Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Refugio Para el Amor #139 Tue 10/23/12 All Great Stories Begin With A Journey....
Hell is paved with good intentions
This phrase is attributed to Samuel Johnson.
To have good intentions is just not good enough... One needs to convert them into deeds. This is said to reprove the person who makes promises but is not punctilious about keeping them. (Rodrigo, are you listening? Ditto for you Aldo)
Truth is time’s daughter
Things may be confused and what exactly “happened” may be unclear. But the truth will come out in time. (And let's hope so. Gala and Roselena, are you listening?)
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That Girl Lula / Lola IS A HOT MESSSS!
I see her being the behind the scenes instigating the hash that that Stupida of Boris has with Lorenzo.
Oh Me Oh My!!!
I thinks it's borderline torture having the baby in so many scenes and crying 90% of the time.
And what about that RICKETTY RICKETTY box of a stroller Matteo is subjected to. The Chicken Coup wire as headboard worries me. And the thought that the top heavy contraption could topple at any moment has me scringing with anxiety as it definitely looks Unbalanced
Does Gala own the magazine she works on? Even if she does it's a bit presumptuous to think that the public is interested in her marriage and private life vs that of political wives, actresses, models, or musicians.
Whom we never see her hang with.
Poor little Mateo does looked scared of Chelo. Perhaps it's the shaggy beard?
So love Conny and Oscar, and I don't think they will ever break up. Roselena is so WRONG about this one. Conny and Oscar were made for each other, all the love and joy they have is wonderful to see.
Love the girls Vio, Serena and Velia opening the car wash and having Padre Honesto coming to bless the bidness, that was wonderful. Couldn't stand that Boris showed up. I wish he an Lulu would just go away already. Glad Polo and Fabian had Lorenzo's back.
Gagme is so full of herself. Like taking those pics, with the Champagne Queen in the back ground will make any difference in how Rod feels. He will never love her although I love how unconditionally he loves his daughter. I hope they keep the name of Alexia. It is very pretty.
Poor Luci she does look all done in, but little by little she will get her backbone back, especially after those advances. It looks like she is finally getting it back.
As far as Rod's journey, I think he is at sixes and sevens. So much has happened in such a short period of time, I don't think he is dealing with things well at all. He can't seem to decide what he should do. He still can't stand Gagme, loves Alexia, and does love little Roddy, but I notice he isn't actively looking for his son. All the P.I.'s they have hired haven't found a thing, and I think Luci has a good idea to look for herself.
I can't beleive Gagme or Champagne Queen won't pick up Alexia but Carolla, the partying friend does. I wonder if Carolla has any kids, they never said. She is really good with Alexia.
So now we know a bit more about Don Chelo, but not why he started drinking. It looks like he came from a good family, and if he only knew what he said was so true about Mateo being stolen from his mother's arms. How prophetic!
Pato continues to be so strong and I love that about him. He is such a good support to Luci, I wish Rod would get a clue about that. Maybe down the road.
Loved Conny and Oscar. What a perfectly realized relationship and the only one going. Poor Melissa not getting much support from Luci when she confesses her feelings for Claudio. Luci may be right that it is the lack of a father figure but maybe not. Still the chances of Claudio and Melissa getting together looks slim, at least at this point in time. Now if we get a time jump who knows.
What nina? Are we surprised? Gala apparently never even had a name in mind. Talk about the contrast between two mothers.
I howled with laughter with Max's frustrated scream after his latest call to Vicki. She is really turning the screws but it looks like in those previews his house of cards is about to come tumbling down. He's had to share his business with an enemy, his grandson is lost, his mistress is out of his control and his lunatic wife is treading ever close to madness.
How will Claudio react when he becomes Privy to this bit of news?????
WOW!!!
I loved the TRES CURVAS Uniforms how exciting that they are owners of their own Bisness!!!! Yeah!!!
Violeta is truly as GANGSTA as her mom Magda ~ did you see her wide legged STANCE when the ran Crazy Boris off te lot! Magda's very own Daughter indeed!
