Friday, August 14, 2015
Why, if you weren't a woman I'd. . . .! La Sombra del Pasado #128 (Mex 131) Friday, 8-14-15
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I did not enjoy the wailing Mari scene as much as I thought I would have. I don't know what it was. Her parents were just so upset. I wasn't sure when Irma slapped her whether she was angry or just wanted Mari to snap out of it.
How did Tomas find out who the baby daddy was? I feel like I missed something there.
OK, so Cris knows now. I was almost afraid Aldonza was going to say it in front of all three of them and she and Lola were going to have to keep Cris and Em from both going after Sev at the same time.
I probably have a lot more to say, but I feel like I'm in shock!
"We are up close and personal with all the misty eyes bathed in the soft glow of tens of votives ,warm embraces and a view from above as the crowd gently parts as Padre walks amidst them and takes his leave". A beautiful scene. I only hope we have not seen the last of the Padre. He is greatly needed and is the voice of reason and persuasion that will help bind and heal.
"Mari is grasping her head and wailing like “The Scream”,"Uriel and Irma exchange pregnant glances (sorry)" and "They enter and find her in the throes of labor. . . .the labor of guilt" were among many stellar lines.
Cris now knows the terrible truth. It is crucial that after he absorbs this atrocity and the physical and mental ramifications, he and Aldonza talk so she can rant, rave, cry and unburden herself. There is so much anger and pain. Can it ever be lessened? Even if they seek immediate counseling (with the dear Padre), some wounds are too deep to be healed.
Humberto's family has disintegrated before our eyes. I thought Pru was bringing her daughter some refreshing orange juice, only to see it was her omnipresent cocktail. Whatever was I thinking? I had to smile when Tomas was lighting into her telling her Sylvia left, she let it slip for a moment that she was happy. I adore Cynthia Klitbo.
Now that Cande knows the truth about Valeria, she has now lost her grandchild in addition to her son and husband. She will be doomed to a lonely life. And very richly deserved.
I felt not a whit of pity for Mari but did feel badly for Irma and Uriel whose spawn has caused them so much unhappiness. I cheered when Irma told Mari to make things right. I hope the news of their grandchild gives them some comfort.
Things are at a standstill for Lola and Eman as well as Renato and Sylvia. Who will break the respective stalemates first?
Lila, thank you for doing this fantastic recap so quickly.
Diana
Diana
Favorite line: "Val is almost unrecognizable without her smirk". Ooh, how I have wanted to see her get her comeuppance.
Favorite scene, hands-down: Tomas spilling the "baby" beans to Irma and Oso. Yay!
Mari didn't confess quite all to her parents: she omitted her theft of Irma's money, and also that she knew Val was expecting Lardo's baby. That is a pretty major thing to hide.
Loved Pru's boots and leggings. However on top she looked like a nun, all she needed was a wimple.
More later!
J in Oregon
Diana, you are right that Cande has lost a lot. In fact, she, Sev and Hum are seeing their families, their world disintegrating and Cris must feel the same way, too. Oh. My. Goodness. Cris must be fervently praying that this is the bottom. How long before Eman and Renato find out.
Oh Lord, guys. It's nearly midnight. I need to rest up for the weekend chores and hanging out on the Patio to enjoy everybody's reaction to this epic episode as we rock towards the end!
So freaking good!So freaking GREAT!!!
We get another view of that beautiful, candle-lit farewell to Padre Jeronimo. We are up close and personal with all the misty eyes bathed in the soft glow of tens of votives , warm embraces and a view from above as the crowd gently parts as Padre walks amidst them and takes his leave. You perfectly captured the tone and production intent in the way you crafted these sentences.
He never has anything positive to say to her! How in the hell can he when she is always talking nonsense! Totally made me laugh.
So did Let’s check back in the law office. . .what? Silvia now has a laptop and is continuing to work while Pato’s head is down on the desk and he’s slobbering and babbling about how she needs to turn in and how he's going to need a lot of work to keep his mind off his grief: two women broke his heart today. . . .Yah. These guys are in trouble. I think Ren said something about how she's a pillar for the law office. Um, more like the whole damn foundation. You turned down a woman with that kind of work ethic to hang out with someone who's been shown "working" the farm once? Standards, Ren. Standards.
Mari. Well, my nemesis finally got the Tell-Tale Heart conclusion. Applause. I'm glad that her parents are pissed and glad that she so clearly felt guilty and remorseful (unlike Val. Sigh. Oh Val...), but I was way more satisfied to see Val slapped than I was Mari. Because even though I'd like to see Pato walking away with Vero, or Silvia or even Lulu, Mari's repented and it wouldn't be a Catholic TN if that didn't earn her angel time in the form of Pato. Sigh.
I do hope her knowing about BabyLardo and stealing the money come out, but niggling me more is the fact that Val's affair, post broken engagement are coming to light. The constantly boozy Pru gives me hope.
