the baby on Julian because she knows he'll be her fall back guy, no matter what. That's why Honoria doesn't like her because MD uses Julian for emotional support, knowing he wants more and knowing she can't give it to him.
And let me just say, I didn't like how Maria Dolores was holding hands with Julian in front of her fiance. The only hands Maria Dolores should be holding are Max. So even if Josefa hadn't blown up MD's spot, hand holding with Julian was a bad sign for Max & Maria Dolores.
Let's talk about Josefa. If Maria Dolores was thinking clearly, she'd ask herself how does JOSEFA know about my pregnancy when I just came from the doctor today? How do the Santibanez' know about my pregnancy? The only common denominator is ISELA. Stop trusting/confiding in Isela.
The one person who will figure out that ISELA is the key will be DORIS.
The only way Maria Dolores can save herself is with the truth. Until MD is willing to tell the truth, she will continue to get devoured by the Santibanez.
Rant over as I have not watched the episode yet but I did read the comments. They are delicious as usual!
The baby is the key to Ursula's plans of taking over Vera Duval. If she can manipulate Ivana into reconciling with Dan and adopting Maria Dolores' baby, she can kill Ivana and Vera Duval will pass to the baby...with Daniel (Ursula) controlling Vera Duval through the baby. Both Maria Dolores and Ivana must die in order for this to happen.
Maria Dolores' baby has no value to Ursula if Ivana wants nothing to do with it.
Even if she's skittish about telling other people the sordid details of her life, they're going to find out the most important facts if you take Dan to court.
Some people need a reality check. MD is one of those people. I want someone to sit her down and calmly tell her to look at the situation herself: How is naming Julian going to help? None of the Santis believe her (except for maybe Mal), so they're going to demand a DNA test. She knows this; they're not hiding that from her. Given these facts, what is her end game here? There isn't one. Because she's an idiot.
As for space, I feel bad for her because Max could take years of space and realize she's not good for him, but she's always be drowning in her problems and reaching up for him to pull her out.
I can forgive her the night before last night's convo with Max because she said she wanted to have the doc confirm a pregnancy before talking to him. But last night, he couldn't have been more understanding about the situation and she still chose to ruin everyone's life instead of just telling him.
Ugh! I want to slap her! I can't find a single reason that makes sense.
Spitting only reminds me of Jacinto, but if it makes you feel better, DO IT.
More later, if I don't gag on my coffee (and it's good Mexican coffee, too).
Somebody has to come to your conclusion who can convince both MD and Ivana.
Ok. I'm trying a different logic: Maybe MD feels like not only does she deserve everything that's happening to her, but she doesn't deserve Max. All she does is bring him problems and headaches. Maybe she sees that Dan and his family will never leave her alone and while she kows Max will fight to the death for her, she just thinks he doesn't deserve that headache. Nor does he deserve having to raise another man's child as his own, espcially Dan's. So she's going to tell him the one thing that might make him doubt her: that the baby's Julian's. Then he'll go away and she'll be alone like she deserves. Dan will go away because she won't have anything he wants anymore. Julian will forgive her because he always does. And that's as far as her thinking process went.
She didn't think about her mom, Clara, Leo, Hon, Julian, and certainly not Jenny. In this one act, she's been so unbelievably selfish that it blows my mind. There were a numebr of other options:
Tell Max and Claudio and get this taken care of.
Wear a wire.
Get a restraining order for all of them.
What's that? All legal avenues seems corrupt and overwhelming and ineffective?
Leave town. Seriously, leave town. Ah, but the who would protect your sister and mom? Sweets, you do a crappy job of that anyway. You'd be helping them by leaving right now.
Nina--I like your name for MD. MDummy indeed.
I'm going to join Hellashelle around her polished chrome, one-of-a-kind, YNCELH monogrammed, desk-sized spittoon. (It sits on a foam replaceable pad, in case we miss.)
Speaking of which: Waiter! Bring us another round! (Don't worry, y'all. We can stick to mocktails in Jenny's honor.)
We don't know the amount of the payout or what Ursula did with it when she got it. Arango looks like he knows how to invest money or run a business, but we never hear any details about either of those things. There are two expensive properties to maintain and two spoiled and immature lavish spenders who have never learned any sense of responsibility. The former could have originally belonged to or was built up by Hector; the latter is all on her.
In the flashback leading up to Hector's death Ursula was probably calling his bluff about committing suicide rather than be poor again. However, she can't forget where she came from, which is why she's such a snob about whom she thinks she is.
Romy
Oh my gosh. Thank you for great recap. I totally understand how disgusted you were to have to hold off a bit on recap.