Loved that Polo was there and also when Fabio stepped in betwix Lor & Boris when the toss up ensued!!!!
I can't 'feel' Rod and Luci anymore. Your summary of Rod, and all of them, is spot on. But Rod especially is a disappointment. Eventually, since he's the galan, I'm expected to forgive him all his weakness and wavering and buy into el amor verdadero between Rod and Luci, but what can he do after all he hasn't done to show the kind of character that will raise him again in this viewer's eyes. It's like HE'S forgotten Luci, he wavers so much. And since when is work more important than mounting a search for your missing baby, ummm, Rod and Claudio and Max. Even Pato is MIA when it comes to the bebe. But that's the writing now. When Melissa, all sparkly eyed, was saying to Luci, 'you know about amor verdadero,' and Luci repeats the phrase in this rueful voice, well that's about where the magnetism between those two former lovers is now. I guess Rod is kinda dead to me and he may never resusitate. I loved the previews when Luci goes all gutteral-Tina-Turner about the bebe she's lost ... well you go Mama 'cause no he-man in your life is gonna do it for you.
And on a lighter, style note ... I noticed yesterday that Rod, Aldo AND Oscar all had the scruffy shadow, almost a beard that seems to be the manly trend. I don't really love it on Rod but it's too much when the three of them show up all shadowed. Must have been a new stylist on the set.
You can't really blame Luci for her reaction to Melissa's announcement (although one wonders how she didn't see it herself), after all, if this played out Melissa would be her stepmother.
Carol-or the barber has been out on sick leave...LOL
And now, after reading this beautiful recap I must make my own journey...a mi trabajo.
Rompecabezas-love it.
How fun to see Connie and Oscar last night. As Max and RE see their world crashing and they fall apart, these two get closer and are finding what Max/RE never had. So happy for Connie, and someone can bottle Oscar for me please?
For her kiddies--don't want Melissa and CL as a couple, and I think poor Aldo is lonely.
Seriously with Boris--how long has he and Jana been broken up and he still calls her his novia? What a douchebag. I still worry about what this jerk could do before the end. But I do think eventually JanLor will be a twosome. (or I'm hoping).
As for Rod, I sound like a broken record, but these galans who remain dumbasses to the bitter end drive me insane. Honestly, he doesn't deserve Luce and if, well face it, when they get together in this TN he better grovel forgiveness at her feet. At least one partner in that pairing will have a brain in their head.
Which worries me still with Pato. His future is so perplexing to figure out and leaves me nervous. CL as well. The thought that the writers could do something to either or both and leave Luce only w/ Mr. Universe actually bothers me. Sorry.....
And I have to also thank you Judy for filling in the Chela scenes. I'll be honest, I can't watch those anymore. I'm not good watching a baby constantly crying...I was one of those mothers who never left her baby to cry. Well, when you have twins, you pounce. One cries, you better answer or you've got two going. But still...it does nasty things to my heartstrings.
The vocabulary (embedded and list) and dicho were excellent. What's better than sopping up these fantastic phrases?
The episode. ITA with all who rejoiced in Connie's happiness and frowned at Gala's pathetic attempt to show her perfect family.
I thought Luci reacted perfectly to Melissa's admission. It would be difficult and cruel to dim the light in her eyes (father worship? true love?) but frankly, there has been absolutely no indication Claudio considers Melissa anything but a friend. Will the lightening bolt strike him? Not sure...
And Brigida. An enigma. What is going on in that feverish brain?
Thanks again Judy. Simply outstanding.
Diana
I can also tell everyone is as distressed with that frightened baby crying as I am (Daisynjay...I too pounced whenever my babies cried...I wanted them to grow up knowing there was a kind and loving response to their distress...so that they in turn would grow up to be confident, kind human beings.
And Vivi...I also think it's that wretched beard that's scaring little Mateo. And wouldn't you know, don Chelo smashed him right into it when he held him. Idiot! ('Scuse me...got a little carried away there.)
Diana...yes, indeed...what's going on in Brigida's feverish brain. She reminds me a little bit of that Dickens character, Uriah Heap, who was servile and overhelpful, but simmered with resentment and vengeance underneath. Okay by me...as long as the vengeance is wreaked on Roselena and Gala!