Wonder if Ren will pull a Cris and chase down Sil's bus.
Lola - Ugh! Still?! I so totally hope Eman kicks her butt to the g.d. curb!!! I've never hated her with Tofie's passion, but her cold stone wall treatment of Eman is just oo much! When he dumps her butt in his past, I hope he points out that she took the word of her sworn nemesis over his.
What would Pru have thought was aoppropriate amount if Silvia had been blinded?!
Oh Lord. Fell asleep typing. It's time for some sleep!
Lila, they took the brakes off the roller coaster car. WHEEEEEEEEEE!
Let's pack it in and do this tomorrow!
Confessions are in the air. Now hum needs to fess up. He should take his own advice and Take responsibility for his part years ago.
Those two slaps were heard around SL. "The
Cande slap", I haven't seen anybody slap someone as well as cande can slap. She should get a patent for that. Ok thats crazy and its late I should go to bed.
Sorry to see padre go, but he'll be back for the wedding, he'll be officiating at the wedding. Goodnite p peeps, I'll talk more when the suns up. ☆
Lila, sweet recap.
I enjoyed Val's downfall and Cande's continuing losses. Mari's blubbering was annoying, although I was pleased with her confessions. Don't know why Hum is surprised Val won't take responsibility. She learned from her mother, who refuses responsibility as well.
Props to Tomas for being a stand-up guy and calling Pru to account. And then going to tell Lardo's parents they have a grandbaby on the way. Maybe a chance to raise this one better than Mari and Lardo?
Finally--Chris turns his back on both parents AND learns exactly what Sev did to Aldonza. Lots of stuff to shake down in the next few days.
The downfall of the Zapata and Mendoza families continue in epic style. Loved all the confrontations this episode, especially the ones where Val gotten handed her a** by Cande and Hum. It looked like things were going down the drain for the Lagos family too, but then Tomas brought them hope with the grandchild news. I'm surprised Irma and Oso didn't wheel around and ask Mari if she knew, since they are friends. Irma probably would have slapped her again for keeping this from them. However, all she would have to do is say Sever threatened her to keep her mouth shut, but then Oso really would have turned into a bear and gone after the bastard like he did before. It could still happen.
Really looking forward to Monday to see how Cris continues to react to the news that his father raped his wife. I'm so glad it's out now. Now they can actually start the process of healing. It has become a little easier for Aldonza to tell her story. It's like telling Don Tonio opened a floodgate.
Yeah, Mari's whole being can kind of be summed up as equal to some escaping intestinal gas.
PJ's departure was touching. He certainly has impacted SL and its people, and it's not like, in his mind, he did anything special. He only acted righteously and honestly, always working for truth and justice. But, in SL, that counts for heroism, and the town realized it.
It is questionable whether anyone would want Cande as a friend, but certainly no one would want her as their enemy. And boozy Pru's prediction is probably spot on: Wait till the gossip starts!
Oh. My. God. Cris now knows that Sev is not only capable of a multiplicity of nasty, cruel deeds, but HE RAPED ALDONZA!!! Gee, that's going to make Thanksgiving dinner awkward, isn't it?
I just love the Tomas character. He has developed so well under PJ's tutelage.
Silvia is really getting more loveable as this thing unfolds, and it seems to me that Renato is finally seeing some small glimmer of what he has destroyed for himself. Whatever unfolds for her, I wish her the very best.
So Lola won't give Eman a chance until Mari confesses her duplicity? That kind of thinking should send Eman running after Vero and never looking back.
How hard is it going to be to identify Sev's latest stooge, what with him driving around town in PJ's former car?
Oh, man! My wife has committed us to go to a family reunion in Buffalo, N.Y. and I may miss the last episodes!!!
Today is the twins' 5th birthday.
Thanks again, Lila. So much happening, and you shone throughout.
David
And speaking of ‘let one rip, (what a coincidence), did y’all pay attention to Cris’ face in that final scene? Our non-galán’s cara de bobo after Aldi told him The Truth, had me guffawing and howling with laughter. Not only did plant life gain more I.Q. points, Cris’ face looked like he was trying to NOT “let one rip”. Sorry, patio peeps, that was my brain’s knee-jerk reaction last night. This guy needs remedial acting school, or something!
(you see why I howled when I saw your reference in Mari's scene, Lila)
Good on Tomas for blasting Pru.
Mari, here’s a quarter, call someone who cares. That whole scene was so NOT CONVINCING, lazy writers.
It was so very nice to see Vile get smacked, for a change.
I am so over all these people and will be glad to get them out of my life. Sev's anvil better be worth it.
What a slap fest. Always fun stuff when done to the right people. It allows for my secret fantasy side that would just love to haul off and do that to some miscreants myself. We live vicariously through these folks I swear. Cande really let it rip. I think there were a few pent out feelings against Sev in those slaps.
