Thursday, January 27, 2011
La Fea Más Bella #187-188 1/27/11 Ain’t no filler like event filler.
Read Julie’s original recap, then come back here to discuss it.
1. The bellas are all fluttering around Aldo, but he tells them he prefers to be with Lety. He says being with her makes him very content, but he realizes that she’s trying to recover from Fernando. (Tu servidor recapper asks, then why does he crowd her, trying to kiss her again?)
2. Aldo says she’s very special to him, and that makes her glow. Aldo goes through a list of all the things that make Lety special to him, and he ends with, “You and I are here, and there’s a special magic.” Caro snaps their picture, mid-hug. As they leave, Aldo says to himself, “Mi Lety.”
3. Omar essentially reminds Fernando that every option is doomed. He suggests maybe Lety never really loved him, and Fern tries to hit him. Fern says he’s starting to accept reality (IOW give up) about Lety. He had to hit bottom. He went to Acapulco to kill himself. But Marcia made him see things differently. She still loves him and she doesn’t want to forget about him, despite everything.
4. Fern says Marcia told him to pack up his things, but he couldn’t. Marcia evaluates the situation with MamaT. Fern feels betrayed, but Marcia doesn’t know what will happen when Lety returns.
5. The Conceptos lawyer calls Fern and tells him they need to get Lety into a meeting. It would be better to reach a settlement than to prosecute.
6. Tom tells MamaJ that he had to tell the HaHA’s the truth behind the embargo, and they were pretty mad. MamaJ tells Tom that Fern called, and she’s not about to let him destroy her daughter nor talk to her husband about what Lety did.
7. Aldo has to talk to Caro so he doesn’t explode. He says he’s falling in love with Lety, but he knows if he tells her, she’ll take off running.
Capitulo 188.
Read Chapel Hill Fiddler’s original recap, then come back here to discuss it.
1. Omar says, “Don’t tell me you still have compassion for Lety.” Fern says, “No. I hope she’s out of my life, and marries someone and goes far away.” (Tu servidor recapper says, “Careful what you wish for.”) He calls Julieta and asks to speak to Erasmo, then tries to spit out that Lety needs to return so things don’t get complicated. MamaJ orders him to respect her house. She hangs up and unplugs the phones.
2. Lety tells Anaís that Conceptos was killing her, but here she’s recovering, thanks to Aldo.
3. Marcia discovers that Fernando didn’t take the suitcase. She calls and Fern says he didn’t have time. She tells him to come and haul it off.
4. Fern sees Lety on TV but he thinks he’s imagining it. Lu sings “Life after you is sadness, etc.” and “I can’t live without you.” Lety, Marcia, and Fernando cry over the song, even though Fern’s not watching the pageant. Alicia wonders why Marcia’s not finding fault with all the contestants like they did last year.
5. Fernando gives up. He tells himself, “Enough! I can’t go on deceiving myself. Lety’s not going to return because she doesn’t love me. Because I lost her and it was my own fault. My huge stupidity. I lost Lety forever.” He pulls up to a bar to numb the pain, but remembering last night, he drives away.
6. When the pageant finishes, Lety says she wants to go say good-bye to Acapulco and the ocean. Aldo promises to make it an unforgettable night.
Labels: fea-2010
Julie, are you SURE you can't post your idea about being open???
Be sure to read the comments with Old Recap 187. Some very interesting conversation!
As for you Camil fans, he just posted his latest Ego (hair care) commercial. I REALLY like that commercial series. He talks REALLY fast in this one, but it's the quintessential Camil, just bursting. Here's the clip. On a related note, yesterday he posted a funny video with him and singer Noel Schajris. Here is a picture of the two of them that I cobbled together. What do you think of the resemblance?
Am I the only one who really likes Aldo? I don't want Lety to end up with him but I am enjoying their time together. I know, I know I'm just an old hippie myself but the sea water in the plastic cup, the advise to choose between love and fear all makes sense to me. (Heck, I just spent an afternoon watching Harold and Maud.)
I like the parallels (think I've mentioned that before -- like a hundred times.) Aldo looking after her departing form and smiling to himself "Mi Lety" just like Fernando. The kiss in the waves so reminiscent of the wonderful dream kiss in the Cuernavaca pool.
Speaking of which, I really miss that twice a day dose of super romance every day with the closing credits. That kiss is my personal favorite of all time. Too bad it's been replaced by those German scenes.
Güera from (fading fast) Syracuse
Okay. The "open" thing Paula mentioned - my thought was, if you die and are reborn, you're a baby. You don't learn anything during the rebirth itself, but you're now open to learning everything.