I was so so mad too. I was calling her estpuida y babosa. All the many good reasons for being furious at MD have been shared by many. I can feel everybodys anger because I feel it big time. Vivi didn't like what MD did, but she remains a little more calmer and voice of reason. Even though most have stated all the harm MD she caused every single she supposedly cares about.....pls allow me to vent. I need to, cause I am still very upset even if it is a tn. I am seriously not ever ever gonna like MD again.
The nerve, the big effing nerve to just falsely say that Julian is baby daddy. She had'nt even discussed with him or ask his permission to do so. Just cause she panicked is NO excuse for implicating an honest person and causing him go against his ethics by lying on que. i am
Pretty sure he will back her up, and she knew it too. She is no friend to Julian!! I hope Hon
Slaps her silly. She lied because of Santibanez's in vain and no good readon because they know she is lying, didnt even phase them. But
Aside from it costing Julian his business, jeopardized he and Honorias livelihood, a good potential love match with Jenny, possibly killing her mom, causing problems between Clara and Leo, hurting and humiliating Max..... What Made me sick is that Max is so hurt that Julian betrayed him. They were close and there was mutual trust and respect between the two and she ruined it!!!! Horrible horrible things are to come to Julian and suffering to her
Mom and sister. She is STUPID and SELFiSH. Plus she had drug her
Feet in pressing rape charged, waiting for excuse not to press charges and now in her stupid mind she has valud excuse not to press charhes to protect her bebe's father. How dare she!!!!! I bet Doris will not hold back and I will mot blame Honoria if whups her ass. Her innocent face has caused endless suffering to Julian. Juluan and Max are too good for her.
Thank you for listening to me, just needed to get it out. Tofie, Hellashelle Cathyx, Nina and whoever else is upset, lets try to remain calm tonight. I promise I will notever sympathize with her again. UA, no writers are not portraying that women need protector, they
are showing us that MD has holes in her head.
MD cant take care of herself but she needs a brain, not a man.
Ava
"Her innocent face has caused endless suffering"
"MD has holes in her head"
Perhaps MD doesn't believe she deserves a man like Max but I don't think that is the reason she lies and disrespects him. She does it because she isn't in love with Max nor ready to be in a relationship with him or anyone. Last night at least she had the guts to say the wedding is off. Max has been full press after her, though not disrespectful or aggressive, and she just kinda went along. Had Max not been an attorney with no ostensible reason to show up and protect her she wouldn't give him much notice. Not saying she purposefully uses him for his legal work but if he offers....well. She's still hung up on Daniel and so is Ivana though Ivana seems a little farther along in the detox process but I recall a comment of Ursula's when she told Daniel if he impregnates MD he'll effectively own both women. When he says jump they will ask how high on the way up.
Ava
Even so, regardless of if she thinks she's the weakest link, she needs to realize that good couple, even from different worlds, are suppose to work the same way she thinks her parents did: as a team. Even if Max is the stronger player, she has to learn that they're in the problems, even if they're all from her, TOGETHER. But I think she's always felt guilty about her role with Max and her role as the eldest child after Rudulfo died. She recognizes that she does a crappy job as a caretaker and now she's determined to do this on her own.
If she wasn't setting fire to all the land on her way down, I wouldn't hate her for doing this.
I can see it now in 25 years, Dan Jr sitting on the couch picking at his toes as MD messes with his hair.
My future vision was the child that would turn out just like Dan.
Or you come home, and it's the middle of the day so it's bright outside and even so and they've somehow found your brandnew bag of peanut M&Ms! And they're rustling and nibbling and they don't even realize something's wrong until you slam the door and stomp on the floor.
MD needs someone to slam a door. With her inside the room. And they need to keep her there and confront her with her actions.
...damn mice...
Novela justice -- unless all the rules get broken -- dictates that Scuzzy Santibanez will suffer a dire fate. No need to worry about what influence he might have on a child.
If it's a girl, I don't see her plotting revenge against Dan for 20 years either. Though the years can be cruel. Who knows: maybe Josefa hates MD so much because she use to be just like her...
Im pissed, still no excuse. I try never to mess up peoples names. Again I apologize.
I was on the edge of my seat reading your recap and re-read it again. Superb!!
I just loved all the comments and 100% all agree and are furious with MD.
Hope tonite gives us better news.
Ann-NYC
Was it 130 or 140 or neither? I hope tonite is better too Ann-NYC.
But it wont.
It wasn't, was it!
They should have labeled MDummy the Antagonista.