I guess we will have Irma and Uriel now stepping in maybe to offer Val what she needs to have the baby. What I sincerely hope is that the deal is they get the child PERIOD and she can sail off into the sunset with her drunken mother. If that town is so closed minded, those very people that Pru waas able to pay, will turn on her and she's toast. I think Tomas would see to that.
Speaking of whom...who knew Tomas would be so pivotal with these truths spilling? His confrontation with Pru was pure gold ( and Cynthia--honestly, could she have shown better Pru's selfishishness, cluelessness (is that a word?) and immaturity?)
I do want I/U with all my soul to also learn that Mari knew about this scam as well. She looked pretty spooked standing there. Now I'll say this....Alexis could give his wife some acting lessons. Lord, that was painful to watch the overacting. Whatever, good slap by mom too though. They have definitely had some learning lessons on how spoiling and turning blind eye didn't work with their kids. Considering the gene pool of Lardo's child, they need to get this next one right if they raise it.
So, ok, they did the Silvia right. No undying words of love from Ren, instead a look that he knows he screwed up and he respects Silvia to let her do what she feels she has to. She'll be back I bet.
Still not too keen on such a wrap up for our lovebirds. They are essentially laying out all the concerns we have had with them. They will need some time and effort to work through all this so I hope they have the smarts to show that in this last week once Sev meets his doom. I actually had a moment as Cris was going to leave town and Silvia was leaving that ...you know what, maybe these two should meet up somewhere, forget SL and fall in love. A girl can dream.
And speaking of dreaming....in my mind Lola got one good slap up the head from me on that crap to E-man. She doesn't believe him huh? She still believes the lying harpy over the supposed man she loves? After everything he went thru, she can look him in the face and call him a liar? Just NO NO NO! These two make no sense and just having Mari tell her she lied does not make it all ok.
I have a feeling the next couple episodes are going to get pretty dark if we have any indication of how things roll in this show. And I miss Wed-Fri leaving to visit my son in Atlanta end of week so will have to work with recaps and then watch when I get back on Sunday. Maybe that's the better way to do it. He has a new rescue puppy I don't want to scare the daylights out of screaming at the TV :)
Daisynjay
Mari could get away with saying that she suspected that Abelardo was the sperm donor (I hate that stupid word babydaddy) and Vile tried to evade the issue. Then Sev came after her with a veiled threat. Tomas knew because he knew that Abelardo was fooling around with Vile and that Cristobal was not.
From this point on the only death that should happen is Sev's but he's likely to kill one more person first, knowing these programs as I do.
I agree that Mari's confessions don't make it right. Even what her parents are saying will happen won't be enough.
More later.
Nice work too comparing Pru's eyes to those dorky velvet paintings of the 60's. You're right...her eyes were HUGE and very dark. Got a kick out of your description of Pato's bedhead and your quip to Renato "Too late, dudester."
I found all the slaps disturbing, but that's just me. Alexis Ayala though, continues to delight (in spite of his loathsome character) with his style. The arrogant hand gesture letting his stealth minion know he was dismissed from the table at the cantina was just perfect. Alexis really knows how to play his part.
I've always like Lola but last night she really disappointed me. Interesting to see how the writers will wrap up that relationship.
Lila, it was great day when you decided to recap regularly. You're quite a writer and seem to have really hit your stride with this one.Style and exuberance. Muchas gracias.
Hell no. Pru can't be nobodys grandma, that's just bad on all levels.
Hey, Nina! Thank you! major drama dump indeed! ITA with all you say. Mari's confession left out a few things as my friends above have noted but we'll see if all the truths get wrung out of her. She already sees like she wants to back peddle the very next morning! And yes! Cris has the whole story now. Let's see what we do with it!
Vivi! Thank you, girl! The downfall of the Zapata and Mendoza families continue in epic style. You said it! And yes, the story is definitely rivited, in my mind at least, on Cris and Aldonza. Love your floodgate reference! Maybe this horrible atrocity will bring out and show us this epic love they've tried to sell us on. We know she's not going to get therapy so we have to go with "time and love heals all wounds."
Thanks, David! I LOVE this: Yeah, Mari's whole being can kind of be summed up as equal to some escaping intestinal gas. And this, on PJ:
PJ's departure was touching. He certainly has impacted SL and its people, and it's not like, in his mind, he did anything special. He only acted righteously and honestly, always working for truth and justice. But, in SL, that counts for heroism, and the town realized it.
Don't mean to call you out while I call you out but have you ever recapped? You're quite a word and concept meister, for real!
And yes, Thanksgiving, Christmas, every holiday, hey, LIFE will be awkward! How are they going to pull this off!
ITA re Lola and duh, what a great point about the one stooge in PJ's car!
Happy Birthday Twins!! Have fun at your reunion, David and The Sombra Dream Team will rock out all the action for ya!