Violeta is the product of two strong-willed feisty people (even if we think don A. is despicable).
EMARIE...Glad you still have hope for Rodrigo. I do, at times, but it's taking an awfully long time for him to grow up. Typical in TN writing but frustrating for us viewers.
CAROL has expressed what a lot of us are feeling right now...that the spark between Luciana and Rodrigo has faded. And I keep remembering that one dream where she saw Pato coming towards her while Rodrigo hovered way to the side. I don't know if that's foreshadowing or not. Just wish we could skip ahead a month and be at the grand finale!
DECIE GIRL...."a perfectly realized relationship". What a great way to describe Oscar and Connie. Yes, the writers have given us romantics one consolation in the midst of this sturm und drang. I suppose it might be boring if that was all there was...but I sure could use an expansion of their happy scenes right now.
UA...I think Gala DOES own the magazine. She always refers to it as HERS. But in the real world it would be highly unlikely that anyone would want to read about her life. She's no Princess Di.
MADS...Thanks for the name Carolla. I had no idea (wasn't sure about Delia either)...although I knew she was Julie's hard partying friend.
Sum total: We're at the "hot mess" stage of our story. The hard tedious slog while we wait anxiously for things to be resolved. Hopefully sooner rather than later.
I hadn't seen any ads in this tn (refreshing) until last night when they had a very subtle ad (like in the US) when a Miller Lite truck was in the background as Lor, Fab and Aldo spoke, then it drove off. I'm not sure if the sodas Aldo brought them might have also been something being advertised, but once again it was so subtle that I couldn't tell for sure. Very different than having 20 bags of Tostitos/Tostachos in one kitchen, or having someone excitedly talk about the virtues of a certain chicken stock. :)
I also cringed when Gala was like 'what baby??' and loved Julie's face... seems even Julie and Frigida have their limits as far as being coldhearted... Julie probably because the baby is her grandchild, Frigida probably because she has her obsession with Rod and the baby is Rod's child.
But in any case, they do have their limits whereas it seems neither RE or Gala do.
And as far as the chickenwire around baby Rod is concerned, it seems the box/stroller/carrier is simpler now than it used to be, i thought what i saw early on was more of those thin metal looking xmas garland strings rather than chicken wire, but i could be wrong.
I too am loving the Oscar/Connie romance, loved when RE insisted to Mati that Connie would come back repentant later on and Mati said maybe she won't because she will rather be glowing of happiness.
The thought that the writers could do something to either or both and leave Luce only w/ Mr. Universe actually bothers me. Sorry.....
me too, especially last night when he was telling Mati and Jorge (therapist) that he would not be satisfied until he got to walk and he was more than willing to take risks to get there... ouch!... anvil alert.
Rod has already asked for forgiveness on his knees for the way he treated Luci. She forgave him and they've moved on from that. That's not the issue anymore. The issue is that he's not free, and she's not spending her time thinking about that or mooning over him. I'm fine with that. There'll be time for romance once he's really free, once he's become a stronger man, and once they have their child back.
Yola
Oh shoot, VIVI..this telenovela was expanded also! They always manage to ruin a good story that way, don't they? Twenty-five more episodes to go sounds horrendous. Poor Mateo!
MARTA...Yes, wasn't that a powerful scene?...just the sound of the birds as Roselena drifted through the house like a bitter ghost. She is so "put together" on the outside, and so ugly and twisted on the inside. Powerful, disturbing character. I think a lot of us are hoping she gets the nod for "best villain" in the awards ceremonies.
VIVI..your analysis of why there's no spark between Rod and Luciana is right on. Both are dealing with two much in their separate arenas. The birth of his daughter has effectively cut into his time and energy for her and their missing son. Arrrggggh an extension....double ACK!
But my mind doesn't work that way when I write...I need to find a way to organize it in my head before I can put pen to paper, so to speak. Perhaps because I'm a bit ADD and sometimes the rapid back and forth of the scenes makes it difficult to find my footing.