Various people tried to tell or teach or show Old Fernando things that he needed to know, but none of it seemed to stick. Even when it became obvious that he needed to change the way he thought and acted, he wouldn't do it.
Let's see if Baby Fern is a little more open to learning and making adjustments. (And remember, you've got to crawl before you can walk.)
I'l bet most of us have had at least one relationship which blossomed in two or three days -- especially if it's accompanied by something as dramatic as being saved from drowning.
Güera
The bonds that you form with someone when you're trying to rebuild your psyche don't seem to be the same as the kinds of bonds you form with someone when you're whole. Or maybe it's that you always end up associating the rebound guy with the lousy way you felt when you first met. But whatever it is, the odds just aren't good.
I can't fault Aldo for his optimism, because some rebound relationships actually do turn into something that's real and lasting. But unless Aldo just fell off the turnip truck, he should know quite well what it means to be the Rebound Guy, so it's puzzling that he would expect much from this relationship so soon.
Which leads me to conclude, just now in 2011, that he's wearing Rebound Goggles (TM) too. Sure, his wife died a couple of years ago, but he's spent all this time hibernating instead of healing. Amazingly, he is actually on the same timetable as Lety.
So... if two people are rebounding together, does this doubly doom their chances of a long-term relationship? Or does the shared experience improve their odds? It would certainly seem to up the ante, at any rate.
Guera, I don't mind Aldo. I don't love him but I don't loathe him either. In response to Julie's question, I don't think their both being rebound buddies is necessarily a good thing. It's not the kind of tie the binds long term. But in the short term, why the heck not?
More later. Sorry to be a bit absent, I am just super busy these days.
I like the Camil links, thanks.
Julie, I really like your idea that the big change in Fernando is that now he will be open to change. The hard seed shell has to crack first, to let in the water, etc. The growth comes afterwards.
Guera, can you please post the URL of the page where you couldn't find yesterday's recap? There are so many ways to access this page, and the two ways I tried worked. If I can have the URL you use, I can check that in the future.
Aldo is the water boy. All his significant conversations happen near water. I found it interesting yesterday that Lety kissed Aldo in the ocean, but when they came up on land, she kissed Fernando (in her fantasy). Remember, Mexico City is landlocked!
Guerra, I like the parallels too. What I like even more is the crab canons (that's a figure in music that turns back on itself; Bach did them a lot).
* She punishes him for not loving her, but he suffers because he does love her.
* Fernando's betrayal seems like the worst event in Lety's life, but she never would have won his love, were it not for the false romance betrayal.
There are more, but I can't talk about them yet.
I still don't think Fernando has hit rock bottom. He's thinking of using Marcia as the fallback guy. His thinking, his decision-making are all still based on childish behavior and a self-centered attitude. I think his rock bottom - the true one - will be when he sees, in person, Lety with Aldo. When he is able to see the peace in her because of her relationship with Aldo as opposed to the turmoil she had in her relationship with him, Fernando will have had the stuffing knocked out of him and he will hit rock bottom. When he is able to walk away and let Lety be happy with Aldo, we will know he has broken through and tramped down that huge selfish streak in him and he is on his way back up to maturity and a love that will endure and fight for his soulmate.
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Güera
My thoughts on Aldo- he makes Lety happy for now. I think he's exactly what the doctor ordered for her in the moment. She needs to heal from the major heartbreak that Fern caused.
I honestly think that if Lety and Fern tried to have a relationship at this very moment - it would FAIL miserably simply because they are both not whole people yet (esp. Fern). He has a lot of maturing and growing up to do...I also think Lety has a lot more healing left to do on her own before she's truly ready to give her heart to another like she did with Fern. She's much further along with her healing than both Fern (and quite possibly Aldo, but that remains to be seen).
Here's the link I normally use to find the recaps Paula H (I also had problems finding it yesterday): http://www.delicious.com/caray/Fea
I am weeks behind, but wanted to tell you all how much I enjoy all conversations, analysis,pictures, everything.
Paula, you have so much insight, that I didn't see first time around.
I also understand more spanish than I did then.
Thank you!
dpd
I always try to post the summary by 3 Eastern. If you don't see the new one by 4 Eastern, somebody please post a note on the previous day's recap. One post is sufficient. In Caray blog culture, it's normally unacceptable to rush a recapper about posting a recap, so please never do it for any other show. But the Fea board is different, and if you don't see the post by 4 Eastern, it's most likely that there was a problem in the system and I want to know about it. As I said, one post is sufficient.
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