Thank you Lila for making this recap so detailed that I don't feel as though I missed out (as much).
DaisynJay- Hot-lanta! Our son lived there for six years, first in Chamblee and then Norcross. I liked everything about it except the traffic. Have a great trip!
I'm with you all about Lola still believing Mari over Eman. I mad that the writers are going to continue to have that couple end up together.
So what will Cris do with the info about the rape? Kill him? Beat him Up?
Cathyx- here's a link to the episode: https://m.youtube.com/?reload=7&rdm=1n8s0j568#/watch?v=3eLF4zawY5o
And happy birthday to the twins.
Lila thank you for the excellent recap, had to watch football last evening, am saving this episode for tonight.
"Eman protectively interrupts this painful train of thought"
"Law Offices of Sylvia and the Dead Beats"
"Val is almost unrecognizable without her smirk!"
"while Mari looks like she just let one rip and the smell is going to waft over to her parents noses aaaaany minute"
Tomas - here, take a photo of my good side, looks a lot like PJ don't it
Renato - damn, my bedroom eyes and pout didn't work this time
Pru - sooooo, we won't be coming over for Christmas?
Silvia - self respect looks great on you
Mari - crap, was I supposed to feel bad about the baby too
Lola - I just love kicking him in the groin
Abelardo - in case you're wondering, I get paid every time my name is mentioned
Aldonza - now will you leave me alone
Cris reminds me of that poster of a cat called "My Many Moods". First pic: angry. Second pic: annoyed. Third pic: happy, etc. But it's the same exact photo for every mood. Cris succeeds only in looking mildly puzzled no matter what the emotion. Just my opinion.
J in Oregon
Who knew that Tomas was going to change so much with Padre's guidance. His trip down the yellow brick road was a big success. What a transformation.
David...Happy Birthday to the twins. Today is also our wedding anniversary. Have fun in Buffalo. I have never spent more than breakfast there on our trips to and from Toronto. (For some reason my type has gotten bigger ????) Okay......pool time. Later.
Doris! Thank you, girl. You have ME cracking up now! Yah, the bombs were dropping. I love this: Irma has not figured out, yet, that every time she wears that green eyeshadow, she will have a bad day.
DaisynJay! Hey, girl! Fantasy and vicarious fulfillment through seeing folk get slapped. Yep! Novela viewing at its best! If Irma and Uriel end up supporting Val through this pregnancy it will be another case of the care and feeding of a rotten offspring. The innocent baby will be a joy and a chance to do it right. Hopefully Val will let them adopt the baby and skedaddle! ITA re Eman and Lola, I think we all are. She sooo doesn't deserve him! Enjoy your visit with your son, the Sombra Team will keep you in the loop!
Thank you, Urban! ITA on your hate of babydaddy-- UGH! Yah, Mari could wiggle out of that easily. As someone mentioned earlier, just tell the truth that Sev threatened her. To keep Oso out of trouble yes, she can say she suspectd but didn't know. Thanks for the reminder of how Tomas knew. He knew Abelardo was slaughtering Mari.
My gosh, JudyB! You're talking about me? Jeez, girl, thank you! I totally agree with you about Alexis and love this:
Alexis Ayala though, continues to delight (in spite of his loathsome character) with his style. The arrogant hand gesture letting his stealth minion know he was dismissed from the table at the cantina was just perfect. Alexis really knows how to play his part.
Yes. Alexis is bringing it and I bet even as his anvil descends he's going to shine! I can't wait!
Nina, we're all hoping that Pru doesn't have ANY contact with babylardo!
Ok, back to yardwork. Working in 80+ degree hot sun should be worth some weight elimination!
:D
I never expected Tomas to be the one to spill about the baby, but it might be just what it takes to get Pru to stop bothering him.
David--have such fun with the twins!! Bet your weather will be better than mine.
tofie--your Pru line is priceless!! And, yeah, couldn't agree more as you know with the Lola comment.
Daisynjay
tofie, Renato - "damn, my bedroom eyes and pout didn't work this time" and "Pru - sooooo, we won't be coming over for Christmas?" made me laugh out loud.
daisy, wish you a wonderful trip and the story of your new fur grandchild was very moving. It's so heartening that there are wonderful people like your son who step up and rescue. There is a special place in heaven for those who take care of and cherish God's creatures.
Happy birthday to the twins David.
So many other wonderful comments.
Diana
I also find it kinda lame that after a whole show of waiting on Aldonza hand a foot, and being her bf (I guess unless that has mysteriously changed) Renato may suddenly "wake up", want Silvia and she'd welcome him with open arms, thus leaving Aldonza "single", needing a man and that be Cris.