Does that make sense?
Anyway, it's great to have this congenial and open support group, 'cause we sure are dealing with a lot of fictional misery right now.
I AGREE WITH you about Rod as a Galan - Not very good or persuasive!
I am new to the TN World and just finished watching SORTILEGIO for the 1ST Time just ths past Friday & Alex/Alejandro played by William Levy was EVERYTHING you could ever ask for as a Galan in a TN.
Incedentally Gabriel Soto was also in that TN - not very believable there either in his portrayal of Fernando!
JudyB, the song in that scene is O Solo Mio. It's not an opera aria although it is frequently recorded by opera singers and is occasionally used as an insert in operas where a tenor character wants to show off.
One of the issues I have with this story in general is that it show that men are basically useless and it seems to lean in the direction of Luci being better off without Rodrigo. I personally hate the single-mother-is-better-off mindset because I think that (barring abuse) a child is better off with two parents.
The silent background to the scene of Roselena in the house was very profound. I'd like to think this is the precursor to her fate. She is so wrong about -- and so envious of -- Connie and Oscar.
Don Chelo... interesting that he named the baby "Mateo" after this actor's last novela character (in Mi Pecado)
And you're right UA about Mateo..interesting tidbit. I love the name as my favorite uncle was named Matthew.
I understand your qualms about the single-mother-is-better-off mindset. When I was teaching French in a small college, I did not expect to marry and planned to adopt hard-to-place children as a single parent. Once I actually married and had children, I realized what a daunting task it was to raise a family, even with two parents. My husband wasn't around much, but his occasional appearance, and the financial support were crucial and much appreciated.
I don't know how single mothers do it...but they do. And since I assume there are many single mothers in Mexico, maybe this message is meant to encourage and fortify them. I doubt if many actually CHOOSE to be single parents, but alas it often works out that way.
AMOR...Most of us were madly in love with Wm. Levy the first time Sortilegio played.
Gabriel Soto was not at his best in that one and the romance with Levy's stepmom was really off-putting and hard to believe.
Rod is the usual feckless galan but he needs to step up to the plate and be a man. It annoys me that he doesn't seem to be more actively looking for his son. Max and Claudio appear to be using their resources in the search and seem more concerned than Rod. I hated his counterpart in the prior version through most of the last third of the story but he at least was always consistent in his love for Luci and earned her by the end. This Rod just comes across as one of those types who gives lip service to his OTL but is on to the next new thing. He is so not a multi-tasker like Luci is and unless he makes some major changes i don't want him to end up with Luci. She deserves better.
Twenty five episodes may seem like a lot but there is plenty of story to be told without cramming in extra stuff like extensions usually do. The writers have always moved at a steady pace without rushing the story or throwing in a load of time fillers (unless you count some of the Het Het hi jinks). We need a resolution to the Max fraud story and that looks like we are going to see more of tonight. We need to advance or end the teen Lor/Jana romance, punishment for Gagme and Rosa. a divorce for Rod, good things for Pato, an end to the Vi/Magda/ Don A story, good riddance to Lastra, and of course finding the baby. With this much time my guess is a leap forward in time before finding the baby and reconciling him with his mother and father. It would be too easy if Luci found him in the next couple of days. Unfair but then we would be saddled with TN stupidity.
In this TN, Luce has a wonderful support network as well, and that can make the experience more positive. I had my dad around until the twins were 11, and a better male role model couldn't be asked for. Two loving parents-absolutely ideal, but I like the idea to show a woman, or a man, successfully raise their kids alone if that is their circumstance.
But so glad you had your father there during the early years...and wish he were still with you now. We never stop missing our beloved parents, do we?
Also, I am aware, that in Hispanic countries, the extended family IS very important in raising children. They don't seem to get quite as "nuclear" as we do. All the better, since parenting requires so much energy and input.
It's like that in Abismo de Pasion also...but it's been "jeez already for about 2 months now! Hopefully our stagnant period won't be that long. We shall see.
It would be interesting if Chelo turned out to be Frigida's brother. They will both be confounded at such a discovery.