I know this sounds cruel, but why doesn't she just have that baby, give it to Ursula and be done with it. Knowing that baby, innocent as it is, is a product of rape makes a difference in how she bonds with it, whether she knows it, like it or not. In the meantime, she could have followed through with the rape charge, put Daniel in jail for a long time (maybe) and started over with Max. (Yeah, I know, there are a lot of flaws in that solution, but in the cold light of day it might work.)
I completely forgot about how MD now ruined Clara and Leo. They were my favorite and most cute young couple that unfortunately was dragged into the whole MD fiasco . I hope Clara starts hating on MD for destroying her future and Honoria should explode at MD without restraints.
Ann-NYC
MD has not been my favorite but I do feel like the writers tossed her under the bus for plot purposes. I find it hard to believe that after all she's been through with Max that she wouldn't be honest with him, if not with everyone else.
But I do believe that MD has the capacity to love a baby conceived in rape. She does see this baby as hers and has erased Dan out. God willing, the baby will look nothing like Dan.
What does MD hope to accomplish by looking Max in the eye before returning the ring. Did she mean right away? I think she should hold onto for awhile, THEN take it back when Max is in the office. (The wimpy way out would be to send it back with Doris or send it over by messenger. Guess what, I'm a wimp.)
When characters personalities and motivations are so thoroughly dissected and interpreted by the Caray community, night after night for months, I wonder if the writers and production crews put this much time and effort into the creation of the characters.
Whether they have or not, they all seem to have been fairly wide awake when they took Psych 101, Soc 101, Literature (storytelling and script writing) and Home Ec (the international cuisine version).
This seems so clear to me as I re-read the recaps and comments for Un Refugio Para el Amor (a civilized psychological thriller) and now as I follow YoNo (a much less civilized psychological thriller).
I know she has to protect her child but you
Do not destroy other peoples lives to do it.
Or give yo momma a heart attack. Stupid!!!
And jenny almost fell off the wagon, thank God she was strong enough to with stand
That storm. All this lady has succeeded in doing is making her problem bigger. Max's
Heart is in shreds, and she's feelin justified.
And those reptilian parasites that threaten to take her child away from her, they're going to continue to make her life and the lives she care about a living hell. So she really hasn't solved anything, she's just made a real bad situation worse. And the one that could have helped her she has destroyed him. maybe I should be feeling sorry for this woman and maybe a part of me does, but I've been watching her and time and time again she has walked head on into the slime pit that is her life. I guess in her mind the choices she made to Try and fix things, would work in her favor, No. And what did she get for that kind of thinking: she got raped, she got kidnapped, she got threatened her child was Threatened, and now she's looking like the town slut and liar. Sucks to be Mdummy.
Nina you cut right to it. I didn't see anyone other than Leo even try to console Max. MD ran to Julian, Julian called after Jenny. One thing is certain MD doesn't love Max, doesn't mean she cares for Dan but she doesn't love Max.
So while I can see MD doing this, I have to say this is the first time I've so strongly felt that the motivation for doing so was lacking. She gave us some insight into the "why" of it all last night, but it wasn't anything we didn't already know. I felt like the producers should've given us more cute scenes between MD and Max to seel the love story, but I feel even more strongly that they should've given us an even more menacing scene at the Santibanez to sell us on this turning point. A one-on-one between her and Dan or her and Ursula, a voiceover scene of her in the cab on the way to Julian's party, SOMETHING to sell me on her fear taking her this far.
That being said, I think I get what they're trying to show: I think MD's inability to let Dan go is because he has become an almost all-powerful being in her mind. She actually thinks there's nothing he can't get away with. her experiences could all add up to this, but they should be emphaszing them more. After her experience with the cops, she doesn't think they'll actually be helpful or effective. As close as Max came to being in jail for years, she knows his career and possibly sanity could be on the line if the stakes are raised to "Baby Involved" levels. After all of the legal trouble she's run into since meeting Dan, she knows how powerful the "his word against yours" argument can be. I can almost get it...but I still think she's an idiot and her decision was dumb and wrong.
MDummy has completely humiliated herself against the Reptillians because like I said earlier she cannot lie. Anyone can lie but to make a lie believable it takes a mastermind . Now MDummy looks like the town's slut. Now no one will believe her rape story much less about her burning store. Even her Jacinto story about the attempted rape will get nulled.
Just because I think Max is a good guy and want MD to be with him doesn't mean she loves him like I want her too and it is not a crime. I've had this nagging problem from the beginning that she is just not into Max that much. Max is completely in love with her for sure but I fault him a bit for being too insistent too soon and assuming as I did that if she hated Dan she would love Max. The two aren't connected. If I stop being mad at her for not loving Max enough it takes away the sting.
(Tofie and CountX - YES.)
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