Lola, what a worthless waste of a hair barrette. I know, I know, she's not a bad girl and she does try to help people but her treatment of Emanuel is abysmal, continuing to this day. She crushed on him, forwardly kissed him, hooked him and he has never wavered but oh, she has. Now this is a guy she has known her whole life and she has not once given pause to think he may be telling her the truth. She prefers to believe a girl she knows hates her guts and I think it's because she wants to. Lola is insecure because Emanuel is friggin hot and she wants to break him like a horse. What about Lola and Pato? She played with that poor guy the whole time too but angry as she would get at him when she knew Mari and he friendly, she still agreed to marry him. Emanuel won't even walk on the same side of the street as Mari but Mari works for Pato. If I were giving advise to Emanuel and she got all snotty like she did last night, she could run upstairs, pack her bags and get the hell out of his house.
David, good point about the car. The whole town saw it handed over to Padre J...we, who didn't see that edited-out scene, are the only ones who didn't! Happy Birthday to the twins :D
doris, your observation about Irma and the green eyeshadow is cracking me up! So true!
tofie, "Silvia - self respect looks great on you" my favorite one today. Silvia is one helluva class act!
J in O, I'm laughing at your description of Cris' (lack of) facial expression and the cat poster. Yep, that's him all right.
Susanlynn, Happy Anniversary!
Lila, don't get dehydrated with all that yard work...break early and often :p
tofie, I can see how telling Renato that Sev raped her and trying to figure out what they can do about it legally would be a good move to keep Em and Cris from going after him themselves and getting hurt or killed or even just arrested for assault in the process.
So may people traveling in the coming week! I wish you all safe travels--David, Daisynjay, tofie, and anyone else I missed.
I'm going to pretend, until proven otherwise, that Padre J and Silvia are rendezvousing in San Miguel so they can figure out how to fix this mess.
I'm amazed by the turn around Tomas made, the actor made me believe that he went from bum to decent human being- in fact I watched a little bit of his previous novela just to catch scenes with him in it.
Awww poor Cris, he just can't win.
tofie, now THAT would be quite a team. Padre J, Silvia, Don Antonio...hell, throw Vero in there, too.
Anywho! Thank you, Cathyx! It always makes me feel all warm and fuzzy when somebody says they weren't able to watch. We 'cappers live to serve!
Tofie! Girl, your list is the bomb-diggety! LOVE Pru, Mari and Lola's lines the best! Each one really captures their essence from the episode! I could have smacked Lola!!! Again. I will sing the praises of this novela forever if Eman comes to the realization that Lola is not who he thinks she is and they'd be better off being just friends, if that.
Happy Anniversary, Susanlynn!
Tofie@ 1:24!! Lola, what a worthless waste of a hair barrette. Love it and everyword that follows thereafter. Yah, it's his house! Her distrust of him and basically believing he's a scheming, deceptive liar is deeply insulting and HE ought to ask HER to leave! Uuuuuf!
Silvia and the Deadbeats is right!
I know it's already been said, but the pregnant glances line was classic.
Happy anniversary, Susanlynn!
Happy birthday to the twins, David!
J in O
J in O, what word, "Mari"? Yeah, not sure that's appropriate in polite company :p
And, no disrespect intended to the actress, but I don't think she was up to the job. She made us despise "Mari", that was easy, but don't think she is up to the task of making us like her.
J in O
Sara! Sister and Teamie tambien! Hey, girl! I'm happy to have saved you from Mari, my dear! Big grin!
Hey, Diva! Glad your hanging out and keeping the ball rolling. Even if the episode is smokim', Saturday is a busy day. I hope today and til the end everybody comes around and critiques this thing.
How and when do y'all think Padre J will reappear?
Sara, that was such a missed opportunity, not having Mari pay off Irma's debt. And you're right, they're not giving us enough time to adjust to spoiled brat Mari suddenly becoming sweet, apologetic (barf!) Mari.
FYI- my DVR is only showing a one hour Fin. There might be some editing.
Thing is if Mari really wanted to come clean and was redeemable she still was protecting her mentor Valeria by not telling her parents they may be grandparents. Instead it's a visit from their son's reformed neer do well side kick. Mari missed her chance.
Caused the most pain of the past are almost gone, sev is the last one. Now while cande and, Hum played a big part in the pain causeing situations, they have a soul, sev has none. Thats why I say almost gone are the major pain causeing players, sev being the last one. I can't see him continuing to breath with all that blood on his hands. And yet he stills plots to do harm. He is incappable of
Caring, the man is dead inside. He just needs to be buried.
tofie, I agree, she missed her chance.
Ironically, I thought it was pretty abrupt when Mari went "bad" in the first place, but damned if she didn't commit!
But. What the hey! We know where they're going with this, I just want to see more groveling before Eman AND Lola. Hell, she and Lola ought to get together since she obviously trusts her more than Eman. I just don't want my Eman with that rattle-brained Lola! Uuuuuf!