When Don Boxcar mentioned a sister, I thought it would be Juli but I like the idea of Brigida. She's losing her Frigida name since she seems really annoyed at the girls' behavior. Que nina??? The one you've been ignoring for the 2 days that she's been alive! Bruja. Why don't they have fliers out? The boxcar Don wondered if the baby had a family who loved him. If there were fliers around, he might find out the truth and we could get that kid in a proper crib.
Vio looked like a super hero standing there in her jumper and belt that I'm pretty sure has superhero tchotchkes all around it. SuperVio! Protecting the world from the evil BorisBoy and LulaChula (thanks to Fabian for that fun nickname).
Kelly
Sounds like we're getting on board for Brigida being don Chelo's sister (KELLY, UA, DECIE GIRL). Only problem...how did she turn out so ugly (sorry, but she is!) with such a pretty mother.
Well, anyway, another intriguing mystery to be solved...in 25 episodes or less.
Spot on re everyone, especially weak Rod.
Melissa, she does gleam and glow, doesn't she?
Gala and the mag, I think she told Rod it would be expected of her to showcase the bebe cuz it was her mag.
Don Chelo, something must be up with his parentage since they zoomed in close about 3 times on that photo. Hmmmm. Small world again.
Much appreciated, vocab too!
Clara
I enjoyed the Boris confrontation greatly.
Am I the only one rooting for the Melissa/Claudio paring? There have been many May-December romances that have worked (my DIL's sister and her professor husband). Mel & Clau both have the same temperment, same outlook on life and do look sweet together.
I loved Oscar's welcoming gesture with open arms to Conny. I wish them well. Note to Conny: Stay away from RE--she'll poison your well of happiness.
Don Chelo's scenes were getting old for me, until he got out the picture of his mother. Brigida? Maybe. I'd like to see his sister turn out to be Juli or Roselena. We know RE came from a family with enough means to send her to college, but not to provide her mouth with silver spoons. As for Juli, it would just serve her right--two boozers in a pea pod.
How many bottles of booze he had around. Yes, the fact they most all had liquid in them was just for effect. A serious alcoholic would have finished them all except the last one. He had a fortune in liquor there, at least one of those bottles would buy Mateo formula and diapers for a few more days.
Don C sure did have a lot of hootch hidden around but he had been trying to stop drinking because of little Mateo. Serious alcoholics always have a hidden stash just in case and prior to LRod/Mateo's arrival Chelo had nothing else to spend money on. I do wish he would get the little guy a nicer box to sleep in.
ANITA...forgoshsakes, we all love the scene by scene translation...and you cover it so well. I just don't feel able to do it any more. I did it that way for three years and then quit for a while, because of recap fatigue (and a lot of two-hour shows).
I agree that the multitude of half-full bottles had to be for dramatic effect. Although DECIEGIRL is right that an alcoholic always has some stash for a rainy day, I just don't think the few pesos don Chelo earns on the street would finance that many, and all half full.
Now, as to the Melissa/Claudio question. There has to be some reason why it's in there and why it keeps coming up. I can't quite wrap my mind around it, but that doesn't mean it doesn't work in real life. My great grandfather married his second wife (first wife died) at age 65. His bride was 25! And had turned down one of his 8 son's marriage proposals some years earlier. They went on to have five children, including my grandmother, and if they hadn't, I wouldn't be here.
Gala and Roselena are in a race to see who can reach the lower circle of hell first, was great.
Decie Girl---Yes, Max is loosing every round.
Carol---I too was thinking that the past love/mirrage was/is fading---Pato and Luci? maybe.
I noticed as well that Roselena looked very alone when she was walking through the house last night. Things to come? I say yes.
Vivi---You're so right. There is a BIG difference between Luciana and Elisa in Abismo.
the gringo
Thanks to everybody for your insights, observations, humor and empathy. We have a great group!
Would love to see an outtake of little Rod/Mateo's scenes. Surely his mom is right off camera waiting to soothe him.
Kelly
Right, KELLY, I'm surprised Roselena doesn't have some of those special noise machines that some cities here use to scare away the starlings.
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