Now. If they are going to have her bond during the grief over the discovery that Sev murdered her mother, I think that is just sick and it makes me want to hurl! What a fractured story but then, so is that of the main couple. Kinda reminds me of "Fractured Fairy Tales" that used to come on the Rock and Bullwinkle Show!
The poor man has not built up his self-esteem yet and only DAYS after going through the worse news he could have gotten, Lola basically says he's a liar and he takes it. Because he always just took it before....it's his way of handling rejection from those he wants to love. The sick thing is the writers will have Mari fess up to Lola and Lola will go running with her sorries, etc. and he'll be overjoyed because, damn, someone besides his sister really loves him. A very very very poorly written love story and not really giving E-man a chance to learn to know himself. I would have loved to see him say no to any love interest and throw himself into his new property and home. Let Lola sit and stew and have to win his love back. But we won't get that.
Daisynjay
But I still like this, Sara:
It won't happen, but like cathyx I hope Em is there and he tells Lola "I told you so! Now I'm going to go find Vero!"
It would be nice if Mari could be shipped off to a convent. One where they have a view of silence and don't speak.
I am happy to have Alex Sirvent grace my TV screen any old time. I'll even go so far as to say, shirt or no shirt!
J in O
Unless. . .they are going to let the young 'uns handle it and the Senior Statesment, PJ, Camilo and Tonio will come in and declare, "Well Done!"
Eman needs to teach lola a lesson, let her see what it feels like to be rejected. I hate the way she treats him. She can be really mean.
She didn't get that from gramD and grampsM
I would like to vote for the addition of horses somewhere in there, maybe at one of the weddings. I think that would be cool.
In fact, copy and paste that for Aldonza and Cris as well. I ask again, how is it that Tomas is the characters with the best redemption, romance, and character development on this show??! I get that sometimes the character already starts off as a great person, self-assured and "good," strong and ready to jump into whatever the TN throws his or her way...but this was not the case for Eman, Cris, Al or Lola. Crappy. Just crappy.
On Mari's redemption: I don't mind her screaming, begging, crying breakdown. It was a lot, but what she did was a lot too. Paying off Irma's debt wouldn't have meant Jack-sh**, imo. So what if she had? How is that redeeming--it's her mom. It's a business that helps pay for the family, so her paying it off wouldn't have felt above or beyond in any way to me. It reminds me of Pru whipping out her checkbook to pay for stuff. But in terms of telling her parents about the baby, she could just go with the truth: she suspected, she confronted Val and Val denied it. The problem is still that she suspected it and didn't mention it to them at all.
Now that I'm thinking about it, the tias in this TN kind of suck. Which is unusual--aunts usually rock in TNs. Adelina was (unevenly) great to Aldonza, but she bailed on Eman. Pru sucked as a godmother to Cris. Mari's sobrina/o hasn't been born yet, but she's already sucked at that. Candela might be the most uniformly supportive one (until betrayed)!
I really just don't like Mari. Maybe I'll come around by the Fin, but I'll have to see more.
I am not buying Mari's sudden epiphany and regret. People treat people badly , and then, a few tears are supposed absolve them ? I am tired of Lola's sixth grade behavior. E deserves some happiness, love, and respect. He and Very had a lot in common and she seemed to be very attracted to him.v Don Ant was good to him. Sometimes,in telenovelas, as in life, there is no justice.Lola has to grow before she gets into a relationship.
I am hoping to get some romance in the next tekenovela. I do not need anymore angst.
What is happening with the coffin table ? Hasn't E shared this news with anyone except the police ?
They've really done a terrible job with these characters. Lola does indeed act like a 6th grader and I think Em deserves someone better. Vero tells Lola that Mari was a lying liar who lies. Then Vero tells Mari she was just a mean girl and that Vero knew this because she "used to be like her". Exactly...because Vero grew the hell up. Lola and Mari didn't. Even Em grew the hell up.
Lola isn't exactly a blanca paloma either. She has her share of bad deeds, too. They're only 6th grade pranks and pale in comparison to Mari's, but I don't see any remorse on her part.
And with Mari they just waited too long to convince me she wasn't that bad. Not to mention (as hellahselle pointed out) she put someone's LIFE at risk. For that reason it is going to be very hard for me to buy into this sudden turn around.
The coffin table
It's really time for them to get going on this, too. Hopefully this week. I think I remember Det. Incompetente telling Em to keep a lid on the information as well.
To Susanlynn
Students came back Thursday. It's kind of nice to start with a 2 day week, but it's the real deal starting tomorrow. My classes are not too big. I've got a class of 26 and a class of 28, but there are teachers in the system with 36 and 37 in their classes...so I'm not complaining!
Emeraldrose, I took some undergrad courses at SUNYAB in the early 70's (For you non-New Yorkers, SUNYAB = State University of New York at Buffalo). After I got back from 13 months in Korea,I was assigned to AFEES Buffalo (Armed Forces Entrance and Examining Station) at 1021 Main Street from Apr '68 until I got out of the army in Aug '69. Met my wife there (I worked on the second floor for the army, and she worked for the VA on the fourth floor), and we lived in Buffalo, then Cheektowaga until we moved to Indiana in '73. Our always-go-to eating place is Luneta's in Cheektowaga.
Susanlynn, happy anniversary to you and your guy!
Lila, you flatter me asking if I have ever recapped! No, I haven't, and I don't think my Spanish is yet good enough to do a good job. I am so in awe of how you all craft these retellings together with your wit and insight.
David
I want a dramatic TN where I can really cheer for the main couple. Lately, I like the galan, but don't like the heroine, or vice versa. Or the flat out make a horrid couple. These producers have got to do a better job on the main couples and their chemistry. Rulli and Boyer had chemistry oozing off the screen and unto my floor, it was rather messy, even though he was an idiot for a good chunk of the TN so when the romance hit, well...yeah.
Thanks for the update on the finale. So lucky me can watch the said pink bows live. Is it strange to say I would rather be able to watch live the MAYHEM and downright skip the pink bows. For the most part, they are going to be unbelievable no matter how they paint it. However, if we know Alex will be in prime position and given more than two seconds and shirtless, I'll be front and center. With wine. Smiling.
Daisynjay
All those interesting New York State names, David. For one year of my life (5 going on 6) we lived in Penn Yann, NY and then to Towanda, PA. Colorful nomenclature out East.
I know, I know. It just felt good saying that. I know he and Lola are endgame but she will go down as a rare "good guy" who went and stayed bad, at least on my list.
Susanlynn, you nailed it: This telenovela was long on angst and inaction and short on love and action.
Well, there should be no room for filler or nonsense last week. We're down to the wire!
If you take out her love triangle with Mari and Eman, Lola is a good character. She tries to help all her friends. She's supportive of her abuelos. She speaks the truth to power (Sever and Cande). And she's pretty forgiving-- although she reacted badly (understandably) to her grandparents who lied, and her mother who abandoned her, she came around fairly quickly.
And my dislike of Lola is only in her dynamic with Em and Mari.
Yeah, Emanuel has been a jerk at times but nearly everyone has kicked that poor puppy and he is not mean and he doesn't lie. I want to believe the real Emanuel is the one with Don Antonio, Veronica and that horse. That Emanuel flies cause he's free. Lola wants the Emanuel that is insecure and frightened of his shadow so she can be in control. First time Emanuel won a contest and female groupies lined up to see him Lola wouldn't be happy or proud of him but make him pay for a month or run off and get engaged to some dude and rub it in his face.
And I'm sticking up for Eman and forgiving him his bad reaction when he found out about his origins. I remember the sweet, quite and pensive soul in the beginning of the novela who was a good friend to Cris despite his recognition of the class difference and how he was near the end of his rope and without a direction in life and Cris got him the job at Las Animas. Before that I guess he was just floundering in that hell pit called the Zapata home. He took to his work with dedication and the modest use of his awesome natural talent with horses and it was Lola who stalked and forced a kiss on him. We know the rest of the story.
I dislike Lola and it's perhaps poor writing that has led to her rejection of Eman because all the other things she did for family and friends don't lead one to anticipate she would still so strongly reject him. I know nobody's perfect but she seems so committed to holding on to this betrayal by Emanuel which has no basis in reality and adding to that her treatment of Pato (and the stupid ingestion of his engagement ring which is surely been flushed into oblivion by now) leads me to overlook her noble acts and commit to MY dislike of her! And the whole tone of this rant is inspired by the baby-voiced, whining, impulsive, masochistic silly head that she is. So there! (I stamp my foot in her general direction!)
She's got blowing kisses while gutting him with a filet knife down. I still think of how she stood there and told him she didn't love him and was going to marry Pato when he was in jail pouring his heart out to her.
If you take out her love triangle with Mari and Eman, Lola is a good character. This is true. From purely a plot standpoint, Lola's been an important messenger in delivering info, especially to Cris. She's given us a number of fun moments with Candela in which she's stood her ground. Her confusion and anger over the S/V story was good, if underplayed. The probably with the character is it would be more believable if she were 12-15 years old (so switch out engagement ring for some kind of class or sports ring). It's the only way I can comprehend her stubbornness with Emanuel.
I mean, I get that she was hurt, hugely so, and sometimes the wound is so bad you remember the pain more than the event that led to it. Maybe that's what's happening with her. But it's been weeks now. She still hasn't realized her "messenger" might have lied? Ever other credible person has cast doubt on the events as Mari told them; why is she refusing? Is it just because now she's crazy embarrassed that she believed it in the first place? I don't think we've seen even a private moment of doubt from her.
I really want her (and Aldonza) to have a moment in which she realizes she was wildly unfair and she really let Eman down and maybe realizes that she's not ready for a relationship if that's how she's going to treat the object of her affection.
What they haven't shown is her going past acknowledging her issues, to seeking help to remedy them.
For his part, I'd love to see Cris realize that while he maintained his line about loving her to any and all who would listen, he never took more than a step towards figuring things out. His shining moment was their wedding night when he held her and said he loved her beyond the physical. This doesn't bother me quite as much because his character's lack of action feels like production constraints. It doesn't feel logical. Aldonza I could see acting the way she has; she's been in denial. Cris just seems ridiculous to the point where I feel like the writers constrained the character out of hand.
But no. Instead he just asks the same two liars to tell him the truth time and again.
Santa Lucia is supposed to the the gossip capital and suddenly everyone is quiet?
Lola is no better, she just took mari's word for truth, and she knew that Mary didn't like her. When she gets the truth that mari was lying and he was trying to tell her and she wouldn't listen he don't need to be so accepting of her after that cause she didn't give him a chance at all, even now she still won't listen. I think he can do better, maybe with an adult woman this time.
I remember as he killed Padre Sixto saying words to the effect that he could not let any thing or anyone upset the stability of his family. His role as the patriarch and the moral foundation and center of Las Animas and Santa Lucia are central to that stability but a creation of his own mind and an illusion he showed himself willing to murder again and again to protect. He's an arrogant, power-hungry, ego-centric monster but that he could, with just a phrase, reveal how vulnerable he is through the love of his son is a stroke of genius.
UA - I'm thinking that you're thinking "te quiero" would be the appropriate "I love you" for that situation? I was also taught that "te amo" was the more solidly romantic versio of "I love you," a fact which has only been reinforced by TNs.
Although, have you all seen the adorable Cheerios "Te amo" commercial? (It's featured heavily on uvideos.com). The darn actually made me tear up!
Sev was pointedly wounded the first time Cris professes disappointment in being his son. I think he cried. But as this TN has gone on, his reactions have been less and less concerned...until his stopping Cris in the woods.
Lila said it wonderfully above and I definitely agree. I find it very interesting that at the heart of so many of his worst crimes, his justification/motivation has always included Cris: He killed Padre Sixto to prevent scandal from breaking up his family; he refuses to acknowledge Eman as his son because Cris is the only child that matters, iho; he struck S/V's fatal blow after she said Cris might die, leaving her child has his "only" kid.
Of course, sleeping with his son's two girlfriends is somehow not hurtful, even though the very idea of Cande having feelings for someone else made him homicidal.
I think it's great. And I've now become more expressive myself. Which really startles some people!
Are there degrees of love? Or is it a yes/no proposition? If there are degrees, did Adelina "not quite love" Aldonza more or less than Sev "not quite love"s Cris? And where would Cande fit in that hierarchy?
Things I'm wondering.
That's a villain worthy of his stripes and worthy of Patio analysis!
Adelina loved Alzonza unconditionally. But she was also scared that if she revealed some hard truths she would lose that love, and it paralyzed her. It's a natural response.
Sever and Cande claim to love Cris, but their love is not unconditional. HE must conform to their desires and needs, otherwise they will threaten, manipulate, and harm until he breaks to their will.
Love's complicated. And there's the feeling of love and the way it's expressed as a behavior that don't always seem to go together. And there's whether people think the behavior is the right way to express the feeling.
Right now, I would say that Mari's parents do love her. But they are furious! And they're demanding/forcing her to go apologize. It's "tough love." Some parents have a hard time being "tough" with their kids because they think love is only shown with "nice" behavior.
And then you have Cris, who's been manipulated by both parents almost since birth. I don't think they DO love him, but they feel like they do. And their way of showing it is to micromanage his life as much as possible.
So I think Adelina was emotionally damaged, didn't know or really love herself, subordinated herself and ability to love to Roberta and gave Aldonza the best of herself that she could give, which was NO SMALL thing, protecting her as best she could, as she thought was best and stood by her until the day she was murdered.
I don't know whether to say I'm glad that Aldonza realizes she had a part to play in Adelina's death. YES SEV IS RESPONSIBLE but it is STILL TRUE that Adelina would NEVER have left Aldonza alone and had she left, she would NOT have been murdered. Just my opinion.
That child is loved by you, sounds natural to
Me. I like to hear it said by the telenova characters, the way it rolls off the tonque. Especially when its a husband and wife character or a boyfriend/girlfriend character. that's probably because I'm an American and I've never heard it said like that in English because well all people are not Spanish. But to hear it in another language it just sounds more romantic because it's different from what I'm used to hearing. I hope I didn't offend anybody.:-)
None of which contributes to a child becoming a healthy adult. It is no mystery that Aldonza, Cristobal, Lola, Emanuel, Abelardo, Mari, and Vile displayed no true healthy adult behavior either with their parents or each other.
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